So what's the deal with DATY?

Groomed doesn't mean bare...

To me its just gross to get a mouth full of hair YUCK!

Never feel like you can't ask questions during DATY. I don't mind giving directions and I don't mind when a gent gives me directions to make his BJ a little more enjoyable. Everyone is different and gets off differently over the same function.

Holding hands isn't weird at all. I have grabbed onto a gents hand or hands occasionally. A lot can be said by a gentle squeeze. Plus it's a way to connect. I am not one for holding a gents head.... nor do I like mine being held! So the hand thing is actually not so bad

As for faking it.... you'll know if I have to fake a whole appointment.... I won't see ya again haha. Not that I have had to fake many appointments but it has happen a few times and many times it's been because the gent thinks it's just all about him! I have buttons that want to be pushed and pushed the right way .....watch out for the explosion!

Holding hands isn't weird at all. I have grabbed onto a gents hand or hands occasionally. A lot can be said by a gentle squeeze. Plus it's a way to connect. I am not one for holding a gents head.... nor do I like mine being held! So the hand thing is actually not so bad Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Yeah, that's what I thought.

Any act preformed in a session can be a risk of getting any kind of STD. That's why it is very important to get tested regularly so that you don't end up getting a gift that keeps on giving. If it smells, has weird sores, or not groomed.... I don't go there! Nor should you

Max....I find it rather interesting that you think the appointment is all about you! It takes two to tangle. Both parties should be enjoying their self. You will get a lot of women "faking" their enjoyment with this kind of attitude. But that's just MHO. Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Yes, but with Max, he never gets into that "awkwardness" of going down there only to "pop" back up apon discovering an unpleasant odor.Are you gals "on to" the inadverdent finger "sniff test" that usually occurs during the initial makeout-lfk-dfk session, and then the "hug" when the "sample" is tested?Its a whole ordeal .

Are you gals "on to" the inadverdent finger "sniff test" that usually occurs during the initial makeout-lfk-dfk session, and then the "hug" when the "sample" is tested?Its a whole ordeal . Originally Posted by JOHNBALLS

Yes they are, one provider who shall remain nameless gave me the test the other night. Works both ways.

Yes they are, one provider who shall remain nameless gave me the test the other night. Works both ways. Originally Posted by jokacz

please sir..the "verdict"...and were you properly "manscaped"..?

Jokacz... I was just about to say the same thing.

please sir..the "verdict"...and were you properly "manscaped"..? Originally Posted by JOHNBALLS

I passed the smell test.

I have buttons that want to be pushed and pushed the right way .....watch out for the explosion! Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

The congregation says, "Amen"!

Max....I find it rather interesting that you think the appointment is all about you! It takes two to tangle. Both parties should be enjoying their self. You will get a lot of women "faking" their enjoyment with this kind of attitude. But that's just MHO. Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Brooke, maybe I'm wrong, but shouldn't the person paying feel like it's all about him? I certainly hope that the lady enjoys her time with me but I'm really hoping that the endgame is about my pleasure! LOL

Brooke, maybe I'm wrong, but shouldn't the person paying feel like it's all about him? I certainly hope that the lady enjoys her time with me but I'm really hoping that the endgame is about my pleasure! LOL Originally Posted by Perryay

spoken like a gentleman..

Brooke, maybe I'm wrong, but shouldn't the person paying feel like it's all about him? I certainly hope that the lady enjoys her time with me but I'm really hoping that the endgame is about my pleasure! LOL Originally Posted by Perryay

Then when I fake it....don't complain .....Just saying!

Then when I fake it....don't complain .....Just saying! Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

That's what makes this board so valuable!

Then when I fake it....don't complain .....Just saying! Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Too funny. You are both right on. Compatibility is key but not always possible.........sigh.

I just think from my point of view, that even though yes you are paying for my time and TIME only..... it isn't all about the male. If both parties can enjoy their self to the fullest, and have a wonderful time making fireworks... its gonna lead to a better experience then me just "pretending" to get off when really I have other things on my mind, just want it over with ect ect.

If both parties can enjoy their self to the fullest, and have a wonderful time making fireworks... its gonna lead to a better experience then me just "pretending" to get off when really I have other things on my mind, just want it over with ect ect. Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Brooke - on this.........we agree