Hobbying is difficult sometimes

Or be a big boy and take hold of your own money, for fuck sakes don't you earn it. Shit it's your money, do it to it!!!!

Or be a big boy and take hold of your own money, for fuck sakes don't you earn it. Shit it's your money, do it to it!!!! Originally Posted by golden451

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Never understood how guys just let their women control their money (or vice versa) unless they're just terrible at managing funds.

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Never understood how guys just let their women control their money (or vice versa) unless they're just terrible at managing funds. Originally Posted by Richiej281

Asian women like to have control of family funds.....that would not work for me, you can find a way to hide cash from her, and have some fun...if you can't i'd reevaluate my living situation
and ask her to give you your nuts back out of her purse

You should balance the books yourself once, you may be very suprised to see how much SHE is spending on her HOBBY.

That's why you should still maintain separate banking accounts when you get married. Though you shouod still get a joint account for bills and family expenses.

That's why you should still maintain separate banking accounts when you get married. Though you shouod still get a joint account for bills and family expenses. Originally Posted by Permission2Look

That's more of a "new school" trend, if both partners know about said accounts. I haven't met too many people who do it, unless their under 35 or so. I fully support it though, that's how my relationship is. And if you are older and do that, then good job.

Or you could leave his life behind and make the marriage work - I don't know your wife - so your call.

don't get hooked in the first place. then you can do whatever the f you want with your hard-earned money.
hmm ok maybe that's not overly helpful advice. back to the drawing board...

Draw down your 401K and have fun.