ladies, pay attention to your appearance

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I agree. Each of us has our own ideas about what is right for us when we see a lady. Accuracy is very important, keeps both me and the lady from wasting each others' time.

Ladies, don't be ashamed of your appearance, just be honest with us. There are plenty of us out there that will appreciate your honesty and come to see you because you are exactly our type of lady, both body wise and personality wise. If you want to know about me before seeing me, just ask, I will be honest and totally upfront with you so there are no surprises when I arrive. Just do the same for me ok? Originally Posted by elgato111
el gato, muy perfecto!!!
it goes both ways!
oh i know..sorry hard to convey a cock errr rather a tongue in cheek comment via the internet..

i agree.. if someone is misleading that is not cool.. as had been said.. why hide it? when the guy meets you he is gonna figure it out lol.. i truly believe in most cases there are more guys that DO NOT report back that a girl was misleading than the ones that do.. and girls are hoping for that.. they are playing th odds and betting that most guys will just take the experience and move on and not report back ..a girl can probably make it a year or longer with that thought process.. just saying

why be ashamed.. if you got meat on your bones.. thats life.. some like an "experience" no matter the body type.. others want an experience with a certain body type.. if you lie tho.. that kinda crumbles what this whole hobby is based on.. a whole lotta trust..

guys are trusting me to be honest about my looks, menu and services available, what time i am available and can show up etc

girls are trusting that the guy will be safe, sane, follow the rules etc..


its all about trust


DeAnna, I don't think the op was reffering to Ladies like you, You don't use the word spinner in Your ads.....I haven't met You, but Your pics seem accurate, and there are plenty of men attracted to Your body type, that said...old pics, inaccurate pics are kinda common out there Originally Posted by Tony Gambino
Jules Jaguar's Avatar
well stop seeing girls with obviously photoshopped pics and no candid shots showing what they truly look like... if i looks too good to be true it most likely is
When I start getting a little thicker than my pics I will admit to it, ask Funeralman LOL and I cut calories and hit more interval training.
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Okay, I will admit it, I am a little bigger than my pictures, but I can live with it, so you should too. Maybe a small bbm (or something). You ladies will just have to be the judges. But I DO do the best I can with what I have (such as it is). I know it is down there somewhere, just haven't seen it lately.
just be honest both ladies and gents. makes dates much easier and more comfortable. ivy u are "thick" in the best way. looking good girl.
Having briefly met you at the social, I say if you want to lose weight for health reasons OK, but kiddo you looked pretty hot to me. As many of the posters in this tread have said, "in the eye of the beholder". Your pics are very accurate which I agree is the key and sadly not the norm.

I agree with you in the sense that the ladies to make sure they are not giving false advertisement.

As far as BBW...people seem to have different views on what makes a lady a BBW. I need to loose weight...I know that...however I do not consider myslef at all a BBW. My reviews have said borderline BBW, Not at all BBW and small BBW...So it varies... However I have never had anyone say she is heavier than her pics...So I am ok with that. Originally Posted by Ivy Chick
I'm glad you confined your admonitions to the women. I thought you were going to step over the line of propriety and tell me to go on a diet. It would be such a shame to change my slightly less than svelte figure since I have such a striking resemblance to a famous celebrity.

The Pillsbury dough boy is a celebrity, right?


Originally Posted by TexTushHog
Compared to this celebrity:


you're not that big, you're just a "biscuit shy"
Guest091314's Avatar
I have always been curious.....What am I considered????

Some of my reviews will say "not bbw and not a spinner..somewhere in the middle"

I am 34b-26-36....i always thought curvy.
CURVY!
I have always been curious.....What am I considered????

Some of my reviews will say "not bbw and not a spinner..somewhere in the middle"

I am 34b-26-36....i always thought curvy. Originally Posted by alecia
Having yet to see you yet, I'd probally go with curvy, sexy, very cute, sexy as hell, girl next door -- kinda depends on face to face perhaps even fit / athletic, perhaps even ooses sex appeal, did I mention I like the pictures I did see as a guest on your web site or here.
Guest091314's Avatar
LOL!!! Thanks love!
Since we now have to watch our appearance, does that mean I can no longer open the door with rollers in my hair and my fuzzy slippers on with a moo-moo dress? DAMN IT!
lil_michelle's Avatar
I'm fat, bbw, curvy, obese.. but then again there are guys here paying so women will pay attention to them.. who exactly is in a position to point a finger again?

joking..i joke..

if a girl is dishonest..thats one thing.. thats not watching her appearance..that is telling the truth and having updated pics.. big difference..

but no matter what the guys call me.. as long as they are calling me, paying me.. why watch my appearance.. its good enough to make the phone ring..good enough to keep them coming back.. yep.. even fat asses can make money selling themselves..gotta love america Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv

Deanna,

I do not know you but you made me laught today and I needed that so thanks
Guest071315's Avatar
what if someone is smaller than their pics?? hee hee