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I am slowly learning to be patient. Haste when hobbying just turns to crap. But that being said I'm in a serious drought myself, ncns on bp and my schedule isn't matching the touring ladies. Originally Posted by les123

....THIS!!!!!!

It's why I require appointment setting. I too have been having a lot of cancels lately, but pre booking is a rarity everywhere. Des Moines can bless you, but it can also kill you. High hotel prices, fewer people, etc.

Typically, if they're trying to rush screening, they won't come anyway. I don't like being rushed, on any side of the table... I prefer comfortably enjoying things.

The same thing has happened to me. I used to rely heavily on prebookings and it would determine whether or not I would make the trip but as of lately I just go anyway and have had the same experience. It always ends up working out in my favor. I think a lot of gentleman are afraid to prebook because sometimes the ladies do cancel trips and then they are disappointed and some guys schedule just don't allow them to plan ahead.

Pre bookings are definitely nice but yes don't always happen. I've been tempted to cancel trips as well but have found out that going anyways always works out in the end. Originally Posted by JocelynQC

Red baby...I am cumming your way SOOOON!!!!

Reading this thread has just changed my mind about a few things when it comes to traveling. Thank you ladies for putting your input out there.
You IA boys should be plenty busy when Dallas Rain and I show up!! Watch out! he he

~Kisses~

Standing appointments have always worked well for me. Seldom any issue's

For traveling ladies I was just talking to a gent about this tonight when we asked for pre-booking and nobody pre books as a provider who travels I'm not going to go and spend money on a hotel and everything else if nobody's going to come and see me. This is a business of making money not spending it and not being able to recoup unfortunately. Personally I asked for pre books in Des Moines nobody pre booked for today so I didn't show up today then I just got mad because I wasn't in town. Now I'll be in town tomorrow but that's because I've had two people already pretty booked tomorrow make sense.

The issues I was having was not with pre booking-at least on my part. I prefer to prebook, as I enjoy the anticipation of the visit. Now if others were not booking, that is not my problem. It is very frustrating to make arrangements, rework my schedule and then get cancelled last minute (or in one case a NCNS). Shit happens, I get that, it has happened to me on occasion. It was just a particularly long drought. I never thought I would have so much trouble spending my play money! But I am back in the groove now. It is all good

How reddecember got his groove back lol

Red baby...I can vouch that "your groove" is very yummmy....lol

I prefer to pre book especially when i really really want to see a certain provider. Don't want to miss the chance of some other guy taking my available time!! Also lived the anticipation and fun banter back and forth. I will be taking advantage of both Little Nikki and Dallas this month...or I should say they will be taking advantage of me!!

I prefer to pre book especially when i really really want to see a certain provider. Don't want to miss the chance of some other guy taking my available time!! Also lived the anticipation and fun banter back and forth. I will be taking advantage of both Little Nikki and Dallas this month...or I should say they will be taking advantage of me!! Originally Posted by Key of G

For traveling ladies I was just talking to a gent about this tonight when we asked for pre-booking and nobody pre books as a provider who travels I'm not going to go and spend money on a hotel and everything else if nobody's going to come and see me. This is a business of making money not spending it and not being able to recoup unfortunately. Personally I asked for pre books in Des Moines nobody pre booked for today so I didn't show up today then I just got mad because I wasn't in town. Now I'll be in town tomorrow but that's because I've had two people already pretty booked tomorrow make sense. Originally Posted by shayla84

Yeah pre-books when they happen is a little bit up and down.
My 1st IA attempt there was interest but nothing firm so I didn't go.
2nd attempt and 1st official visit I did get some firm pre-books along with some that came when I was in town (so my 1st official visit was a hit).
I'll be doing a 3rd attempt and hopefully 2nd official visit in mid-Fall (October or November) and see how that goes. Maybe if I lived closer I might gamble without pre-books but lol I live in D.C.