Gents & Ladies...What Started your fun naughty adverture into the world of hobbying?

My husband... Hey fin, come check out this site.. I think you would enjoy this.

When I was a little girl.. before the times of pretty woman... the idea of it all seemed glamorous to me. I dunno I guess you could say Im living my dream.. kinda corny. But I sure have been enjoying myself

I was married and travelling 10+ months a year out of town. When i was home the wife was a bitch. To quote Ron White "I'm a pretty loyal dog, but if you want to keep me under the porch, you're gonna have to pet me once in awhile." i was working in seattle and found an online board that was free. it had a lady that specialized in my tastes and i went for it. Never looked back. After that, it was kinda ironic, now girls call me all the time and want to go out. I guess when they can smell the competition. I dunno. That's my story, and I'm sticking to it. Cheers

Amazing honest answers...I love reading all of them. Such an array of diffferent people here. There is a little bit of something for everyone here!! I do miss ASPD....

Anyone doing anything exciting this weekend? Anyone got a little hobby action going on?

got tierd of head games from gf and spending too much money and time with little results lot better at keeping it business and moving on and met lots of cool people along the way.......

I wish I had plans this weekend .

I have one of those jobs that keeps me just off-tempo with the rest of the world. When most people play, I work. When most people sleep, I play. I also tend to work the weekends so it is hard to meet ladies in a "normal" social setting. Plus I hate crowded and noisy clubs.

Years of society bombarding me with pictures and ads promoting sexual innuendo...... and eons of human genetics.

Or at least thats what I'll tell my court appointed therapist.

Sympy.

went to a MP when I was in Ft. Sill after being dumped by my gf, had a good experience. Came back, went to VIP a few times, eventually BP, then found this and never looked back. You could say I'm using this to learn how to act around the ladies (i'm still kinda of an idiot around them) and because I like meeting cool people and yes I'll admit it, sex.

Wanted to do something crazy so I did a double in NYC. The ladies asked me to review them on TER, "What's TER " I asked. They told me and said google it. When I did our old site came up as well. I looked at it and realized I better start making more money because I was going to need more disposable income LOL.

My ex and I broke it off 6 years ago. Ironically, we were together for 6 years. After a "long term relationship" (I'm just turning 30), I pick up where I left off with school and a second job. After jumping into the dating game head-first, I realize that's it's definitely NOT the same as when I left it in high school. I tried dating high (38) and low (19) and it was same bullshit...some used me for dinner...others paraded me for my knowledge and position in my professional field of work. I was being used in every which way...going through head games, bitch fits, and warding off loser ex's. I'm not a wham-bam, hit it on the first date kind of guy either...but I, for the life of me, could not build a steady and cohesive relationship with ANY of the women I wooed. By week three, I'd typically be in the dog house or accused of running game for not seeing them as often. Well excuse me for putting in 60+ hours so that in 10 more years, I can work only 30 and make three times as much! They couldn't digg the types of sacrifices I was making.

SO, after another lousy date with a $140 tab and blue balls from hell, I decided to hit up a strip club. Two hours, $60, and a bj w/cfs later, I was a happy man. It made fiscal sense...and LESS time than it took with dating. No late night phone calls...no 24 hr texting bombardments. I could focus on my work, school work, and no worries about ditching friends for dates that lead to nowhere. It actually suits my needs.

I have worked at a health club for the last 10yrs and have come across many people in my time many willing to partake in fun b4 and after club hrs. 5 yrs back had sum fun with an older lady who later turned me on to aspd, then took me to a aspd party. The rest is history

i understand man really i do been there too

For me it was a progressive journey. After my divorce I was hitting the strip clubs pretty often, having a good time, but never getting any action there, beyond wandering hands. Then a friend took me to Boys Town across the border from Laredo, where I had a good time with a cutey at one of the bars. I moved not to long after that (from SA) and started checking out the AMPs in my new location, to get a little more bang for the buck, but kinda wanted to have more choice in the selection process, so I started looking at providers on the Internet, got lucky with some of my new "friends", and I was hooked. I Found ASPD when I moved back to SA.

It is all about variety for me. I have a pretty good sex life with my SO but once in a while i just like to have something different. I only hobby about once or twice a year (sometimes a bit more). I started on ASPD, never joined but found a provider there named Ecstacy. She was my first in the hobby. I always wondered what happened to her.

For me, I'm a shy person by nature and because of it tend to stay within my circle of friends. Finally decided enough was enough, gave it a shot and, though still nervous, came out relaxed and feeling euphoric. Now that I think about it, though, as it's been a while I think it's about time to jump in the pool again!