Guys-- What works best for you?

I only use email until the day we are meeting , just about everyone has a bb, phone or some kind of smartphone and can check it .I use to list my phone and it never stopped ringing and 90% of it was someone just to talk .So I say email and a hobby phone as I once had to use my real cell with someone when my hobby line was down and he posted the # so def get a hobby line .
Eccie Addict's Avatar
Wait a minute....all I saw was "planning major tour" lol. Is Houston on the list
Wait a minute....all I saw was "planning major tour" lol. Is Houston on the list Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
Naomi, you really must have, e-mail, phone and text all in one device. Any of the major carriers will have an affordable device that can do all 3. I use all 3 because at times the computer is best for e-mail, but some times I need the secracy of text and sometimes I need you to call me right away (on the hobby phone of course). I'm not sure this will help your decision much, but it's the best way to contact me!!

If you need directions, go to New York and take a right!!! Then e-mail me, text me or call me on your new phone!!
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Email for initial contact and phone for final directions works best from my POV. I'd like to know if your tour brings you to Texas.
PM works best, when your not banned that is
Yes, email till final details/directions on phone. Get a smartphone to access a hotmail/gmail,etc account and then a hobby phone for calls.
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I prefer to just use telepathy, saves lots of time and trouble.
First contact is via email. After screening, I give out my phone number.

I do offer to talk to hobbyist on the phone before screening, BUT THEY must send their phone number and good times to call.

It seems to work well so far.
I prefer email, but I'm an old fart.

I tell ladies I contact that I can communicate by email, text or phone. My least favorite is phone. I also say that if I can't talk at the time they call, I'll tell them I'll call right back when I can. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Yes!..I hate talking on the bloody phone!

I always feel as if I'm putting someone out by calling them out of the blue. I prefer getting all the introductions, info, dates, and times arranged via e-mail first. When traveling I will call once I have arrived to confirm the time and location.

The ladies get enough useage on their phones without chatting with me until time to meet. Originally Posted by Abe Normal
Good man!

Wait a minute....all I saw was "planning major tour" lol. Is Houston on the list Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
Naomi is going to Houston on her tour, so you better get your suit ready!

PM works best, when your not banned that is Originally Posted by monkmonk
jughead1171's Avatar
Prefer email to set up arrangements and text or phone on the meeting day.
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I prefer to use PM or e mail through this or other sites, because there is a little more security from LE, wife or other seeing the information. Through these sites, you have less exposure to LE unless they raid the site and get the server. With a phone, those records are much more readily available if you do not clear your phone or if they wanted a court order for your phone records. Even with e mail and PM, I clean my computer regularly with software that clears everything I trash. It may take a little longer to work out details through PM or e mail, but it has worked for me on every occasion and kept my phone out of it.
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Thanks guys!!