Sadly, I kinda agree with you.
Here's the thing in the business world: you innovate and improve or you die. MySpace was a cool idea. Facebook made it (social media) cooler.
Originally Posted by Prolongus
Stemming from above...
Although most ladies have a different perspective on the entire reference deal, here's my take:
My (extra) income from this NEVER depends on the word of a stranger. A woman who I have never met before conducting illegal business. No, we are not all "friends". This is business.
I am a reference friendly companion, and I respond to references promptly and always send a gracious thank you message, however when gents send me their references, I always send them a link to my screening form also known as my Affair application. I do this in case none of the references respond in enough time (or at all). By all means, It's not the references fault, and these ladies are not entitled to give me their time (hell, they could be at work, with family, a multi-hour, court, none of your business) because I don't want to (learn how to) do my own homework or *develop* a screening process not involving other parties regarding me and intimacy with a gentleman. Not only that, I am very discreet. This means I don't want providers and companions knowing who I am fucking... or who the gentleman is about to fuck for that matter.
References definitely do make screening easy, especially when the gentleman has no online presence or even a couple reviews to prove he is safe. But again as mentioned before, what may be polite, safe and generous to one companion, may be the polar opposite to another. That's why I feel it's important for *professional* companions to develop their own screening process fitting their business and personal preferences/needs. Can't do it? Join an agency. Just like references, they do all the redundant screening for you! Just expect to split all your money
In addition to WHY some ladies are not reference friendly because she intends to have the client for herself (
), there are even more professional companions who simply don't feel it fair that they took their time out their day to screen him through her lengthy screening process just to tell another woman a simple "yay or nay". Keep in mind that we sell our time and it takes time to give and respond to a reference. On the other hand sometimes I don't like asking for references or contacting references when they are provided in case the gentleman does not follow through with an appointment. Not only have I wasted my time screening, but I've wasted the references time in responding to me and going back in her records and notes to see if he is safe.
Do you really think I'd pass on pleasurable experiences and profitable opportunities because so and so provider happens to have her family day the same day I want to screw a man's brains out and need a response within the next couple of hours?? Nope. I'm not the one, the two, or three. So guess what I did for discretion's sake as well as my nerves? I adapted.
#evolve
