Quality VS Quantity

I'm with quality all the way. If I just wanted to get off I would go with quickies and save tons. For me it is about the whole expericance from begging to end, not just the act itselt. To each their own.

I'm with quality all the way. If I just wanted to get off I would go with quickies and save tons. For me it is about the whole expericance from begging to end, not just the act itselt. To each their own. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I think it's also true that a lot of men don't know what they want. I have been told numerous times by my clients that they love the fact that I am selective and very low volume. On the other hand, these same clients make complaintive comments about how they have to schedule so far in advance with me because I book up so quickly.

In a way, I think that we should be thankful to the ladies who offer the "quickie" services for cheaper. It keeps a lot of those guys from knocking on our metaphorical doors with requests for things that we find distasteful.

I agree with China Doll, there is a place for both. I tend to "hobby" infrequently and when I do, a high quality experience is what I seek, and although I have never had the pleasure of her company, her reputation is impeccable as a high quality/low volume provider in our area. There are other providers that have higher volume and quicker appt. times who also receive high accolades, showing they fill a much sought after role within the community. Demand shows a need for both and we are lucky to have fine ladies providing at both ends of the spectrum.

Quality and low volume. Rates don't matter to me.

sometimes i think they just dont care as long as it is a warm wet hole

sometimes i think they just dont care as long as it is a warm wet hole Originally Posted by seductivesarah

I think that a lot.

I'm VERY low volume tho - 1 to 3 a month UNLESS I go on tour then I choose to see more but I am very selective. If they don't do footwork, send proper screening I don't care how many posts and review a man has.

I want quality !!!!!! I want to know I am going to enjoy the time just as much as they are.

let me see...i didnt find volume in search engine. price however seems to be the trigger. we look for the type of service. you all lie in someway or another. besides at end of day....im sure when it comes to getting married and someone asking how many people you been with....the subject may change. volume is volume no matter how you look at it. we won't be the first nor the last....looking for begin and my fix....should go together

and I love the dollar menu so don't knock the specials. it is my adult happy hour

I prefer quality, period. Volume has nothing really to do with it. There is no correlation between volume and quality. By quality, I mean a provider who is a) on time, b) reliable, c) fresh/clean for my visit, d) good reputation within the community, e) easy to communicate with prior to a date, f) maintains an impeccable appearance (i.e. looks the same for her last appointment of the day as she did for her first appt.) Personally, I don't care if I'm the 3rd client of the day or the 1st. All I expect is to have a session like I was her only client of the day. I think a better way to ask the question is like this. Do you prefer a streetwalker caliber provider, or do you prefer an ECCIE style GFE provider? Originally Posted by Cpalmson

To your perception, quality is all that matters. I completely agree with this...on the other hand, i have a hard time imagining how someone can provide this level of quality independent of volume. You have to think about all the energy, time, cleaning, replacement of sheets and other paraphenalia, etc. Would your perception of quality not change if you saw pubic hairs and used condoms from the last visitor in a trash can in the bathroom? Well, somewhere along #13 for the day, people are just more likely to get mentally and physically tired, and something like this will happen. I don't know the full range of physical, mental and emotional recharging abilities out there among all providers, but if I had to guess, I would think that somewhere around 4 FS 1 hr sessions per day there would be a discernible drop in quality. I am also guessing the largest marginal drops in quality would occur most at clients 2-8, after that it wouldnt matter much as you would have attained the mechanical plains.

sometimes i think they just dont care as long as it is a warm wet hole Originally Posted by seductivesarah

You're right. It's why glory holes exist. Get off for free.

I think that a lot.

I'm VERY low volume tho - 1 to 3 a month UNLESS I go on tour then I choose to see more but I am very selective. If they don't do footwork, send proper screening I don't care how many posts and review a man has.

I want quality !!!!!! I want to know I am going to enjoy the time just as much as they are. Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

I think it's probably hard to find quality based on your screening. Any guy can talk a good game, but the proof is when you get bcd. You won't know until after that first date whether or not the guy is a quality date.

And it made me wonder do guys want a quality experience with a decent girl who is clean and fairly low volume or is it acceptable to go jump into a high volume "provider" and I use the word loosely who is comparable to a garbage disposal for extra low rates...

What is more desirable

A clean low volume provider or cheap rates? Originally Posted by JahiaraQ

ah - i`d stop short of calling a high volume provider a garbage disposal. It is another work ethic. I`d also stop short of calling a higher rate provider mor of a quality worker. I consider these judgements highly derogatory. And clean is an outcome of professional attitude and proper screening for STD and no unsafe sex practices much rather than how many guys you have per day. It does not matter if you have one client a year and swallow his sperm, screw him without condom and do all sorts of unsafe stuff (you know where i am getting at)....

For example: My experience is that some women who charge higher rates go on sleeping with clients without condom, especially when long term arrangements. So - when it comes to the term garbage disposal - you find these on both ends of the spectre. Especially in the HDH end the boundaries between clients and escorts get shady over time, so its much more likely to happen that the "no condom stuff" happens, than when you have high volume and work more "professionally" ( so to speak). And since in the US there are no screening for STD requirements like in Europe - woo hoo...:-) have fun :-))))

It depends what the provider wants. If you want much money in short amount of time and do not have much time to work or want to work for special weeks only, then go for lower rates. Or if you don`t have the skills and the training to go with a high volume of clients and provide, then its better you stay away from lower rates, since they require more professionality. If you just do escorting on the side go for higher rate , which equals less clients, less hassle but WAY less money in the long run. It does not qualify as lower quality or "garbage disposal".

I worked both spectre and neither was i ever a garbage disposal or someone who offers "better quality". Its just different strategies. If you take that work serious and want to get somewhere within a special time frame i`d consider working at a lower rate a better market approach, because it guarantees you more income. If you already had your fair share of time in this business like i had, i don`t need that kind of income anymore - so i go for higher rate.

Besides - most women work at those two ends anyway. I hardly know anyone that only has high rates or only has low rates. Clever providers cater to several niches.

I recently have had to add this lil tid bit to my advertisement,


Rates are non negotiable
If you can not accommodate my request please dont call me. I do not have any $50 specials so do not ask. If thats what you want go call a crackhead.

Originally Posted by JahiaraQ

IMO your addendum isn't real classy either...

"rates non-negotiable" is fine...the rest kind of screams drama...& there is kind of an unwritten rule that you don't take cheap shots at other providers with different pricing models or motivations...some things need not be said... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I am forced to agree with ATL, it makes you come across as bitchy. To be very honest, I would see that on an ad of yours and move right past it. It is obviously frustrating to you to be asked for a deal, but saying that isn't the best way to handle it. IMHO

I agree with Mr. Chica Chaser and ATL on this one.