BMJ, you have to remember that you posted this on a general discussion board for all of american perverts who choose to see, see. then read. then throw their opinions.
some people would say dont see escorts, period.
some would say never an incall.
some would say outcalls never to a hotel.
do what makes you happy.
i have two friends that i met as clients. we are somewhat friends as benefits now. we keep in touch. when we hang out they both have things that i like and i have something that they like. i have stayed at ones house many times when i visit new york and i have found myself sitting front row at some wonderful places. i have never stolen a thing from his house.
personally i wouldnt want to live with someone because.. what is rent as a roommate? $1,000? thats a little under 4 dates for me. and someone that had me living with them would want to come knocking on my door more than that. plus i do this because i really enjoy my space.
xoxox