I charge the same for my time on water or land!

I guess I'm just not impressed with a client just offering a free boat ride, when I've had numbers of clients pay me to be on their boat....it's pretty common living in Hot Springs. Lol

I care about way more than money, but I won't tolerate pushy clients that have zero potential for anything more refusing to accept that this is a business, not dating. I do have client friends, that I have chosen to be friends with... There is a choice involved. The difference is they didn't get pushy and demand my time for free, claiming that all I cared about is money, with no established friendship present.

You cannot expect a professional companions off the clock time for free. If a friendship naturally develops, that's its own situation. Otherwise, demanding free time just because you think you have a right to it is disrespectful. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

ROFLMAO@you

I took a long time lady I would see on a 5 day cruise, I covered her cost of cruise and gave her some spending money....we had a fantastic time and some of the best FUN ever without worrying about each hr's cost. We shared same bed in room and she didn't leave my side once ! Originally Posted by OklahomaSooner

Vacation vs Providing.... Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

I can see where a lady might consider a free vacation (along the lines of a multi-day cruise or a week or two in Europe, say), along with some spending money and maybe a gift or two along the way as a barter transaction and not charge separately for her time. As long as that transaction is freely negotiated and entered into, great.

I am amused by the guys who seem to think that providers should leap at that chance and automatically drop everything in their lives and run off with them for a week, for free (i.e., no additional payment required). I mean, yeah, I see that a free vacation is worth something, but that vacation ain't going to pay her bills that will be facing her when she comes back...

Cheers,

bcg

Alright,,, lets keep on topic without being to rude,,, it is a volatile subject, but adults can discuss things without insults. Originally Posted by Lazrback

That's assuming that we are adults here. Based on my own observations, that's a very dubious assumption.

(Yes, I can be childish and petulant myself; I'll plead guilty to that, so none of you have to point it out to me. So there. )

Cheers,

bcg

trust me I love to go on boats and fuck it's amazzzzzing... Originally Posted by BabyDallass

So you enjoy the Bud Light experience, eh?



(Sorry, couldn't resist. You may now return to your regularly scheduled backstabbing and infighting now. )

Cheers,

bcg

So you enjoy the Bud Light experience, eh?



(Sorry, couldn't resist. You may now return to your regularly scheduled backstabbing and infighting now. )

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Did someone wake up on the wrong side of the bed today or is that everyday? Geez! Who in the hell drinks bud light and what does that have to do with fucking on a boat??? Wtf? Oh my...ugh! Why are you even on our board causing problems, go back to Memphis!

Did someone wake up on the wrong side of the bed today or is that everyday? Geez! Who in the hell drinks bud light and what does that have to do with fucking on a boat??? Wtf? Oh my...ugh! Why are you even on our board causing problems, go back to Memphis! Originally Posted by BabyDallass

There is a classic joke that goes like this:

Q: Why is drinking Bud Light like sex in a boat?
A: Both are fucking close to water.

http://instantrimshot.com/index.php?...shot&play=true

Now, if you think that obliquely referencing that joke is "causing trouble" around here, or if your objection is to my very explicitly referencing the infighting, backstabbing, and general unpleasantness which characterizes Arkansas ECCIE (which is very simply an observation that only the willfully blind or hopelessly stupid can deny), please tell me so, and I'll be happy to put your name on my ignore list along with the 150 or so other names on it. As it is, you've almost landed there a few times with your bitchy behavior on the board, and only some reviews and the testimony of a few guys here who I have very high regard for that BCD you are not at all the bitch you appear to be in the public forums have prevented you from landing there yet.

Your call. If my presence around here annoys you, the door is over there... feel free to use it, and don't let it hit you in the ass on your way out.

Cheers,

bcg

There is a classic joke that goes like this:

Q: Why is drinking Bud Light like sex in a boat?
A: Both are fucking close to water.

http://instantrimshot.com/index.php?...shot&play=true

Now, if you think that obliquely referencing that joke is "causing trouble" around here, or if your objection is to my very explicitly referencing the infighting, backstabbing, and general unpleasantness which characterizes Arkansas ECCIE (which is very simply an observation that only the willfully blind or hopelessly stupid can deny), please tell me so, and I'll be happy to put your name on my ignore list along with the 150 or so other names on it. As it is, you've almost landed there a few times with your bitchy behavior on the board, and only some reviews and the testimony of a few guys here who I have very high regard for that BCD you are not at all the bitch you appear to be in the public forums have prevented you from landing there yet.

Your call. If my presence around here annoys you, the door is over there... feel free to use it, and don't let it hit you in the ass on your way out.

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Maybe you should have resisted from your rude and off topic insult. Your the only one who started with the rude comments on My thread. Don't try to play all Innocent now like the rest of them do. Please do block me so I don't ever have to have an encounter with you ever again. Cheers your rude!

Now to get on topic, since someone above can't do that very well....

This has to do with boats and men not wanting to pay ladies for their time to ride on a boat. This thread is not just aimed at me, so move on with your hate, there is enough of that going on everywhere else! So I will ride on anyones boat all day if they want to pay to play!

Maybe you should have resisted from your rude and off topic insult. Your the only one who started with the rude comments on My thread. Don't try to play all Innocent now like the rest of them do. Please do block me so I don't ever have to have an encounter with you ever again. Cheers your rude! Originally Posted by BabyDallass

I do not think my original response was "rude", but I'll happily let others correct me if they think I'm mistaken. As for blocking, I will do that very happily.

*plonk*

Cheers,

bcg

I'd be damned, if I will shell out $300 an hour, for someone to ride on my boat, use my water toys, eat my food, drink my alcohol, and tan...For anyone, that did not have anything going on that day and I was just trying to be friendly to. Now, if your happy little ass was booked for the day.... Guess what.... You wouldn't be going in the first place. Now, if you were not booked, had nothing better to do,and went....and we ended up fucking... Well, yeah... You should be paid, because a business transaction took place. If no business transaction takes place....it is simply getting out, enjoying the sun, the water, and some possible laughs. To me... That is like taking your ass on a vacation and paying you an ungodly amount of money to enjoy yourself. ROFLMAO@the thought of me doing that. There may be guys out there crazy enough to do that.... But I am not one of them. A whole lot better things I can spend my money on other than bringing some nag on my downtime.

I do not think my original response was "rude", but I'll happily let others correct me if they think I'm mistaken. As for blocking, I will do that very happily.

*plonk*

Cheers,

bcg Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I did not take it that way at all. I thought it was funny. Lol.

Sorry... Off topic... Back to topic.

If you do go boating... In any fashion.... Remember you life jackets. 😊😊

I'd be damned, if I will shell out $300 an hour, for someone to ride on my boat, use my water toys, eat my food, drink my alcohol, and tan...For anyone, that did not have anything going on that day and I was just trying to be friendly to. Now, if your happy little ass was booked for the day.... Guess what.... You wouldn't be going in the first place. Now, if you were not booked, had nothing better to do,and went....and we ended up fucking... Well, yeah... You should be paid, because a business transaction took place. If no business transaction takes place....it is simply getting out, enjoying the sun, the water, and some possible laughs. To me... That is like taking your ass on a vacation and paying you an ungodly amount of money to enjoy yourself. ROFLMAO@the thought of me doing that. There may be guys out there crazy enough to do that.... But I am not one of them. A whole lot better things I can spend my money on other than bringing some nag on my downtime. Originally Posted by Sagittarius

I don't think you understand how this works...I'm sure you'll find someone to get on your boat one day.

I actually agree with BD in this scenario although she could be nicer about it... I have taken Providors on several "outings" similar to vacations and I always pay her for her time not because of sex or anything else but it's simple. I'm a client if she wanted me as a boyfriend it would be different but as is when we go on outings. She can't earn money during those times, and money lost is the same as money spent so I'm costing that providor money for their time...

like was stated by ginger earlier I am sure there are situations where a providor has developed a relationship whether friendship or otherwise with a client and that boat outing might be free but I'm sure that comes with a lot of time or some mad game on the hobbyist part lol...

I'd be damned, if I will shell out $300 an hour, for someone to ride on my boat, use my water toys, eat my food, drink my alcohol, and tan...For anyone, that did not have anything going on that day and I was just trying to be friendly to. Now, if your happy little ass was booked for the day.... Guess what.... You wouldn't be going in the first place. Now, if you were not booked, had nothing better to do,and went....and we ended up fucking... Well, yeah... You should be paid, because a business transaction took place. If no business transaction takes place....it is simply getting out, enjoying the sun, the water, and some possible laughs. To me... That is like taking your ass on a vacation and paying you an ungodly amount of money to enjoy yourself. ROFLMAO@the thought of me doing that. There may be guys out there crazy enough to do that.... But I am not one of them. A whole lot better things I can spend my money on other than bringing some nag on my downtime. Originally Posted by Sagittarius

Poor you....you just dont get it. & I bring my own liquor and you don't supply the sun for me to tan. & I wouldn't charge my whole hourly rate, I would work a deal to make it beneficial to me and my client. Durh

I don't think you understand how this works...I'm sure you'll find someone to get on your boat one day. Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

He really doesn't. I've tried multiple times explaining to him that we charge for our time, not activities. Of course, my explanations earned me the unofficial title of dollar bill devil and negative attention anytime he has the opportunity to follow one of my posts. It's unfortunate that some are so disturbed by reality.

Another Arkansas provider explained it much better than I ever could. *tossing Trinity the mic*

3. If you want to spend time with me and not pay for it

FUCK YOU, YOU'RE FIRED