"I'll make it up to you"

1. Reviews give you a good indication of whether a provider has good TCB skills, provides the services she advertises, etc. Do your research and you will almost never get burned. And if there is a RW emergency, the good ones will make it up to you.

2. If there is a new provider, never be the first one out of the chute. I will never TOFTT.

1. Reviews give you a good indication of whether a provider has good TCB skills, provides the services she advertises, etc. Do your research and you will almost never get burned. And if there is a RW emergency, the good ones will make it up to you.

2. If there is a new provider, never be the first one out of the chute. I will never TOFTT. Originally Posted by Oralist

Nope. The last time wasn't a new provider. She'd been around for awhile. Just no new reviews as of late. She just went dark the day of. Not reply to text or PM. The following day received a PM that said it was related to vehicle issues and she'd make it up.

I just said more or less thanks for at least contacting me, even I it was a day later.

In that particular case if I do ever reschedule would it be kosher to bring up the disappearing act and the "make up" offer, or do I leave it up to here to bring it up?

To me if this was the real world I would wait for the the other person to mention it and not bring straight heat to the situation. Though I am reminded this is a business in the end. Act accordingly.

Cancel on me once, no make ups for personal scheduled crap. A rare emergency is easy to figure out and reschedule and will typically happen several hours b4 appointment time. Most excuses mean I will never get to c u again, ever. There is something about shifty excuses that reduces my desire to zero.

Yeah well . . . I was able to see heragain months later and we did a two hour session at her one-hour rate.

She is less active now and in another state. PM me for contact info if you want.

When putting the shoe on the other foot what do you think would happen if a client tried this technique?

"I'm sorry Z expense went through on my checking account before I pulled out your donation so I'm short L amount. I'll make it up to you."
- Thread: K is a haggler

"I just received word P is in the emergency room. I'll need to reschedule. I'll make it up to you."
- Thread: "T is a time waster & I missed out on F appointments" Originally Posted by Permission2Look

Alas, to whine from the other side, a good many fellows don't share such an opinion. I've heard, "I'll make it up to you," many, MANY times, and then have never heard from them again. It works both ways.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

P2L, I don't mean to sound rude, but your thread sounds nothing more than like a rant.

As Fancy said, this happens MANY times on the other side. How many times have I been ncns'd? In over 8 years of providing I have only had ONE gent come back to pay for the session he missed and he even still booked with me again in the future.

Or, how many times I have taken the time to thoroughly screen a gent only to have him never schedule with me? I don't get paid a salary and any amount of that type of admin work I do in order to run my business, is uncompensated.

Yes, it is annoying as hell when your time and/or money is wasted, whether that be from the client side, or the provider side.

That is why you guys are allowed to post publicly any time you are ripped off or ncns'd by a provider, meanwhile we only get to post such in the ladies room.

Imagine if I posted in co-ed every single time a client annoyed me or I had a little rant about all the time wasting bs I have to put up with as a provider. Y'all would get so sick of me, I would probably be banned just for that, lols.

But my point is this, if someone wastes your time, take the steps that are open to you on this forum and let everyone know about it. It doesn't take back having a bad experience, but it is at least some sort of consolation.

My other advice is, if you get to the sesh and something she said she would offer is not actually there/happening, then just leave. That way you at least don't waste your money.

When some says, "I'll make it up to you. "


I always ask, "How?"

Get your promissory upfront.
Then you'll truly know.

OP should of called dearhunter

When some says, "I'll make it up to you. "


I always ask, "How?"

Get your promissory upfront.
Then you'll truly know. Originally Posted by FoxyNC

* face palm *

2. If there is a new provider, never be the first one out of the chute. I will never TOFTT. Originally Posted by Oralist

I should've taken your advice last Wednesday night.

There is a FRecent No-Show thread here with a favorable Make-Up session ending that turned out well.

P2L, I don't mean to sound rude, but your thread sounds nothing more than like a rant.

As Fancy said, this happens MANY times on the other side. How many times have I been ncns'd? In over 8 years of providing I have only had ONE gent come back to pay for the session he missed and he even still booked with me again in the future.

Or, how many times I have taken the time to thoroughly screen a gent only to have him never schedule with me? I don't get paid a salary and any amount of that type of admin work I do in order to run my business, is uncompensated.

Yes, it is annoying as hell when your time and/or money is wasted, whether that be from the client side, or the provider side.

That is why you guys are allowed to post publicly any time you are ripped off or ncns'd by a provider, meanwhile we only get to post such in the ladies room.

Imagine if I posted in co-ed every single time a client annoyed me or I had a little rant about all the time wasting bs I have to put up with as a provider. Y'all would get so sick of me, I would probably be banned just for that, lols.

But my point is this, if someone wastes your time, take the steps that are open to you on this forum and let everyone know about it. It doesn't take back having a bad experience, but it is at least some sort of consolation.

My other advice is, if you get to the sesh and something she said she would offer is not actually there/happening, then just leave. That way you at least don't waste your money. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Well duh it is a rant.

Saying "I will make it up to you" is someone's attempt to defuse a situation, politely tell you something/someone came up, or simply get over on you. Either way it is all part of the hobby game. I am sure a fair number of clients cancel or do a last minute call to reschedule because of traffic/work/SO changed plans/etc. Clients and providers do not owe each an explanation, but a quick text or call to say change of plan would be great. This hobby is a business based on transactions. Too many emotional outbursts and rants based on perceived rejection. I would be mad if I arrived after suffering in traffic only to get a NCNS, so I would make a note to never schedule another visit and keep it moving. I have also done the reverse where I was running late and jammed her schedule since she scheduled a back-to-back and she could no longer see me because of a lack of time. She could very well say F him and never see me. Door swings both ways.

Saying "I will make it up to you" is someone's attempt to defuse a situation, politely tell you something/someone came up, or simply get over on you. Either way it is all part of the hobby game. I am sure a fair number of clients cancel or do a last minute call to reschedule because of traffic/work/SO changed plans/etc. Clients and providers do not owe each an explanation, but a quick text or call to say change of plan would be great. This hobby is a business based on transactions. Too many emotional outbursts and rants based on perceived rejection. I would be mad if I arrived after suffering in traffic only to get a NCNS, so I would make a note to never schedule another visit and keep it moving. I have also done the reverse where I was running late and jammed her schedule since she scheduled a back-to-back and she could no longer see me because of a lack of time. She could very well say F him and never see me. Door swings both ways. Originally Posted by Bigdawg300

Agreed

Sad when "whoring" is a more honest profession than political office, but methinks it has always been thus.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

"Whoring" has always been a more honest profession than political office. For the most part the fucktard and provider know what is going to occur during a session. As far as politics go, one knows he/she is going to get screwed ... one just does not know how, when, where, or why he/she is getting screwed.

Fuckn slow day in whore land....