Bareback happens all the time. I cant quiet wrap my head around it when we get around... To be blunt we are licked, poked, sucked and fucked by many... but to each their own.
Contrary to Joks comment, I dont bareback and its not fear of catching something, its fear of passing it to someone. Sure I 'fear' catching but I dont want to pass. A condom can leak or slip, etc. I cannot guarantee Im 100% in this business, noone can even with regular testing and not bare backing. We get around...
Those that have seen me and know me know Im safe. Just like there are lurkers/active members here that have been told no when they asked.
Having sex in the hobby or civi there are risks. Most verified gals get regular testing. I personally test and use safer practice now way more than when I was a 'civi' gal years ago. Looking back I was certainly foolish a time or two or three... While I had regular visits to the gyno, I go more now to test over my annual, etc.