Hey loves lola here just wanted to get some pro's and con's on overnighter's

Mavsfan, & Oldmarine are correct 100%

boundaries, set boundaries Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

The last thing I want to hear about when I'm trying to book an overnight is boundaries. If she had too many or more than three it's a no go. Rather her be a chameleon and have confidence.

That said the overnights I like are basically all night fuck fest with gfe glazing and good dining.

The last thing I want to hear about when I'm trying to book an overnight is boundaries. If she had too many or more than three it's a no go. Rather her be a chameleon and have confidence.

That said the overnights I like are basically all night fuck fest with gfe glazing and good dining. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Sounds good

Because I helped my provider,she is doing overnights for the last 5 weekends. Thurs,Fri, sometimes even up to Sat.
We have great times together , Best part is I'm the only one that's been with her, that day or night .So the sex can get intimate. $40 per day is average I give her . That's only for me.

The last thing I want to hear about when I'm trying to book an overnight is boundaries. If she had too many or more than three it's a no go. Rather her be a chameleon and have confidence.

That said the overnights I like are basically all night fuck fest with gfe glazing and good dining. Originally Posted by gimme_that

lol, thats the exact point of boundaries!

if you didnt tell me that you were going to keep me up all night and not let me have an ounce of sleep and want to ride me until i was swollen and have to take five days off, well.. you would waste your money. i could easily say no and let you find the lady who is down for that.

not all guys want the same thing. its about communication. communication includes boundaries. and boundaries are one of the most healthiest and confident things in life to have.

boundaries does not mean a list of exclusions. its a general plan of what both party is expecting so youre both on the same page.
xx

Because I helped my provider,she is doing overnights for the last 5 weekends. Thurs,Fri, sometimes even up to Sat.
We have great times together , Best part is I'm the only one that's been with her, that day or night .So the sex can get intimate. $40 per day is average I give her . That's only for me. Originally Posted by Caravano

40 bucks for an overnight sounds rather inexpensive.

I've always wanted to do an overnight. But like someone else said, I don't think the cost/bust a nut ratio would be in my favor. As I get older I can't do the all night fuck fest anymore. I might be able to go twice and maybe 3 times if I had a little blue pill. I'd basically be paying you to cuddle with me all night.

But who knows, you're a pretty hot looking lady. You just might be the one to get me back to my old fuck fest days.

i wouldnt mind trying love

I've always wanted to do an overnight. But like someone else said, I don't think the cost/bust a nut ratio would be in my favor. As I get older I can't do the all night fuck fest anymore. I might be able to go twice and maybe 3 times if I had a little blue pill. I'd basically be paying you to cuddle with me all night.

But who knows, you're a pretty hot looking lady. You just might be the one to get me back to my old fuck fest days. Originally Posted by StopShort

Because I helped my provider,she is doing overnights for the last 5 weekends. Thurs,Fri, sometimes even up to Sat.
We have great times together , Best part is I'm the only one that's been with her, that day or night .So the sex can get intimate. $40 per day is average I give her . That's only for me. Originally Posted by Caravano

Yeah $40 a day.....but you didn't mention she was your cousin....otherwise you'd been on that hook for fiddy.........retard.......... .....

Yeah $40 a day.....but you didn't mention she was your cousin....otherwise you'd been on that hook for fiddy.........retard.......... ..... Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Like I said that is a rate for me only from her . It's because I helped her pay off some warrant's,and it's her way of paying back.

lol, thats the exact point of boundaries!

if you didnt tell me that you were going to keep me up all night and not let me have an ounce of sleep and want to ride me until i was swollen and have to take five days off, well.. you would waste your money. i could easily say no and let you find the lady who is down for that.

not all guys want the same thing. its about communication. communication includes boundaries. and boundaries are one of the most healthiest and confident things in life to have.

boundaries does not mean a list of exclusions. its a general plan of what both party is expecting so youre both on the same page.
xx Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

I'd say about half the time I do is active and the rest is cuddling and sleep intermittently. So sleep occurs.....but it's not the main focal point unless she puts me to sleep of course. I don't want to be controlled and tossed limits when I'm paying that much. But I'm also honest about what I seek. But I'm smart enough noiw to ask a lady first what's her concerns for an overnight. If I heard the word boundary, "or when will I get to sleep" , or how much sex ur gonna want for all this........shes lame to me. People only ask when they know they aren't capable. I like ladies that are confident which is why I'm seeing a pro in the first place.

But still when a top notch pro speaks on boundaries it's less interesting kills the spontaneity. It's usually just a trick and a ploy to sham a guy out of a good time another lady might be perfect for.

for instance:

If a provider talks about predestined sleep times and durations shes lame or looking for an excuse to sham you time and energy wise. Unless of course she extended her time with you to accommodate for the sleep she requires. Making sure it doesn't affect the time you booked. Most dont.

Thank you to everyone for your answers

https://www.dropbox.com/s/jf76ga37su...ation.mp4?dl=0

I love overnights. Something about the mutual trust when asleep. Plus having her right there in the morning to wake up with. Boundaries are respected and we each go our own way the next day.

gimme_that

"But I'm smart enough noiw to ask a lady first what's her concerns for an overnight. If I heard the word boundary,"

Personal boundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person creates to identify reasonable, safe and permissible ways for other people to behave towards him or her and how he/she will respond when someone passes those limits.

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ... ok.
im sure we could contact the dictionary and let them add the word "concerns."

im totally confident.. and while i agree the amount of money it costs for an overnight is a lot to some, its not going to buy me a car. so i have to make sure that *I* am ok with what *YOU* are ok with.

just like you have your what youre looking for in your signature.. whats the difference?

done commenting on this because youre just nitpicking a word.

ill close you with one of my favorite words,
semantics.
xo