WTH!!?? Advertise or agree to do fetish and then bitch about it

I would put an alert out in the proper location considering she took your money and didn't follow through.That's the kind of Intel that we need to know about in order to do our own screening.

The OP's posts are a bit confusing because he talks about two different ladies. Do I understand correctly that you invited a lady that you had never seen before to spend a week with you at the beach?

The OP's posts are a bit confusing because he talks about two different ladies. Do I understand correctly that you invited a lady that you had never seen before to spend a week with you at the beach? Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

Sorry, the first lady I saw about 2 years ago for an hour. Saw her while I was traveling to my beach condo for that year. Then this year, I contacted her about coming with me.
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The second lady was my ATF for awhile. Then we had a falling out and she let me know how she really felt about me, and other clients that want fetish.

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Just checked and see that she signed in about 0127am this morning. So she not in ditch somewhere. Glad of that. Guess I can do the review now. Would have felt like a real jerk if I did the review and turned out something happened to her.
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Like the idea of an alert. Will do that in the areas she normally works, Alabama, Mississippi, and the Philly areas.
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again, why did you go through her phone?

also.. and chance that you message people asking about fetish and they politely reply, ""sorry, but i am strictly vanilla"

and you reply asking if they are sure not even a few of the activities that have been mentioned in this thread by you?

im not saying that is you, but.. kinda weird that i have a message like that and this post is here.

if youre trying to convince ladies to do things that they dont want to do, no wonder you find yourself in these situations. some ladies will say yes to anything for the money. thats not right, but when someone politely (or unpolitely or just ignores you) says no, leave them be.

edit: i dont condone any of this type of behavior. ladies leaving with money, but without following through with their end of the bargain.
anyone going through anyones phone.
trying to convince people that they want to do activities that they say no to.

cmon, were all adults here.

Not WTH!!! But WTF!!! You went through another person's phone???? My guess is your insecure ass asked her about how she had you listed and she rightly bolted to get away from someone who would invade her privacy like that. Anyone having sympathy for this guy is nuts.

Interesting discussion above.

(Hi! Grace! Come see us in San Antonio some time. I think you'd be very welcome!)

Phone issue: also, email or pm issue. Yeah, many gents are very curious, as are many ladies. But if you cannot respect people's privacy, you will be found out, and "hell hath no fury!" etc.

As for fetishes - there should be plenty of data out there, and, absent the data, perhaps asking directly both of the provider and of her reviewers? Yes, some ladies will tell a potential client what he wants to hear, but all they gotta do is see the "activities" list in his reviews to get a pro or con feel.

OP, sounds like some of your fetishes might well be accomplished in the TS/TG communities out there or via the local sex/swinger groups or clubs.

Interesting discussion above.

(Hi! Grace! Come see us in San Antonio some time. I think you'd be very welcome!)

Phone issue: also, email or pm issue. Yeah, many gents are very curious, as are many ladies. But if you cannot respect people's privacy, you will be found out, and "hell hath no fury!" etc.

As for fetishes - there should be plenty of data out there, and, absent the data, perhaps asking directly both of the provider and of her reviewers? Yes, some ladies will tell a potential client what he wants to hear, but all they gotta do is see the "activities" list in his reviews to get a pro or con feel.

OP, sounds like some of your fetishes might well be accomplished in the TS/TG communities out there or via the local sex/swinger groups or clubs. Originally Posted by ck1942

For Sjc21108, fuck you.
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The only thing I looked at in her phone was my listing. Not text, not other client names/numbers/etc. Was it wrong, yea maybe. But she was using my laptop so who knows what she looked at. And she took my old GPS. So there's lots of real life addresses in there.
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When I see a new lady that I'm interested in the first thing I do is ask if they do prostate massage, strap on, and foot fetish. If they say no, then fine. Maybe I'll see them anyway.
The point is, I ASKED her if she did x/y/z, she said yes. One week for $xxxx.00. Basically gave her half, for two days got a lackluster blowjob/handjob, and some poor ball licking. Didn't even get to suck on her toes because when I would she would start to giggle and roll away from me. Then the day I FINALLY get some real sex, still NO FETISH, she gets her other half of the money and splits without a word!!!!!! Not a word!!!! She could have given me some bullshit about a family emergency and I would have sent her on her way after checking the oil in her car and cleaning the windshield.
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As for TS/TG, I've given thought about trying that, but in my area, 99.9% of them don't meet my criteria for race.

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yes, I feel bad for what you had to go through, but shit happens, cant win them all, just have to be more cautious next time... I do some fetishes, but I am still new, and I also let guys know up front that I dont penetrate men in any kind of way... I am pretty disappointed to hear that you decided to go through her phone, regardless of what the reason was... I just dont agree with that. I mean, the circumstances are messed up, but you telling people you went through her phone when she wasnt there is going to be a big caution sign for us other providers. I mean, bottom line is that these providers who have BFs or husbands who dont know what they do, Im sure they dont even let THEM go through their phones... not to mentiopn the fact that alot of us use alternative numbers for contact, and you going through her phone just gives you way too much access into her personal life and her business.. thats avery risky situation... and you trying to justify the fact that you went through it at all ( and just to see what she listed your contact info as) is a pretty lame excuse... while you gave her permission to use your laptop and you GAVE her your GPS, she did not give you permission to even pick her phone up... just my opinion... And Im sure others agree.

For Sjc21108, fuck you.
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R14 Originally Posted by Rec1166

You crossed a line that should never be crossed. Your dumb ass asked a lady you've never seen before to a 1 week get away of fetish as you call it. That is stupid on both your parts. You for not being sure she was really into it and her for not knowing you would be the kind of dickhead who would surf her phone while she wasn't looking. You giving her access to your laptop doesn't deflect from the fact you did something without her permission.

And really, finding a girl who will stick her finger or a strap-on in your ass should be pretty easy. That's what the ISO section is for.

But since you've said any providers phone is open to your snooping the response will probably less than overwhelming.

Yes, I found her on ECCIE. Saw her about two years ago to the day from this past Sunday, 8/21. We had a short, 1hr, vanilla visit and I had a great time. But from the beginning this time wasn't nearly as fun. And I haven't changed that much. Still short, fat, and maybe more gray hair. But otherwise the same guy she saw two years ago.

R14 Originally Posted by Rec1166

The only thing "less than overwhelming" is your reading ability.

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AND MR. Sjc21108, just for your information. When I saw her two years ago, I was on my way to spend several days with a different lady that I had not met in person. Had just read her reviews, talked, texted, and emailed with. And we had a GREAT TIME!!!! Actually ended up dating her for almost a year before things went south.

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I would put an alert out in the proper location considering she took your money and didn't follow through.That's the kind of Intel that we need to know about in order to do our own screening. Originally Posted by 2dogs

Write review. Took money without following through.Deposit before meeting hookers.No one should go through no one phone.Reviews a lot clients don't like to write reviews in illegal buisness have it publicizes on sex websites.