I don't mind any of what AC mentioned. I have a patio for smoking if they need a smoke break. However if you use cigarettes or alcohol to the point that it oozes from your pores or breath, no thanks. Honestly, I only have 2-3 smokers that I see. They book two hours, dinner dates, or overnights, so it is perfectly okay for them to take a smoke break. I might even sit outside with them (with my wine glass in hand) while they smoke. One hour dates are different as there is hardly time to do more than play and get cleaned up. I savor the moments more with convo, teasing, and a beer or glass of wine on longer dates.
I like Pinot Noir and regular Dos Equis.