Not to be captain obvious but if the shielas all have kids wouldn't all the blokes have kids too? i.e. your two? Maybe, just maybe you're looking in the wrong direction. Originally Posted by HojoRaising my kids is one thing, raising someone else's is another. To much drama, taking sides and to much bullshit for this Aussie to handle. I have my own, I raised them. Don't plan on being a step dad.