50% beforehand PayPal

You guessed it right. A provider recently asked for upfront flowers of my garden (PayPal). I declined. Now I am noob. Is it a standard practice? If you want to know the provider PM me. I am not sure if I should disclose her publicly. Originally Posted by kiwilover02

Absolutely you should post it publicly. It will give you unprecedented BroCred for calling it out.

Let me guess ... it was BoneMaker Barbie? ROFLMAO!

Fuck no - never pay upfront Ina future visit - not worth it

PM me!

I am not flaming anyone. Just wanted to know if this was normal or not? ya, I have nothing against her.

I am not flaming anyone. Just wanted to know if this was normal or not? ya, I have nothing against her. Originally Posted by kiwilover02

It's not flaming anyone ... it's just providing Broformation ... kind of like a PSA, but it's BSA.

Post it up, and guaranteed, you become a Made Bro. Don't post it and all the young dudes will consider you to be a Maid Bro. You choice.

I do accept paypal (i believe i spoke with u about that im not sure) but nope, i request you pay in my face when u arrive at my incall. Im not dropping panties until the money is in my acct. Simple as that. But to each its own. Everyone has they're own way of conducting business. Personally CASH is the best way to go.

No, absolutely you should not disclose her name in this public forum, for simply having a business policy you do not agree with.

Every provider has the right to run her business as she sees fit; every hobbyist has the right to agree to or decline a session with a provider, based on those business practices.

It sounds like you handled it the best way possible; you weren't comfortable, so you didn't do it. No harm, no foul.

There are many providers here in Houston who do not require a deposit; I am sure you will be able to find plenty you like that also fit your hobbying style. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

Now this is some super funny shit! The same Provider who created a threAD thinking that all clients should give her their ECCIE handle is now arguing against someone posting the handle of the Provider who is asking for PayPal prepayments. SMH.

I do accept paypal (i believe i spoke with u about that im not sure) but nope, i request you pay in my face when u arrive at my incall. Im not dropping panties until the money is in my acct. Simple as that. But to each its own. Everyone has they're own way of conducting business. Personally CASH is the best way to go. Originally Posted by Kammye

Absolutely, there is an effort within the government to phase out certain denominations, such as $5, $10, $20 bills. The argument is that it would save a lot of money by phasing out these currencies, but it really an effort to force all commercial transactions to be electronic. Why? ... because it creates an audit trail and makes it more difficult to conduct small dollar illegal transactions like buying pot or drugs or paying hookers. And, it allows to IRS to track every single fucking penny you make and spend.

I see no harm in revealing the handle of the provider that has certain business practices. This site is for the exchange of information.. This is not like outing. Originally Posted by The2Dogs

I agree that simply sharing a name in this fashion isn't a big deal but, it seems like the OP is coming at it from an "alert" state-of-mind, as if her doing so was some kind of strange and unusual thing.

Given that he's a seemingly newbie, he might not realize that this sort of thing isn't uncommon.

Someone doesn't deserve to be blasted for simply requiring a deposit.

Someone does deserve to be blasted for stealing someone's money or ncns'ing after said deposit was paid.

I suppose that is why he posted in Coed rather than in the alerts so there could be a discussiona nd he could learn a thing or two.
Without knowing the provider, it would be difficult to advise the OP that person is well known and reliable or not known at all and to be cautious in paying a "deposit".

Long time ago when a provider created a website, the purpose was for providers to make themselves better providers and tricks to be able to determine who were good providers and who were bad providers. In a sense a mutually beneficial symbiotic relationship where both benefited. Of course the human element tends to always fuck up a good thing because some peop0le just do not have a lick of common sense or the ability to be a decent human being especially when operating under the anonymity of the internet.

"The2Dogs" got it right. She got a lot of reviews but all are from 01/11/2016 onwards. But has 3 pages worth of reviews. So I learned: Ka$h is cool.

Name the whore or this is a worthleas thread.

The OP is referring to me. And tbh the only reason I asked for half up front was just to give myself some reassurance that I wouldn't be wasting 3+ hours of my time in case he flaked. I do not even have nor have I ever even had a PayPal nor would I be compelled to create one for something like this. I have predominantly always been incall only with very few outcalls under my belt but have been looking further into making outcalls an option as well. His location is an hour and a half from mine and was very nervous. This outcall wasn't even to take place until the following evening which I had already made my decision not to go through with it and the op decided the same. I apologize to the op if it came across the wrong way to you. However, it was merely a question I wouldn't have nor would I ever have accepted a "down payment" (hence the reason I never asked you any personal information that could ever have been used as such. And no, I don't take advantage of newbs or anyone for that matter. I'm pretty much still a newbie myself, especially when it comes to outcalls, which I've decided to just keep on the back burner. Again I apologize for going about it obviously the wrong way.

Overnight I request a deposit ! as it's a lot of time to be booked for and if they flake out ..
if you flake no refund / if I flake I return it .....

No, absolutely you should not disclose her name in this public forum, for simply having a business policy you do not agree with.

Every provider has the right to run her business as she sees fit; every hobbyist has the right to agree to or decline a session with a provider, based on those business practices.

It sounds like you handled it the best way possible; you weren't comfortable, so you didn't do it. No harm, no foul.

There are many providers here in Houston who do not require a deposit; I am sure you will be able to find plenty you like that also fit your hobbying style. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

The OP is referring to me. And tbh the only reason I asked for half up front was just to give myself some reassurance that I wouldn't be wasting 3+ hours of my time in case he flaked. I do not even have nor have I ever even had a PayPal nor would I be compelled to create one for something like this. I have predominantly always been incall only with very few outcalls under my belt but have been looking further into making outcalls an option as well. His location is an hour and a half from mine and was very nervous. This outcall wasn't even to take place until the following evening which I had already made my decision not to go through with it and the op decided the same. I apologize to the op if it came across the wrong way to you. However, it was merely a question I wouldn't have nor would I ever have accepted a "down payment" (hence the reason I never asked you any personal information that could ever have been used as such. And no, I don't take advantage of newbs or anyone for that matter. I'm pretty much still a newbie myself, especially when it comes to outcalls, which I've decided to just keep on the back burner. Again I apologize for going about it obviously the wrong way. Originally Posted by Amberance

No offense taken. I am newbie. So I am scared to death about LE. Hence I created the thread to get an idea from the community what is normal expectancy! Cheers Amberance!