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LMAO...if it is so obvious why do i keep reading comments where you guys or some guys are getting scammed...it makes me pissed off when a female does that... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Because our little head has no brains, it thinks for us my dear it's been like this since the days of hobbying started and befor.Also guys try to find a cheep ticket they dont want to pay the price of some providers.

I've chalked up the few times that I've been ripped off as "life-tuition"...each scenario was a little different, and I picked up a little wisdom after each variation. And hey, if I hadn't gone through those experiences, I wouldn't know what it feels like to be pepper-sprayed! That's one of those things you might wonder about but not really volunteer to explore. (I suspect the story going along with that statement is probably in order).

A few years ago (4-7?), I was in Buffalo and contacted an agency for an out call appointment. I'd had some great experiences with agencies in Buffalo, so I felt okay about reaching out. Learning from earlier rip-off lessons (i. e. no CFS without upsell) I confirmed with the agency that this was an all inclusive donation, and they said yes. Fair enough.

The young lady arrived, and she was attractive. She was ethnically diverse....some combination of caucasian, Afro-Am, and/or Latino...seemed like a product of the city. She was cordial at first. I made my donation and got "comfortable". I don't remember the issue, but it was something reasonable to inquire about...wish I could remember exactly...might have been an up sell gambit that I pushed back on because of the agency assertion, or I might have asked if she was comfortable with pictures....I think it was up sell, because I seem to recall talking about calling the agency. Either way, she quickly got in a huff and said she was out of there. I was fine with her leaving, but I was not fine with her taking my full donation with her. I stood up between her and the door...while I didn't touch her, I did stand in her way telling her she could take some money for gas, but I wanted the rest of my donation back.

She said something to the effect of "Hell, no!" and grabbed her cell phone, where she called her driver. My thought was, "Fine. Get him in here. If he works for the agency, he won't be cool with her ripping me off." (Naive? Maybe). Anyway, pretty soon he's knocking on the door, and I'm trying to talk to him through the door, but he's making a ton of racket (it was daytime) so I opened the door to let him in...he reaches through to grab her and I grab him and pull him into the room...lol (all the while buck naked!) I don't want to fight the guy, but I don't want them to leave either. So, I jam him up into the wall closet while trying to reason with him (seriously), when I see the escort reaching into her bag and bring out a little spray cannister...While saying "Oh, shit" in my head, I try to bury my face into the guy's clothes to keep from getting hit, but she eventually got me. As she started to spray me, I reached out and snatched the dispenser from her hands, but this freed both of them to dash out the door. BTW, pepper spray is NOT enjoyable, however educational. My only consolation is that her pepper spray was also her keychain, so I had her house/apartment keys with me...lol!

I really empathize with the guys this happens too because I have had it happen on the flip side to me. I know how it feels. When I started I worked for an agency for one week. I had a let's just say "full" appointment, he was clearly satisfied and a little impressed. He asked me to walk him down to the door. I turned around to gather my things and he had grabbed most of the donation back when I went down to the door.

When I came back up there was $40 bucks on the dresser! Half of which I had to give to the agency! I found out that he wasn't screened and called from a restricted number! Even I being new knew that was STUPID!

There's my really embarrassing story. Gosh I still wish to this day that I would be able to recognize him! He was well dressed and had a very expensive car, it's not like he couldn't afford it, he just did it to be an a**hole.

I have been ripped off by other providers in a few ways being new a trusting in the beginning. Thanks for this post!! I am far from stupid but have definitely been too naive and trusting at points in my early learning!

Chloe 1st let me thank you for being the subject in a very good story review.

Now for topic.
All I can say is screening for the guys can only go so far. Doing homework has many limits also. And both take from other aspects of the hobby.

So for dealing with providers, stay away if you sense desperate. Dealing with men, stay away if you sense that they think they are better than the providers.

LMAO...if it is so obvious why do i keep reading comments where you guys or some guys are getting scammed...it makes me pissed off when a female does that... Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Exactly....Whenever I read about people complaining about getting ripped off by someone on Back Page I chuckle. What do you expect? This is the equivalent of someone going shopping for a Mercedes and coming home with a Hyundai. If you want to save yourself a few bucks then don't complain. You get what you pay for. There are so many Providers that have worked hard to be reputable and a "sure thing". You really shouldn't bash or complain. For the 2 mistakes you made taking a chance, you could of had a wonderful time with someone reputable.

i have been burned a few times going the bp route. i had wanted so long to treat myself to gabrielle but just couldnt swing the 250. last year when she did the 200 special i told myself this is your treat and if it means skipping a session somewhere else so be it. i will never forget the sight of that tush in rcg if i live to 100 and it was the best memorty money can buy. i was to treat myself to naughty nikki a couple months back but regrettably that fell through. while its hard to spend 300-350 on a provider i thimk that this year i will break down and treat myself to chloe. it just seems the bargains just never turn out to be bargains

Exactly....Whenever I read about people complaining about getting ripped off by someone on Back Page I chuckle. What do you expect? This is the equivalent of someone going shopping for a Mercedes and coming home with a Hyundai. If you want to save yourself a few bucks then don't complain. You get what you pay for. There are so many Providers that have worked hard to be reputable and a "sure thing". You really shouldn't bash or complain. For the 2 mistakes you made taking a chance, you could of had a wonderful time with someone reputable. Originally Posted by SexyGabrielle

Exactly....Whenever I read about people complaining about getting ripped off by someone on Back Page I chuckle. What do you expect? This is the equivalent of someone going shopping for a Mercedes and coming home with a Hyundai. If you want to save yourself a few bucks then don't complain. You get what you pay for. There are so many Providers that have worked hard to be reputable and a "sure thing". You really shouldn't bash or complain. For the 2 mistakes you made taking a chance, you could of had a wonderful time with someone reputable. Originally Posted by SexyGabrielle

I agree you have to figure you’re going to pay one way or another. Reputable, trustworthy providers help reduce that concern of being ripped off, not to mention the other added benefits.

Yeah and you know what Irish Vixen, some providers get scammed also even after they screen screen screen.

And OFFSHOREDRILLING, you are right to stay away from clients who think they are better then providers. I once met a newby who was a creep. He told me his wife was overseas and that she told him to seek out a provider to satisfy his needs while she was away. Well, he goes into the story about how grossed out he was just thinking about meeting a provider. He started to pick my brain and ask about my upbringing and family life as a child and past relationships. He wanted to know why a lady choses this field. You know, as if it's such a low way to make a living.

To make a long story short, I ended up leaving there feeling like a big ZERO. NO ONE should be made to feel that way.

CHLOE: I once got scammed too working for an agency, in NYC. I made 1,000 and only walked away with 200. They told me new providers have to pay more to the agency. So it wasn't the client who stole from me, it was the agency!!

You were very lucky that she did not pull a gun. Although for pulling a gun she could go to jail but boy u were damn lucky.

A provider ripped me off in Groton, CT and got my 200 Bucks for NOTHING.
She was a real whore.

I've chalked up the few times that I've been ripped off as "life-tuition"...each scenario was a little different, and I picked up a little wisdom after each variation. And hey, if I hadn't gone through those experiences, I wouldn't know what it feels like to be pepper-sprayed! That's one of those things you might wonder about but not really volunteer to explore. (I suspect the story going along with that statement is probably in order).

A few years ago (4-7?), I was in Buffalo and contacted an agency for an out call appointment. I'd had some great experiences with agencies in Buffalo, so I felt okay about reaching out. Learning from earlier rip-off lessons (i. e. no CFS without upsell) I confirmed with the agency that this was an all inclusive donation, and they said yes. Fair enough.

The young lady arrived, and she was attractive. She was ethnically diverse....some combination of caucasian, Afro-Am, and/or Latino...seemed like a product of the city. She was cordial at first. I made my donation and got "comfortable". I don't remember the issue, but it was something reasonable to inquire about...wish I could remember exactly...might have been an up sell gambit that I pushed back on because of the agency assertion, or I might have asked if she was comfortable with pictures....I think it was up sell, because I seem to recall talking about calling the agency. Either way, she quickly got in a huff and said she was out of there. I was fine with her leaving, but I was not fine with her taking my full donation with her. I stood up between her and the door...while I didn't touch her, I did stand in her way telling her she could take some money for gas, but I wanted the rest of my donation back.

She said something to the effect of "Hell, no!" and grabbed her cell phone, where she called her driver. My thought was, "Fine. Get him in here. If he works for the agency, he won't be cool with her ripping me off." (Naive? Maybe). Anyway, pretty soon he's knocking on the door, and I'm trying to talk to him through the door, but he's making a ton of racket (it was daytime) so I opened the door to let him in...he reaches through to grab her and I grab him and pull him into the room...lol (all the while buck naked!) I don't want to fight the guy, but I don't want them to leave either. So, I jam him up into the wall closet while trying to reason with him (seriously), when I see the escort reaching into her bag and bring out a little spray cannister...While saying "Oh, shit" in my head, I try to bury my face into the guy's clothes to keep from getting hit, but she eventually got me. As she started to spray me, I reached out and snatched the dispenser from her hands, but this freed both of them to dash out the door. BTW, pepper spray is NOT enjoyable, however educational. My only consolation is that her pepper spray was also her keychain, so I had her house/apartment keys with me...lol! Originally Posted by MajorHands

well then, that about sums it up.....WOW

Reminds me of a few years ago when I was traveling, I called an agency I found in Yellow pages. They sent over a really hot looking girl.
She had me leave the donation in the bathroom on the counter, and told me to get comfortable on the bed, she was gonna freshen up and would be right out.
Well guess what? she came out of the bath room & I thought I heard another door open. Yep! she was gone and down the hall with my cash!

Now with the boards and such we have access to now on the net. There is no reason to not do your research on the provider via boards ,her website & reviews. Just as providers research and screen their new potential clients.

Do your research guys and gals. It will make the hobby more fun and safe for all!