What kind of post session feedback would a provider want from a client?

Judging by what I hear-- yeah, you're probably right about that. I just don't see the necessity to take things here so personally. At the end of the day, we are still service providers-- and complaints and criticism are part of EVERY other industry. You can either take the critique and improve your standard of service... or you can get mad and pissy about the critique and your clientele can go elsewhere.

most whores have a suggestion box somewhere in their in call, and appreciate you filling out a quick survey card with your thoughts and suggestions.......did you just get here? its not Denny's, handle your business, pay and go away is the norm, Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Great observation Tony, but you forgot to mention how important it is to find the suggestion box and leave a card. It's a good idea to start your search when the provider goes to clean up. It's usually in the living room area. Good luck!

Great observation Tony, but you forgot to mention how important it is to find the suggestion box and leave a card. It's a good idea to start your search when the provider goes to clean up. It's usually in the living room area. Good luck! Originally Posted by johnclark

some whores forget to take it out of their overnight bag.....always a good place to look!

... At the end of the day, we are still service providers-- and complaints and criticism are part of EVERY other industry. You can either take the critique and improve your standard of service... or you can get mad and pissy about the critique and your clientele can go elsewhere. Originally Posted by GracePreston

true, adult service providers are providers.

but not all [the majority?] can take the critique much less improve when informed about below average service.

in the few times i've done so [stated from personal preference, NOT "you know what? your <insertSkill> is really below average and you should improve ..."] and from what i hear from other guys, some providers have gotten mad even foul mouthed about suggestions.
thus, why attempt to do so again if the odds are that she'll hurl all kinds of less than deliteful comments back via email, text, and/or pvtmsg??

Great observation Tony, but you forgot to mention how important it is to find the suggestion box and leave a card. It's a good idea to start your search when the provider goes to clean up. It's usually in the living room area. Good luck! Originally Posted by johnclark

Candace, when she ran the Crew, actually had feedback cards that clients were asked to fill out.

some whores forget to take it out of their overnight bag.....always a good place to look! Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Now that's really fuckin funny! Well played sir.

If you enjoyed your time, a glowing review will always be appreciated.

If a gent had a fun time, a short note telling me he did is always appreciated, as are reviews.

If he didn't, I'd like to know that too. If there is something I can do to make it up, I certainly would like the opportunity to try.

If a gent had a fun time, a short note telling me he did is always appreciated, as are reviews.

If he didn't, I'd like to know that too. If there is something I can do to make it up, I certainly would like the opportunity to try. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

This. I had a gent who was upset with me for a couple of weeks before he finally decided to address his upset with me. Turns out, he misunderstood something I had said... and once he communicated with me and we straightened it out.. everything was peaches n' cream.

I get an extra big smile when I get those I enjoyed myself texts and sometimes do a little dance.

There was a provider here a couple of years ago whom I really clicked with but became habitually late and inconsiderate of my wishes. Her studio upbringing manifested itself to the point where I had to let her know. I sent her a pleasant but truthful message describing her behavior and that because of it I was sincerely going to miss her company as I wouldn't reward it with my business. She apologized and asked for another chance which I gave her. I don't think she was aware of what she was doing because the behavior stopped almost immediately. Even though she's almost quit the hobby I still see her quite regularly.

The point is we don't have to agree on everything as long as we're clear on fulfilling each others expectations. If you really like the provider you should start an honest dialog. If she's not receptive you probably shouldn't be wasting your time and money fucking her.

I give her any feedback I want to give her at the door when I kiss her goodby, that's much more personal. Don't understand waiting five minutes to text a message you could have told her person. Seems sort of Match.Comiss to me. She's probably busy texting her next client.

Meh, I think I'll just stick to saying nothing and moving on. Seems like the smart thing to do. Plenty 'o' fish out there in the Dallas seas! Thanks Mr. Gambino for being the voice of reason.

I've sent "enjoyed meeting you" or "had a great time" sort of things before but that's about as far as I would go. Going to see them again I would think would be a nice compliment as well.