TCB Question How long is too Long?

Couple of hours at most on first contact--for example let's say you have arrived in town this evening (a Wednesday and Friday is your free time) having got settled down and you realized that you can see someone Friday, you contact the chick at 730---the next morning Thursday by 9am with no contact back there is no way that we should have to continue to wait on a response from a girl. It's time to contact several other providers, and come 3pm that day and you have several no responses also then it's most likely over for Friday evening.

Let's say it's Wednesday and you have Friday late afternoon free so you contact a girl Wednesday evening and then come Thursday evening you are still dry, your a fool--but then Friday at 3am in the god damn morning she text you back "hey",,,this happens all the time--she's interested in money right then, girl don't give a shit about your original Friday evening request, but you think she does and you continue to think that your special--

Back to the first Wednesday contact (if your still keeping up with me) she should have contacted you within a few hours and said "yes" Friday is good, call me Friday.

A guy sets the terms--if you wait on her to set the terms then you are a fool--

I have seen plenty of girls on this site and BP, the ones that deserve good reviews respond immediately. Couple of hours at most. These so called "unicorn chicks" that come and go,,,you guys end up being a spokesperson for them because you feel special and rewarded for your efforts. She only continues to see you now because she found out that you have a voice here, and that seldom makes you a regular either--so if someone tells you 24 hours is acceptable (especially a moderator) that's a WK, don't expect the same service from that whore at all. Originally Posted by The Grey Monster

I take personal offense at your remarks and call BS. Waiting 24 hours is more than acceptable for a quality provider. If you want the wham, bam, thank you ma'am experience; troll BP. Those girls will respond in 15 minutes and be ready to fuck in an hour. Why, b/c they have a pimp who expects volume. I think the OP here is looking for a quality provider who will offer a good date, and not be made to feel like he's going through a revolving door. Oh, here's another thing with BP. If the girl is an unknown, how do you know the following a) she's not a rip off artist; b) she's not using fake pics; c) she upsells; and d) she is an NCNS artist. Yeah, I'm painting BP girls with a broad brush b/c the experience with those girls is known to be way more than YMMV. If one does his research and sticks with reviewed girls or girls who come recommended, there is no reason not to give the girl time to respond. Sure, there are times when you want it now, but some of us like to plan ahead and are willing to wait for a response. That is why you have a back up plan. Sure, it would be great if all providers responded immediately, but I've found out the ones who sit by the phone waiting for a John are precisely the girls you do not want see.

I read the whole stream before I made this comment. Use good business judgement. If there someone you really want to see, be persistent. If you get no or bullshit responses, move on. You will always have differing opinions. Just the nature of this and all these kinds of sites. Everyone has there way and most everyone has success.

The comment referencing moderators was not fair. You will see that moderators take a lot of shit. Like every job paid or unpaid, some are good as well as care, others are bad and take advantage of the situation. Our moderators work hard to help us, we give them shit sometimes because this and other sites like this are guys busting each other's ball for sport.

A really good mod told me once, when you make the contact, feel free to ask what specials are available. He knows who he is and thank you. Funny the value of a few words can give you.

Word of advice, stay off BP. You can get lucky and you can get shafted also. Hope that helps, Good luck.

AP

I'm still new here, so please excuse me if this question has been around the block a few times:

? How long should a client wait to hear from a provider that he's contacted? I fully understand that some providers are a lot busier than others; some providers are busy with RL jobs or other RL stuff; some providers don't do this full time. I also understand that a provider wouldn't answer right away if they are already with a client (I would hope not!)

If I text a prospective provider and don't hear back from her after three days, should I assume:

a. She's forgotten about my text/pm; or
b. She's opting not to see me.

If it's (a) then do I continue to contact her?
If it's (b) then I'd rather she tell me so.

Thoughts?

Also, am I correct when I say some providers answer clients right away if they are available that day. If they are not available, then they just wait til the next day to see who calls. Previous requests are just ignored. In other words, is it a matter of luck to call/text at the right time?

I usually plan my visits several days in advance/even a week away. Many of us married guys have only a short window of opportunity.

Thanks for your thoughts! Originally Posted by nkdwhtguy

Word of advice, stay off BP. You can get lucky and you can get shafted also. Hope that helps, Good luck.

AP Originally Posted by AttitudePositive

That is good advice, but I would add one thing to it. Don't write off all BP providers. There are a lot of touring girls who are well reviewed on ECCIE and are members of P411 who use BP when touring. It broadens their client pool The good providers know how to use BP and know how to screen clients from BP. The problem with BP is that there are 2 extremes. When using BP, remember the words of Ronald Reagan, "Trust but verify".

If i were a guy and i was coming into town i would set up an appointment about a week before and check on it a few times. Just to see how her communication skills are. Id also be talkin to a few others just incase plan A doesnt come through.

If i lived in the same city as the provider id just try to be open and work it out and talk to her if shes ready to meet she will. If shes not she wont but if she still talks to you id say your chances are still good shes just busy. But when in a crunch i would always go with the girls you know have a good reputation for meeting up fast or the girls ive seen before that way you dont have to go through a screening process.

And as far as BP if you do your research and really look u can find a good girl. I know of atleast 3 other girls on this site (besides myself) that got their start on BP and ended up here or p411. Its the junk*e girls and their pimps on bp that give it a bad rep. But if used right can be an asset for ladies and a good way of finding more girls that are worth being reviewd and set apart from bp.

Thank you NLN for a female perspective.

If i were a guy and i was coming into town i would set up an appointment about a week before and check on it a few times. Just to see how her communication skills are. Id also be talkin to a few others just incase plan A doesnt come through.

If i lived in the same city as the provider id just try to be open and work it out and talk to her if shes ready to meet she will. If shes not she wont but if she still talks to you id say your chances are still good shes just busy. But when in a crunch i would always go with the girls you know have a good reputation for meeting up fast or the girls ive seen before that way you dont have to go through a screening process.

And as far as BP if you do your research and really look u can find a good girl. I know of atleast 3 other girls on this site (besides myself) that got their start on BP and ended up here or p411. Its the junk*e girls and their pimps on bp that give it a bad rep. But if used right can be an asset for ladies and a good way of finding more girls that are worth being reviewd and set apart from bp. Originally Posted by NaughtyLittleNative

thanks nln!

NLN is one of the best I have ever met in this biz ... no drama , wants to please....smart girl IMHO

NLN, please visit the Destin/FWB area. I would love meet you and show you around.

AP

That is good advice, but I would add one thing to it. Don't write off all BP providers. There are a lot of touring girls who are well reviewed on ECCIE and are members of P411 who use BP when touring. It broadens their client pool The good providers know how to use BP and know how to screen clients from BP. The problem with BP is that there are 2 extremes. When using BP, remember the words of Ronald Reagan, "Trust but verify". Originally Posted by Cpalmson

If i were a guy and i was coming into town i would set up an appointment about a week before and check on it a few times. Just to see how her communication skills are. Id also be talkin to a few others just incase plan A doesnt come through.

If i lived in the same city as the provider id just try to be open and work it out and talk to her if shes ready to meet she will. If shes not she wont but if she still talks to you id say your chances are still good shes just busy. But when in a crunch i would always go with the girls you know have a good reputation for meeting up fast or the girls ive seen before that way you dont have to go through a screening process.

And as far as BP if you do your research and really look u can find a good girl. I know of atleast 3 other girls on this site (besides myself) that got their start on BP and ended up here or p411. Its the junk*e girls and their pimps on bp that give it a bad rep. But if used right can be an asset for ladies and a good way of finding more girls that are worth being reviewd and set apart from bp. Originally Posted by NaughtyLittleNative

No shit NLN...get yo ass over here!!
Lol!!!

Couple of hours at most on first contact--for example let's say you have arrived in town this evening (a Wednesday and Friday is your free time) having got settled down and you realized that you can see someone Friday, you contact the chick at 730---the next morning Thursday by 9am with no contact back there is no way that we should have to continue to wait on a response from a girl. It's time to contact several other providers, and come 3pm that day and you have several no responses also then it's most likely over for Friday evening.

Let's say it's Wednesday and you have Friday late afternoon free so you contact a girl Wednesday evening and then come Thursday evening you are still dry, your a fool--but then Friday at 3am in the god damn morning she text you back "hey",,,this happens all the time--she's interested in money right then, girl don't give a shit about your original Friday evening request, but you think she does and you continue to think that your special--

Back to the first Wednesday contact (if your still keeping up with me) she should have contacted you within a few hours and said "yes" Friday is good, call me Friday.

A guy sets the terms--if you wait on her to set the terms then you are a fool--

I have seen plenty of girls on this site and BP, the ones that deserve good reviews respond immediately. Couple of hours at most. These so called "unicorn chicks" that come and go,,,you guys end up being a spokesperson for them because you feel special and rewarded for your efforts. She only continues to see you now because she found out that you have a voice here, and that seldom makes you a regular either--so if someone tells you 24 hours is acceptable (especially a moderator) that's a WK, don't expect the same service from that whore at all. Originally Posted by The Grey Monster

So, because we are trying to help a new member out and tell him that 24 hours can be acceptable that we are WKs!1 Are you kidding me? You are so full of crap it isn't even funny!!!

You seem to be very good at posting comments but not so good at reviews....just saying.
Why can't you just offer help without criticizing others? Your comments about others was off topic and of no help!

As I said before, it mostly just depends on what his comfort zone is. If he is comfortable with 24 hours, then who cares?

Amen Brother.

So, because we are trying to help a new member out and tell him that 24 hours can be acceptable that we are WKs!1 Are you kidding me? You are so full of crap it isn't even funny!!!

You seem to be very good at posting comments but not so good at reviews....just saying.
Why can't you just offer help without criticizing others? Your comments about others was off topic and of no help!

As I said before, it mostly just depends on what his comfort zone is. If he is comfortable with 24 hours, then who cares? Originally Posted by virgben

I guess so, you guys have seen more then I have, but to give the girls a pass of 24 hours is insane--if you did have a backup plan or two then that would be cancellations with them.

A week in advance is also a long time, and then having to confirm that date as the week progresses and having to wait 24 hours for a confirmation, nobody here is doing that.

But, I do stand by my comment, if someone is saying 24 hours is acceptable (and sometimes it probably did not matter) but to say that is okay then you are probably protecting someone with bad communication skills.

It don't have to be a pimp that handles messages for another girl, it could just be a friend--at least she's trying to be responsive.

And there are hundreds of contributors on this site that do not post reviews, I'm pretty sure that they would not be here if they are not active in the hobby.

I'm finding that every provider is different. Some only want to hear from you if you're ready "right now," while others have a more elaborate screening process, some requesting and taking into account more information than is comfortable for an initial encounter. My advice is to listen to your gut - better a night alone, than a night in the grey bar hotel.

So, because we are trying to help a new member out and tell him that 24 hours can be acceptable that we are WKs!1 Are you kidding me? You are so full of crap it isn't even funny!!!

You seem to be very good at posting comments but not so good at reviews....just saying.
Why can't you just offer help without criticizing others? Your comments about others was off topic and of no help!

As I said before, it mostly just depends on what his comfort zone is. If he is comfortable with 24 hours, then who cares? Originally Posted by virgben

Amen Brother. Originally Posted by AttitudePositive

I second AP's post.

No shit NLN...get yo ass over here!!
Lol!!!

No, keep that fine ass here in Pensacola! lol