question for the ladies....

Sorry you are having a cancellation problem......those suck. As someone mention above, some gents book with multiple ladies for the same time slot. I hope things get better for you. Keep your spirits up.
am-a-pleaser's Avatar
Im not flaky so I would expect the guys to be the same way but I guess it doesnt work that way. but I'm not going any where! Originally Posted by hot.jewel
It sux for guys, too. Out here in West Texas, I make plans to see a lady on tour out here. Then something comes up with her. She cancels or ncns. Seems like it has happened more lately. I go to a lot of trouble making sure my nails are trimmed, my wardrobe is just right, etc. I don't make a plan b or c. So, I'm just sol. It happens, but I'll just save the $ and book more time with the next lady.

But, I know why some don't go to the trouble to impress. Sometimes a lot of time, effort and work for nothing.

Jewel, I may have to fly you out here to see me.
oldmarine's Avatar
I don't make a plan B or C because I feel that is dishonest. I put a lot of effort into choosing a partner because I am very selective and I want the most bang for my buck (pardon the pun). If plan A fails I simply start over. Yeah it takes longer but that does not bother me. I have only been canceled on once and that was because aunt flo came early. Maybe I have just been lucky.
I would never cancel on you Jewel
Barny Stinson's Avatar
i am on call for work so i tend to make same day or last minute appointments as to keep from having to cancel appointments as i can not make it for work. every once in a while i still get caught short for work and have to cancel. it is by no means anything against the lady and i tell them the deal before making the appointment and also let them know how it works. i have had some ladies tell me if i cant schedule in advance they would not see me so i don't see them. anyway just a note from a guy on the other side.
Mariah Moore's Avatar