I need them to be older than my oldest son. I haven't had many men that have come that close thankfully.
He's only 19. Maybe if I stuck around doing this for a few more years I might have to worry about it.
Being a bit younger than me is cool. My SO is less than 10 years older than my oldest. Sometimes I think it's a little close in their ages but he gets along well with my youngest. And what's best, and might have been from me being a younger single mother, is that we get along really well and like a lot of the same things. We are both still like 14-15 year old brains that have the freedoms of an adult and resources. At least that's how we say it at times.