Well said! I have been given an providers email or phone number along with their eccie name- I seach the provider and contact via PM for the same reason as you mentioned (could be wife etc) Now there was ONE who preffered to be contacted by email and I did so- But yes,all good points and words to live by in my book! Keep on being reference friendly- I may need ya someday! And THANKS for being there for both sides. Originally Posted by StaceyMayWe all should be.