How you present yourself on this or any platform is extremely important. Unfortunately the mere fact that you have little time in a single thread or posting to attract the wanted attention necessary to be successful. ECCIE and the other boards are a great marketing tool to present yourself.... use the tools at your disposal in a responsible manner to improve your odds at success.
Having been on ECCIE, NR, TER, Twitter, etc etc the ladies that are most attractive convey their real nature in their postings.
I have been involved on various boards over the past few years and have found that the personality of the lady is most important. If someone feels that you should tame yourself... then they apparently do not know you very well.
While I have been a member on this particular board since 2012, there are many time that I chosen not to engage in various threads. If that makes me a "Lurker" then so be it, the need to post random responses to threads to meet or exceed the "post count" to maintain appearances is ridiculous.
Be who you are... the ones who truly know you will attest that you are wonderful and worth the time to get to know. Those that have not met you yet or are unfamiliar should take the time.. for you know not what you are missing!
Originally Posted by cafriend
Well said CA.
Sometimes though, I'm actually posting replies to threads not to generate attention. The idea that women post only to get attention is ridiculous. Some of us care about those that support us so to speak. I have questions that I'd like input on. To better serve you fine gents and to get to know more about my suitor. After all you are more than just a wallet. And I want to treat you as such.