Just curious.

This happened with me once. I gave a reference, and after verifying me that reference contacted me and offered a discount. I declined, for a few reasons, kept the original plans and will never see the referenced girl again.

My reasons are...
1. I made arrangements with the new girl and feel an obligation to keep that. Just as it would piss me off if the girl cancelled our plans if she got a different offer.
2. I wasn't price shopping and never do. I don't clip coupons either.
3. I never told the reference it was OK to contact me and it is not ok that she did. If I can't trust her to be discreet or respect my privacy then I can't trust her period.

I doubt many guys would go for the lowball offer, and I doubt the OP wants to meet any guys that would do that. The OP is better off having been stood up.

I had a request from a gent for my upcoming West Texas tour.......when I asked the provider about him,she says she does not know who he is.......BUT the gent says he has seen her numerous times and last visit was last month...he gave descriptive info only she would know................well he wrote me this morning that she did not want him to see anybody but her and she would see him at a dirt cheap price!...wtf!....well he is seeing my anyways!!! Originally Posted by DallasRain

See.... it does pay to be professional. I believe from the comments from the gentlemen, that when one does this, its kind of limiting his options, and I'm sure that's not appreciated.
I'm over it.

This happened with me once. I gave a reference, and after verifying me that reference contacted me and offered a discount. I declined, for a few reasons, kept the original plans and will never see the referenced girl again.

My reasons are...
1. I made arrangements with the new girl and feel an obligation to keep that. Just as it would piss me off if the girl cancelled our plans if she got a different offer.
2. I wasn't price shopping and never do. I don't clip coupons either.
3. I never told the reference it was OK to contact me and it is not ok that she did. If I can't trust her to be discreet or respect my privacy then I can't trust her period.

I doubt many guys would go for the lowball offer, and I doubt the OP wants to meet any guys that would do that. The OP is better off having been stood up. Originally Posted by slinmo

What's a coupon??
Lol
Just kidding! You're right. I'm glad he was a NCNS. I'm not usually one they contact if they're price shopping. I understand I don't fit into everyone's budget, and that's fine.