OTC Troubles...

PeterBota's Avatar
She's done with you. She found your replacement. That is how it works. Move along and find a new slut.
PetrusMaximus's Avatar
Drop her now...if she asks for anything tell her to get it from her boyfriend. She is not a hooker, well shit, you are not an ATM. At least you shouldn't be. Originally Posted by gladius82
Do I look like an ATM machine to you?

Dude, she will only use you as long as you let her
NTXReggie's Avatar
I mean I have/had feelings for her. I have known her about 5 years now. So how do I play it cool when I get the text "Hey when do you want to do the hotel again"?
How do I tell her I'm not interested if its just going to be shitty ass lap dances?
Well the feelings thing...that puts another dynamic into play and alters my advice. There is likely a better chance to win the lottery than fall into a real (meaning both sides forego all others) relationship with a currently providing stripper or a hooker. I would say move on.

When she texts, tell her straight up. No more fucking and sucking, no more hotel and $$$. Although I would probably try to get her to throw a leg one more time for good measure, on the house or just the price of the room. Explain that it would make up for the last few less than desirable meetings and would make you feel less used moving forward...but then hit it and quit it...no moving forward, just don't tell her that until later. I am only suggesting the possible freebie to cover your previous "losses."

Again, plenty of fish in the sea...especially if you are dropping coin to play!
gladius82's Avatar
NTXReggie,
You have a point, If the OP's little head just has to have some....set up ethereal BEFORE you fork over any money, and get all the pussy you want BEFORE you give her a dime. I've been through that shit before and like someone else said, You (OP) have already been replaced. Do what you must to move on and not be used with out getting what you want.