Does a Providers Character Really Matter?

I've got enough reviews posts out there for people know I'm not a lurker. In deference to MuffDvr, in my opinion, the personality, etiquette and charm of the Provider is very important. I had one provider (not capitalized as a matter of direct disrespect of her) who was not only fat and advertising a slim body but insulted me then robbed me of $500. I don't care if she lies about her biography or other matters but I do expect the Provider to not be a thief, batty like a certain former moderator, stuck-up on herself or a thief.

what a retarded thread bc most of you guys are F!n MENTAL!

most of you post ho guys are ugly, FAT, uncouth, you have such LOW SELF ESTEEM so to make yourself feel better you get on an escort board to belittle the ladies and you want to know if her character matters? look at yourself first before you ask.

I'm still a Mod on 2 boards. I don't need a title to speak my mind esp here. The best part:I have RESPECT where ever I go. I'll always take up for the ladies. The providers already have a lot on their plates so don't be disrespectful. The only time a provider is a challenge is when she's PROVOKED. Believe it or not, most enjoy what they do. The ladies do love their clients. Be nice and she'll be sweet on you.

And TallGirlLover: you need to stop spreading LIES about that provider bc she didn't steal your money. And YES, I am stuck on myself. You're just pissed bc I turned your ass down twice! and that I had to BAN you on the P bc you went MENTAL as well and you got even more pissed when the local Mod and a ref/escort board supported my actions.

I have to agree with you Caroline. Most of us perverts on this board are MENTAL. We all want to have sex with some strange women and expect her to have good character? You can call it what you want. Character, ethics, charm, whatever. It's all payed for and without the payment we wouldn't get any of it.

what a retarded thread bc most of you guys are F!n MENTAL!

most of you post ho guys are ugly, FAT, uncouth, you have such LOW SELF ESTEEM so to make yourself feel better you get on an escort board to belittle the ladies and you want to know if her character matters? look at yourself first before you ask.

I'm still a Mod on 2 boards. I don't need a title to speak my mind esp here. The best part:I have RESPECT where ever I go. I'll always take up for the ladies. The providers already have a lot on their plates so don't be disrespectful. The only time a provider is a challenge is when she's PROVOKED. Believe it or not, most enjoy what they do. The ladies do love their clients. Be nice and she'll be sweet on you.

And TallGirlLover: you need to stop spreading LIES about that provider bc she didn't steal your money. And YES, I am stuck on myself. You're just pissed bc I turned your ass down twice! and that I had to BAN you on the P bc you went MENTAL as well and you got even more pissed when the local Mod and a ref/escort board supported my actions. Originally Posted by caroline!

what a retarded thread bc most of you guys are F!n MENTAL!

most of you post ho guys are ugly, FAT, uncouth, you have such LOW SELF ESTEEM so to make yourself feel better you get on an escort board to belittle the ladies and you want to know if her character matters? look at yourself first before you ask.

I'm still a Mod on 2 boards. I don't need a title to speak my mind esp here. The best part:I have RESPECT where ever I go. I'll always take up for the ladies. The providers already have a lot on their plates so don't be disrespectful. The only time a provider is a challenge is when she's PROVOKED. Believe it or not, most enjoy what they do. The ladies do love their clients. Be nice and she'll be sweet on you.

And TallGirlLover: you need to stop spreading LIES about that provider bc she didn't steal your money. And YES, I am stuck on myself. You're just pissed bc I turned your ass down twice! and that I had to BAN you on the P bc you went MENTAL as well and you got even more pissed when the local Mod and a ref/escort board supported my actions. Originally Posted by caroline!

Re-read the email trail, you little witch. You had no authority to ban me from aspd because the incident between us did not occur on that venue. It began on P411. You lied to Gina about me. You lied to BigC about me. I've been told you've been giving him free sex as well as the other moderators. That's your only qualification. Stop speaking with your other lips. Once again you've pulled BigC into something he has no business to know. Now you've re-generated this fight here on eccie. Are you going to run back to Gina and claim I'm the one causing trouble? As for what that other fat provider did, which was theft, you were not there and she also is a liar. Stop causing trouble on the wrong venues.

Very Important! Truth is what makes business function. Many of the Alert Posts, NC,NS, 'misunderstandings', etc would be avoided if all were of good character and truthful.

Good Cheerful disposition is also important. NO Further comment.

what a retarded thread bc most of you guys are F!n MENTAL!

most of you post ho guys are ugly, FAT, uncouth, you have such LOW SELF ESTEEM so to make yourself feel better you get on an escort board to belittle the ladies and you want to know if her character matters? look at yourself first before you ask.

I'm still a Mod on 2 boards. I don't need a title to speak my mind esp here. The best part:I have RESPECT where ever I go. I'll always take up for the ladies. The providers already have a lot on their plates so don't be disrespectful. The only time a provider is a challenge is when she's PROVOKED. Believe it or not, most enjoy what they do. The ladies do love their clients. Be nice and she'll be sweet on you.

And TallGirlLover: you need to stop spreading LIES about that provider bc she didn't steal your money. And YES, I am stuck on myself. You're just pissed bc I turned your ass down twice! and that I had to BAN you on the P bc you went MENTAL as well and you got even more pissed when the local Mod and a ref/escort board supported my actions. Originally Posted by caroline!

I don't think I have ever been so turned on by a woman in my entire life! Does a provider's character really matter? Depends on the provider I guess. There have been so many busts, outing of clients, outings of other providers and none of it has ever surfaced because it was a sweetheart responsible. Had it been someone the board didn't care for, she would have been hanged for any infraction of the rules. Sad. If you don't suck ass and are a woman with a brain and strong opinions, fogggetaboutit! You rock Caroline, and yes you are beautiful because you are confident on top of sexy!

TallGirlLover, who cares if she is giving Big C anything for free. Maybe he is hot and a great lover for all you know. I have never heard of anyone being forced to do it, so obviously IF she did, it is her decision. If I could take that much C**K I would give him some too. Calling women witches, and bitches is not very becoming, and you were not robbed. You had a crappy environment you saw said provider at, and she thought you were creepy. If she felt you owed her for the time it took to get dressed and get over there, so be it. That's her choice once again.

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How Important to you is a Providers Ethics and Character?

I feel VERY strongly that the ethics and character of the person with whom I choose to spend my time is extremely important.

I'm talking about basic goodwill, honesty, and pride in their job. Respect for others. Treat people as you would like to be treated. A real work ethic.

How important is an ECCIE provider's Character to you. as a hobbyist?

Not CL or BP or whatever site touring girls frequent. I'm referring to the ladies that participate and advertise on this board and in this community on a regular basis.

Please feel free to express your thoughts. Originally Posted by SeaDog

As for me, yes, the above highlighted items are the first step a girl has to show in order for me to call her. In the past, I was not so adamant in my position and it was a mistake. The worst thing you can do guys is see, or continue to see, a crazy dishonest disrespectful indiscreet working girl who has your information. As to what SeaDog originally posted about character and does it matter, to me it does in a major way but if you find her character to be ugly, rude, nasty or any other of a ton of adjectives that apply but she does like Buckcherry sang



do you keep going back and if you do, why? There is no need to be around someone who is ugly to the bone, i.e. personality or character problems, even if the chick can screw you silly. If someone has mental issues, go on to the next one. Post alerts if need be and then mosey on down the road all the wiser.

Just like the guys that participate here have issues, as if we don't all have issues, don't ever forget that the women who are here giving you what you want have issues too. In some cases, major issues that you won't see until it is far too late, trust me on this. In all times, respect for one another should be the guiding light for anyone. If you get tangled in a fur ball, learn from your mistakes and avoid those in the future by being smarter than the average bear.

Be safe out there guys and girls. It is a crazy world.

Re-read the email trail, you little witch. You had no authority to ban me from aspd because the incident between us did not occur on that venue. It began on P411. You lied to Gina about me. You lied to BigC about me. I've been told you've been giving him free sex as well as the other moderators. That's your only qualification. Stop speaking with your other lips. Once again you've pulled BigC into something he has no business to know. Now you've re-generated this fight here on eccie. Are you going to run back to Gina and claim I'm the one causing trouble? As for what that other fat provider did, which was theft, you were not there and she also is a liar. Stop causing trouble on the wrong venues. Originally Posted by TallGirlLover

First, knock it off with the name-calling....No if's, and's or butt's about it.....Knock it off.....

Second, apparently both you and Caroline are giving BIG C too much credit for even having the slightest remembrance of what the hell you're talking about from ASPD days, and even if I did recall it, those days are gone forever and it's the creed here that people on ECCIE get a fresh start, regardless of what went down on ASPD....Adopt the Vegas credo and let "Whatever happened on the "P" stay on the 'P'".....Thanks.

Third, now how in the hell did I get dragged into this???.....You start spreading rumors about me getting free sex (which isn't the first time that rumor has been spread and it won't be the last time either).....What I find incredible in this case is that you're accusing another moderator of giving me free sex when she wouldn't have had to do that to try to curry any favors since she had all the same authority on the "P" as I did.....And seeing as how I've never even met Caroline before then imagine what a "nevermind" it makes you look like to be perpetrating spreading that lie.....

Last, and not least, this appears to be an issue between you and Caroline which needs to be kept OFF the board here.....This thread is about whether the members here think the character of the provider matters, or whether it just matters if she's a good fuck.....That's where this discussion needs to be (except I can see the ladies wanting to reply about whether a guy is a nutcase or not as that's probably closely related enough that it's kewl).....Any replies outside of that realm may be considered hijacking this thread and in case anyone here has forgotten, I don't have a problem taking appropriate actions against anyone blatantly violating rules (especially when I've warned them not to do so).....

And for the record, I've gotta say that I agree with the theory that character is very important to me and there have been plenty of times that I've not even made any attempts to see someone who was rumored to be a good fuck, but her character and personality have been of very questionable nature (trying to be polite for once----lol).....There is no right or wrong answer here as this is very subjective to each individual and what they're looking for when they want to schedule with someone.....Some guys just want to hit it and quit it, while others are always looking for the total GFE and are trying to bond with someone on more than just a physical level.....And then there are some who are looking for a combination of the two ideals.....Boy, could I name names here (but that would definitely get me in trouble----lol)

quoted---...you got a lovely face,
We're going to your place, and now you freak me out
Scream so loud, getting fuckin' laid
....
.... You 're a crazy bitch
But you fuck so good I'm on top of it --unquoted.....

ONE OF MY FAVE SONGS{Crazy Bitch}!!!!

Yep Dallas, after I heard it I just laughed at myself because someone I once saw is so that song since she is a crazy bitch. The sex was not good enough to make up for the hassel but the song... priceless!

TallGirlLover, who cares if she is giving Big C anything for free. Maybe he is hot and a great lover for all you know. I have never heard of anyone being forced to do it, so obviously IF she did, it is her decision. If I could take that much C**K I would give him some too. Originally Posted by Kaylee

Hey, I concur 100% with everything said here, especially the part about me being "hot and a great lover" and ladies giving me some, too.....Hey, I just couldn't resist .....

This business/hobby is so diverse with so many different likes, dislikes, objectives and reasons for being active in the hobby.

I'm completely satisfied with a very small number of regular providers. As a result, our relationship is more than a business transaction. We truly care about the welfare of each other ... without crossing the line.

A provider's character, integrity, honesty and discretion are very important to me if there's any chance of developing an ongoing P4P relationship.

This business/hobby is so diverse with so many different likes, dislikes, objectives and reasons for being active in the hobby.

I'm completely satisfied with a very small number of regular providers. As a result, our relationship is more than a business transaction. We truly care about the welfare of each other ... without crossing the line.

A provider's character, integrity, honesty and discretion are very important to me if there's any chance of developing an ongoing P4P relationship. Originally Posted by pjpenner

+1 for sure. Well said.

"A provider's character, integrity, honesty and discretion are very important to me if there's any chance of developing an ongoing P4P relationship."

I too agree with that but stealing from Hobbyists is not the prerogative of a provider. $550 for 30 minutes time is excessive. This matter will not die until someone sends me a number for $375. Until then pigs will fly before I'll let it go.