Social media and the hobby

Amber Does's Avatar
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A smart provider won't mix their personal life with their professional one.
Ahhhh the best of both worlds. :-)
Amber Does's Avatar
Ahhhh the best of both worlds. :-) Originally Posted by newbiebuf
Occasionally they mix by accident lol
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What bustybabygirl said. Separate hobby email & number is the way to go.

I've "friended" some long time regulars that I'm comfortable with, after they sent the requests though. I would never send a request.

And a few times when I have gotten requests from people - even a provider - that I wasn't as familiar with, and especially without asking me first, those ppl have been instantly blocked then.
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Occasionally they mix by accident lol Originally Posted by Amber Does
Believing in 'accidents' is a great way to live Tom Lehrer's quote "Soon we'll be sliding down the razor blade of life" (from Bright College Days).
Believing in 'accidents' is a great way to live Tom Lehrer's quote "Soon we'll be sliding down the razor blade of life" (from Bright College Days). Originally Posted by Alchemist2u
An old old friend used to use that expression.... with an addition
He'd say he was sliding down the rusty and serrated blade of life....
I appreciate the perspectives. I know that hobby phones are the way to go, but I only hobby a few times a year. Hard to justify the cost and effort for that. This provider is a Tantrika in NYC that I actually saw with my wife, and her IG account is in her actual name, not her work name, so I think this situation is a little different. It's obviously unusual though, and I don't think I'll allow access to my FB if I get a request there
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Social media is an invaluable tool for doing background checks on Verified Criminals...eerr Providers.
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Social media is an invaluable tool for doing stalking on Verified Criminals...eerr Providers. Originally Posted by jokacz
fify



if you approach every girl as if she IS a criminal

then there is never a problem


if you approach every girl as if she HAS and std

then there is never a problem
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Next Best Thing's Avatar
I understand there are enormous numbers of people with these social media accounts where they reveal things about themselves which to me seem to serve no purpose other than to fill a void of some kind, but it's still a mystery to me why people who do this don't think they're going to make mistakes.

People who do shameful things are best served by doing them quietly and hoping no one notices.

Hookers who make themselves more vulnerable than they already are by the nature of what they do by unnecessarily exposing their identities are as dumb as the stereotype portrays them. What the fuck is wrong with you people.
jokacz's Avatar
Here's the typical scenario: one of the LE sites posts about a bust and you google the perps. The majority of the time the females have a FB page and they turn out to be known hookers. Inevitably their co-conspirator is some wacked out, ink laden, piece of shit loser. And you want to eat the pussy that scumbag cums in?
Next Best Thing's Avatar
That's the funniest thing of all. When the ML's chirp about eating pussy or ass or whatever the case may be of some completely overused street urchin. What the fuck with this.

May as well just eliminate the middleman at that point. Gross.
Zollner's Avatar
FB is an amazing tool
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The one 'personal' account I use is fake and generic. Its only used to keep up with one of my hobbies and know when the events are.

I quit personal social media a few years back, its too invasive. Our privacy has already been stripped from us and SM just adds fuel to the privacy invasion.

You dont want to be found, get off social media, particularly facebook even with all its privacy settings....