reading the ads of providers

when they call and say hey..this so a so..are you available?
me:who is this? have we spoke/pm'ed..have i screened you?
them:uhhh no..but i was hoping we could meet right now or in an hour..
me: oh ok..youre really optimistic...how do you suggest i screen you so quickly
them: idk...
me: oh ok...well looks like we wont be meeting right now.
(and then i ask them to send their info for a future date. which they hardly ever do)

hopefully. however...theyll understand through those few lines that it just isnt possible. if it were possible, they would have been able to give "me" a solution
i have to admit....its usually younger guys. (most) mature gents undertand screening is important, they understand what its about. and understand a quality companion will ask for it, actually use it..and it takes a little bit of time.
the only way to prevent it...is to not list a number. Originally Posted by MsPrittiKitti

So true sweety. I got to the point of not posting my number at all. Now, the only way they get my number is after they are properly screened and good to go. Now my phone is quiet but I still have alot of newbies asking "so when can we get together?" LOL. They need to read but I sometimes think all their blood is leaving their brain going to the groin area. LOL.

thank you MsPrettiKitti ==> a great reply

Guess I'm from the "old school" where guys actually read ads and followed the directions. Its really very obvious to me that many do NOT read them because they just post something like

"..hey anybody --- I'm available tonight--PM me.."

Sometimes I think I have accidentally signed into AFF. Originally Posted by dennisrn

As you very well know I am, as you say, old school as well so I can relate.

I just do not get how lazy some are. I guess they are spoiled and want to be spoon fed. I still remember that obnoxious member would post a picture of fingers reading a page in braille. Always depicting that not enough information was being shared when actually if he got up off of his fat lazy ass and did some simple and easy searches he would have found all that he needed to make an informed decision. Came off looking quite juvenile.

thank you for all the responses... I try to keep my ads short and sweet knowing that most people dont read all of it.
I am just hoping that maybe this thread will help those newbies with some of the issues some of us have and learn from it. (along wit some of the changes i have made in my sig line)


licks and kisses to all...

With a lot of guys Im sure it's just like looking at a menu with pictures on it. We're simple creatures... 'that looks tasty.. and I can afford it.. sold.'