Shy and new to the game. Any tips? Please help

...I know many ladies on this board and respect them, you're just not in that group. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Great! The feeling is quite mutual.

So ... a note to the OP. There is a lot of good advice in this thread. Don't be overly concerned - just make sure you make good "selection(s)" when you decide to give it a try.


You will have to have tenacity to get through all the BS that is posted ... and yeah ... well ... it is what it is.

Post #10 was spot on.

Great! The feeling is quite mutual.

So ... a note to the OP. There is a lot of good advice in this thread, especially TheEccie214. Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Yet you continue to quote me...who is the real troll here? You're obviously not here for business, there are Harry Hines street walkers on here with more reviews than you that have been selling their bodies to strangers for far less time.

Now is where you can't shut your mouth and do a lame reply about my time on this board and lack of reviews...

Dude, have you heard of the word TUITON?

You will have to pay for the tuition.

No way you can go around that.

Good luck.

Be prepared to commit mistakes, just laugh about it when it is over.

I would not recommend BackPage AT ALL. Too much skank and too many controlled gals. Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Which is why I recommended cross-checking BP girls here, so he OP might be better able to determine if they're legit.

I've posted this a lot of times, but it always bears repeating: I acknowledge that those of you who don't care for BP have your reasons for doing so. And I admit to having no knowledge of Dallas BP. But in Fort Worth, reputable providers have long posted on BP; the bodyrub ads used to be a gold mine. Many who were in bodyubs are now in therapeutic massage. Some are even on P411. Off the top of my head, I can think of these who are or have advertised recently in therapeutic massage (some do L1 only, others more):

Lindsey Lacie
Latina Melissa
Kennedy Bunz
Jewls Madison
Annie Awesome
Emmy
Eve
Dixie
Aubrey
Bombshell Betty
Isabel
Tarla
Jenny
Ruby
Kimberly J.

And there are more. The worst I've heard of any of them is a report of a bad session -- if stereotypical male management is present, they've managed to keep it off the radar.

OP, L1 sessions were for me, also a shy guy, a great way to break into the hobby. Do your research, stick with known commodities for your first few experiences, and you'll do fine.

I partly agree with this, however my advice is to get your head in the right place (the big head) before you dive in.
You can learn much experience by seeing professionals which will help you out in the Real World to satisfy your perspective partner. That is not a bad thing.



Thanks TE214 - it's always interesting to hear your opinion of us ladies.



BUT be cautious of the "well reviewed girls" as there are many pimps that control this and also when gals start giving free service for a review (I know this DOES happen) ... it is obvious and not necessarily a positive thing for her reputation.
Some girls that have many reviews mean they are desperate and/or controlled by a pimp.



Agreed.


Is she sexually satisfied? I would think not - but perhaps the donald and his sexy companion have another arrangement we do not know about. I wouldn't be surprised.
My point ... I guess .. is that WE women on this board are VERY sexually satisfied - AND get the Benjamins at the same time. All good!


So, it might be a good idea to find the list of acronyms (I beleive ECCIE might have a list in the welcome forum or somewhere like that)
I printed out a list in my first days in the hobby. There are a bunch and it takes a bit of time to learn them.



I would not recommend BackPage AT ALL. Too much skank and too many controlled gals.


But be aware if they do not screen thoroughly you might be looking at a drug ridden, pimp hoeing, risky transaction.

For a final note - don't join the IGMO squad.
Be a gentleman and treat the ladies with decency.
The way you present yourself on this board will dictate the quality women that will choose to see you.

Good Luck!
Torre Originally Posted by Torre Tames

All inaccurate! OP should be worried about a angry old hooker giving newbies bad advise with no reviews herself (MAJOR RED FLAG) read their post history and judge for yourself is my advise

A lot of reviews doesn't mean that you're visiting a "drug ridden, pimp hoeing, risky transaction" provider , It means that they know how to treat their customers with great service

One last thing: You need to be confident when dealing with any woman, learn some game before you jump in the hobby, no woman likes a softy aka a pussy or you'll be eaten alive

Post #10 was spot on. Originally Posted by pyramider

I like your style pyramider. That is a creative way to comment on a post without going thru the cut and paste BS. And I am sincere when I say that ... as some folks take every post as an insult, feel that they need to quote it ...or even quote the entire post ... when actually.... it is just one person expressing an opinion.

That being said - post #21 - weeelllll, I just have to have a giggle.... give me a minute ...

he he heh he heh he

I'm an old granny (whatever) .... with a great body... a great ass (that I have worked very hard for BTW) ... and can blow your MIND (because of my age ... yes .. I'm 52) as well as your stick with two jewels. Not to mention many years in this business and I'm not a crack head or drunk. Amazing ... eh?

I always think that I should not spend my time recognizing the maggots on this board ... but it's actually kinda fun to give them a spin.

They can jump up and down all they want ... good lord ... talk about drama queens?

So yeah... to THE OP - seriously take a look at who you choose to fuck and how you want the experience to be.

Maybe it's just a fuck .... or maybe it is some experience that you want to learn from.

Just make your decision wisely.

And again - as I have said before ---- many reviews does NOT mean you are a quality provider.
MOST of my clients are very MUCH ...UTR ... they post nothing and only send PM's....and I'm OK with that.

Hugs,
Torre

I like your style pyramider. That is a creative way to comment on a post without going thru the cut and paste BS. And I am sincere when I say that ... as some folks take every post as an insult, feel that they need to quote it ...or even quote the entire post ... when actually.... it is just one person expressing an opinion.

That being said - post #21 - weeelllll, I just have to have a giggle.... give me a minute ...

he he heh he heh he

I'm an old granny (whatever) .... with a great body... a great ass (that I have worked very hard for BTW) ... and can blow your MIND (because of my age ... yes .. I'm 52) as well as your stick with two jewels. Not to mention many years in this business and I'm not a crack head or drunk. Amazing ... eh?

I always think that I should not spend my time recognizing the maggots on this board ... but it's actually kinda fun to give them a spin.

They can jump up and down all they want ... good lord ... talk about drama queens?

So yeah... to THE OP - seriously take a look at who you choose to fuck and how you want the experience to be.

Maybe it's just a fuck .... or maybe it is some experience that you want to learn from.

Just make your decision wisely.

And again - as I have said before ---- many reviews does NOT mean you are a quality provider.
MOST of my clients are very MUCH ...UTR ... they post nothing and only send PM's....and I'm OK with that.

Hugs,
Torre Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Take a chill pill, you're looking like the old bitter angry hooker in here always blowing up on people.

OP, check out the reviews section daily, lots of hot women in there with BCD pics and videos

get back on original topic. Torre and ECCIE214, take it some place else.

get back on original topic. Torre and ECCIE214, take it some place else. Originally Posted by NYr

i'm glad someone w/ "authority" spoke up!!
posts like those could cause a guy interested in our crazy sub-culture to say to himself "holey shit - what am i getting myself into?!?!?!?!"

get back on original topic. Torre and ECCIE214, take it some place else. Originally Posted by NYr

Interesting you picked my name...

Recommendations of where else to take it are welcomed.

Agreed.

Fist bump!

jb, nothing wrong with being shy, just dont let it cause you to miss out.

it's like the high diving board, you got to run out and jump in. if you sliwly creep out there, you start thinking about all that can go wrong and chicken out once you look down.

we are supposed to have fun here.
the idea is us men pay these lovely ladies for sex. it's been going on this way for a long long time.

one of the hardest things at first is actually asking for what you want.
if you want to try anal or ear or toe sex, it's ok to ask, but in a respectful way. and be able to take no for an answer, no begging.

I see nothing wrong with a guys first encounter being with a working lady.
many of us around here made the required trip to ciudad acuna in mexico as teenagers to get broken in.

I like your style pyramider. That is a creative way to comment on a post without going thru the cut and paste BS. And I am sincere when I say that ... as some folks take every post as an insult, feel that they need to quote it ...or even quote the entire post ... when actually.... it is just one person expressing an opinion.

That being said - post #21 - weeelllll, I just have to have a giggle.... give me a minute ...

he he heh he heh he

I'm an old granny (whatever) .... with a great body... a great ass (that I have worked very hard for BTW) ... and can blow your MIND (because of my age ... yes .. I'm 52) as well as your stick with two jewels. Not to mention many years in this business and I'm not a crack head or drunk. Amazing ... eh?

I always think that I should not spend my time recognizing the maggots on this board ... but it's actually kinda fun to give them a spin.

They can jump up and down all they want ... good lord ... talk about drama queens?

So yeah... to THE OP - seriously take a look at who you choose to fuck and how you want the experience to be.

Maybe it's just a fuck .... or maybe it is some experience that you want to learn from.

Just make your decision wisely.

And again - as I have said before ---- many reviews does NOT mean you are a quality provider.
MOST of my clients are very MUCH ...UTR ... they post nothing and only send PM's....and I'm OK with that.

Hugs,
Torre Originally Posted by Torre Tames

My message to newbies is consistent. If they are smart they will leave before they get bit by the hobby. If they are not too smart, they should make the Search tab their friend and not rely on advise from a bunch of fucktards.

Now I will not insult your aged butt. I am sure its quite the ass ... round, firm, and a wonder to behold. Most of my other handles are UTR, a few are active posters.

Just Relax and let me do all the work