NC/NS nickymoon

If you've been in the hobby for 10 years and don't know why this would raise any red flags, then I'm sorry, you're not as intelligent as you make yourself out to be. If a provider CANCELS and refuses to see you, that is not a NC/NS as you believe. It's ultimately the provider's choice whether they want to see you or not. When they do not, no means no. It doesn't mean continue to contact them, you fucked up, get over it.

You stated very clearly that we post on websites, as well as showcases, what our rates are. It is a pain in the ass for the man to not make certain what he will be paying by back tracking his own self.

Hi Audrey,


I am sure that you are doing just fine this morning. Me, not so much. I am out $150.00 for a motel room that I did not spend the night in. My only reason to rent a room was to meet you. Otherwise, I would simply drive back to Baton Rouge, which is what I did anyway when you pulled your no show routine Friday afternoon. There is absolutely no acceptable excuse for your behavior. My asking to be reminded what your rate is in order to make sure that I have the right amount bundled up for you to pick up from the dresser top, as soon as you walk in, has no effect on your safety. I think it had a lot more to do with being a little overworked and well enough paid after six days in Chicago to jump at any little excuse to cancel. And of course, there is the little thrill that comes from having and exercising that kind of power over men, eh?


You advertise your rates on at least two websites for all the world to see, so how does my asking you what your rate is over the phone endanger you anymore than that. Answer is, it doesn't. I simply asked you to remind me exactly what your rate was, not how much you charge to have sex. I could have been asking your rate for escort services, darning my socks, helping me interpret business papers from Spanish to English, or any of a million other services. First, it was a flat tire, and could you come late, when you knew I was had a reservation at Charlies's for right after our session, and when I agreed to the delay you had to find a new reason to bail out.


Well Karma does not always result in everyone getting what they truly deserve, but just now and then it does. So if that day comes when someone does you a nasty piece of dirt, be content, you earned it.

the above is the entire e-mail.

Well I decided to post the whole thing here myself in case Audrey did not want to try to verify her claim of a nasty and threatening e-mail. Looks like a rather plain recitation of the facts, with a little comment on whether Karma really ever comes into play.

Just for informational purposes for all of you here who have shown an interest in this posting, I am an old former Marine (Viet Nam era and veteran, now 65 yrs. old) . I traveled throughout the orient and have seen ladies from Hong Kong to Singapore the Phillipines, Japan, Okinawa and Taiwan. I have been a small business owner most of my working career and am now retired. Once, after selling one of my businesses I made a road trip that covered the entire western half of the United States and visited with ladies in every major city along the way. I saw dozens o ladies with the Aphrodite agency and Apres-vous as well. I always tipped well when the performance merits the extra consideration and I never used to concern myself with any reviews when the service was bad or I was out and out ripped off. I figured everyone could learn the hard way just like I had to. Now that I am older and retired, the drive to engage in this activity is not so strong as when I was a younger man. Also, I now have the time and money to travel here and abroad and do not have to worry so much about the always dicey group of providers in New Orleans. So my only real thought here was to provide you younger guys with a bit of a cautionary tale, that may help you avoid some of the pitfalls in this activity. For the guy who said I don't know the rules, you're right, but neither do any of you, because the rules are whatever the providers say they are, from one second to the next.

Just as a rough guess, I would say that fully 80% of the ladies that you meet, for one reason or another, will not be worth what you pay for the privilege, and some will outright rip you off. One lady in Denver about 20 years ago came into my room, collected her money up front, of course, plugged in a small radio and began a little wriggley dance. I asked her what she was doing and let her know I did not need to see her do a little dance. She informed me that an exotic dance was all that she provided, unplugged her radio, and walked out with my money. All in less than five minutes. Just saying, maybe you fellas ought to give heed to any warnings you are fortunate enough to receive.

Really dude? You planned to see her. You knew damn well what her rate was before you ever made contact. You are on a hooker board!! Go play dumb elsewhere. Good call Audrey. Happy Fucking!

THEY FORGET AND YALL GIRLS KNOW DAM WELL HOW YA CHANGE SHIT UP....SPECIALS EXC. BUGS ME ALSO BUT WE KNOW IT HAPPENS. ( YA KNOW THAT GUY THATS ALWAYS 10 OVER SO NO TIP OF WHAT HE ORIGINALLY THOUGHT FROM SPECIAL 2 MONTHS AGO) I PERSONALLY WANT THEM TO ADK ME... PERIOD. NO CONFUSION....SEE? XXOO ANNIE

Just gonna add my own 2 cents here....and I may be wrong, so if I am, please correct me...in this state, and several others, the law says it's about intent. And you only have to Talk about 2 things to get jammed up. Money and a sexual act. Personal experience from a lesson I only needed once to learn.
I would have done the same thing. She kept her safety her top priority.
Majic

Seasoned Muse got it right. It's just that it was a "pain in the ass" not really about safety at all. In trying to make sure I did not violate etiquette by having the wrong amount on the counter, I violated a different rule of etiquette. One thing I did not do was mention what the rate was for. I simply said " Remind me, what was your rate again?"

For those of you who are suffering any illusions about Law Enforcement, let me just tell you that if they decide to bust you, you will be busted. All they have to do is put a cop in a room and when you show and take money, it will be over. When they get you in front of a Judge, they will say whatever they are required to say under the law to get you convicted, that is if you do not plead it out prior to court. There was nothing in my question to imply what the rate pertained to. No matter how you try to justify the cancellation as a matter of safety, it simply is not true or logical.

So blame the messenger all you want. This is a provider punishing a customer for a small breach of etiquette, and this kind of crap and worse goes on all the time. I do know how this works and I am not playing dumb. I am just damned tired of it working this way and the rip offs that ensue, just to make a small, really meaningless point about so called etiquette. All I am trying to say is, that if you guys want some of this nonsense to stop, start posting these incidents when they occur, and spend your money with the ladies who treat paying customers like paying customers. Just think about it, would you put up with this kind of attitude from any other business that wanted your patronage. I think not.

Just for instance, if you arrived at the tire shop and asked the salesman," What ply did you say these new tire are and how much is the price again?" then he says" I can't believe you are asking me that, I told you that three days ago." "Just forget about it man, I ain't selling you no tires." Think you would be back to that guy for your next set of tires?

The facts that 1. You cannot take no for an answer and 2. You are continuing to invest this much energy in this are very telling.

For those of you who are suffering any illusions about Law Enforcement, let me just tell you that if they decide to bust you, you will be busted. All they have to do is put a cop in a room and when you show and take money, it will be over. When they get you in front of a Judge, they will say whatever they are required to say under the law to get you convicted, that is if you do not plead it out prior to court. There was nothing in my question to imply what the rate pertained to. No matter how you try to justify the cancellation as a matter of safety, it simply is not true or logical. Originally Posted by nickymoon

Bingo, if the cops wanna bust you, they will, regardless of anything you say or do not say.

Not talking about rates or activities is as comical as thinking a cop has to tell you they are a cop.

Seems clear she was looking for a way out of the date. Thanks for the info.

She probably was. Ultimately it's OUR choice to follow through with the appointment. In any way shape or form I feel just a tinge of being uncomfortable. I wouldn't see a person. My safety and peace of mind matter to me sir.
Moving on to the next lady would have been better than posting a review. What the fuck happen to DISCRETION?? Y'ALL DO REMEMBER WHAT THAT IS? RIGHT?

Well, I can take no for an answer, but I can take it a lot better if comes before 30 minutes prior to the appointment and before I spend $150.00 on a motel room that I would not have needed if "no" happened before I paid for the room. Not that $150.00 is going to make me or break me, just that she didn't care one wit about it and not one of you ladies posting here seems to have made note of it either. That's because it isn't your $150.00. But if one these guys shorts you that amount on your fee, I think we would hear about it loud and long. And if it were the first time that that some crap like this had ever happened, I would probably take my lumps and move on. Like I said I never use to post any reviews except for a few really good reviews for really exceptional ladies. But also like I said, over the course of so many years and so many sub par performances and more rip offs than I would like to remember, I decided to finally say something. Now all of you providers, that is to say all you ladies out there who keep trying to make excuses for this, just prove the point, and any of you guys out there who have been at this a while or stay at it in the future, know or will learn that what I am saying here is right on the mark.

Yes. That door swings both ways sir. I am sorry that your time and money was wasted. We are shorted,way more than what is reported. Because bitching about it never got us our time or money back. Sometimes shit happens. If this is the worst in the 10 years you have been in the hobby. I'd say you faired well.

No, Skny Diva, not the worst, by far, just the latest. (You no doubt missed the post above about the lady in Denver) And the reason I am saying something now is because it is just finally one damn time too many. Just so you won't think I am all negative, let me tell any of you guys who are persistent enough to still be following all this, Julinka is great. I have probably seen her a dozen times over the past 7,8-10 or so years. The only minor thing wrong with Julinka, (I know her from all the way back to when she called herself Claudette) is she will not give references to other providers. She is the cream of the crop out of any ladies posting in the New Orleans area.

And, for all of you guys and providers who keep telling me to get over it and go away, I say why? Isn't this site for posting reviews about experiences you have with providers. I understand that all you guys are scared shitless that you will get blackballed like they are now promising to do for me, but guess what, they need you as badly as you need them. If you continue to put up with bad performances and being treated like crap, then you will continue to get bad performances and get treated like crap. And yes, if you dare to come on here and say that you got a bad performance or ripped off, you will get threatened with being blackballed just like me. So maybe all you guys who are so bothered by the truth of one bad review for one provider, should scurry off back into the shadows, before you get cut off. Just remember though, the first time, or the next time, you get ripped off or a real poor performance, just keep it to yourself and don't come whining on this site about it.

If you all continue to fail, to require value, for value given, then shutting up and going away, is just what the doctor ordered.

See right there. Telling me to scurry off into the shadow before I get cut off. What exactly does that mean dude? I am not a wild animal. Phucks you hun. You Scurry off and lick your BUTT HURT IN THE MEN'S LOUNGE.

Hey Skny Diva, put the pipe down and go back and read my last post real slowly. I said that to all the guys who are scared to death to say something negative on here about a provider. I wasn't saying that to you or the other ladies talking here. But it's fine, your comment and language display your class for all to see.