So what's going on?

I used to see a lady with regularity. We got along; she listened. We'd grab a bite to eat occasionally. She would text me or IM, so that we became "friends". One time she was visiting me and she got incredibly drunk. So drunk that I feared for her safety and that of others when she drove home. So I told her she could stay with me that night. Her response blew me away. She said her rate for staying all night was X. Here I was trying to save her from a DUI--or worse--and she wanted me to pay her. It's not like there was going to be any action happening. I am not into drunks. Not into hungover women the next morning either. Nothing else was going to happen.

Granted, she's young and her judgement could have been impaired from the drinking. But it told me in explicit detail what she she really thought of me. Originally Posted by barneyrubble
Ancient Roman proverb: In vino veritas ("In wine there is truth").

Although, in this case, it may have been: In vodka veritas.

I have "friends" too, BR. Thanks for sharing this sobering (pun entirely intended) experience. I'll keep it in mind whenever I'm tempted to delude myself.
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BR, OUCHEEE! sorry pal but i learned the hard way too, it's just a biz!
JJ, did you just call me a wise-ass...MOI??

SHOCKING!! (hee hee!)


Catch you guys later...gotta go for now! Have a good day!
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how about someone wise with a nice ass?
So I've been in this thing of ours for awhile, some 2-3 yrs, maybe more, and I can count on one hand the number of providers I have seen BCD.

I've written reviews, read reviews, met providers at PA (provider anonymous) meetings, and as such have found some very interesting ladies that could be very nice experiences, but I just haven't tried to make that connection.

What's going on?

Is it a fear of being disappointed? A couple of experiences were less than stellar, chalked it up to normal 'just didn't click thing'.

The others were good experiences but not mind numbing.

That then gets me to thinking that I'm missing out on something, maybe I'm not getting the same treatment or that I am not doing my part for the provider.

Any insight on this? Originally Posted by Doglegg
Maybe you're just thinking too much into things