Again, these are best posted in the Ladies Forums.
Unless he held you at Gunpoint, shorting the fee is not an alert.
And shit stains is not an alert unless pinworms or other parasites were crawling out of the stains.
Please read what constitutes and alert. It states the following at the top of this forum.
Alerts - Dallas Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material.