Best part of the hobby

This is cute to me.

I enjoy the entire experience ... From our initial contact to the moment we say our goodbyes...and then there is more to look forward to if the guy writes a decent review...the comments are fun to read....hell I even like responding to future reference requests... Especially if the guy was a great time....it's fun telling his future playmate they'll have a great time together based on my experiences...

I also love the getting ready part...I usually turn my favorite music or songs on.... shower....si g....put myself in a good mood... Pick out something sexy...the anticipation overall makes the experience so fun imo

The hobby as a whole is very exciting... That's why I stay!

Oh and blowjobs....I have to agree...and kissing!
(Bald pussy is nice too-i got a fresh shave today) Originally Posted by Analeese

Im thinking the best time is when possibilities run through my mind right after she posts she likes to try new things like neing dragged around and teased and that makes her so hot. Or it could be living out the new things in person like when she screams or begs or demands for something more, or faste, or harder, or slower, or deeper, or whatever... or it could be when she says she wants to be bound helpless and fucked into subspace. Could be...

[QUOTE=Teagenluv;1059530476 I love being a women and a provider)))))))))[/QUOTE]
sploosh.

My heart used to POOOUND in my chest as I approached a provider's incall, even ladies that I'd seen before. The thrill of it all, the anticipation, the wanting everything to go right, the agony of walking through lobbies, all made it worth it once I was there. Even knocking on her door and not wanting to disappoint her was tough. She would hug me and feel my heart busting through my chest, and be like, 'dude, why is your heart beating so hard/fast?' And I'd go through my myriad of excuses. A little nervous, yes (or a lot nervous). Or that lobby walkthrough was pretty tough if I was underdressed for it (not a good idea to go through a high end lobby looking like a low-budget rapper) or if it was very empty (I don't like being the only body walking through). Sometimes there's a flight of stairs, particularly if I missed the elevator (don't like looking lost in a lobby, so I'll take the stairs if I don't initially see the elevator).

As strange as it may sound, being a little nervous feels/felt better than not being nervous at all (I'd kinda GET nervous just because of this).

Then to get to her room, and see her, and she's all beautiful and cheery and inviting and looking like her pictures...

TOTALLY FUCKING WORTH IT!!!

Sometimes there's a flight of stairs, particularly if I missed the elevator (don't like looking lost in a lobby, so I'll take the stairs if I don't initially see the elevator). Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Ha! I have totally done that before. I'm amazed how hard at times it is to find the elevator, especially when you are not trying to draw attention to yourself in an empty lobby area.

Really appreciate the providers that give lobby navigation instructions in the text with the room number. Helps make you feel more confident walking in.

Number one rule of any type of intrigue of this sort. Walk through that bitch like you own the mother-fcuking hotel. You have every right to be in the lobby in whichever attire you choose. There's absolutely zero wrong with visiting a lady friend in a hotel. the fact that you leave her some cash for her rent isn't even an issue.

...Really appreciate the providers that give lobby navigation instructions in the text with the room number. Helps make you feel more confident walking in. Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07

Good point OneStar.
The Anatole and the Crown Plaza Addison are a complete maze... and you get lost easily!

Having a BS story to tell the staff does make a difference in case you are approached.
"I'm here to meet a college buddy from Chicago and we are headed out to Buffalo Wild Wings ... I'm just here to pick him up".
OR some shit like that.

Just leave your sunglasses on. Look around a lot. If you spot someone looking at you, press your hand to your ear. Then, talk into your sleeve.

I try to keep my anticipation for the first meeting toned down a notch just in case, so I see this one in my mind...

The best part for me is the variety of women. There's variety in height, weight, race, kinkiness, etc.

Another good part is the provider opening the door and she looks better than her pics. Doesn't happen often, but it happens

The best part for me is the variety of women. There's variety in height, weight, race, kinkiness, etc.

Another good part is the provider opening the door and she looks better than her pics. Doesn't happen often, but it happens Originally Posted by StopShort

I hear you on the looks, It does happen once in a while

Number one rule of any type of intrigue of this sort. Walk through that bitch like you own the mother-fcuking hotel. You have every right to be in the lobby in whichever attire you choose. There's absolutely zero wrong with visiting a lady friend in a hotel. the fact that you leave her some cash for her rent isn't even an issue. Originally Posted by texassapper

This was more or less back in my earlier days of hobbying. I've transcended some of the psychological issues with this for the most part. Still helps to look the part a bit (well dressed vs sweatpants and a afro pick in your head). Otherwise, it's likely to draw more attention.

I mean, I've been in elevators with guys in suits (who knows, they could've been going to other 'appointments'...Hell, could've been one of you jokers ). My point is, it just feels better to look the part than not, especially in higher end joints that have more than 3 floors .

I love the variety of MEN! I choose carefully, and my men are kind,sexy,amazing, friendly and horny. No matter what their physical appearance looks like. Thats not important at all. I get to see men from 18-90. Each has something different to offer and their own special stories, if they like to talk. I encourage it, as I love to listen
to their interesting life experiences. And some just need someone to talk to. I consider that part of my service too. I'm a good listener and I don't judge, and as far as I'm concerned, client/provider communications are priveledged. It's like it never happened; or I just can't recall.

Getting to experience women while doing doubles. Most females don't have that opportunity.
I LOVE making men happy and as a bonus I get my physical needs taken care of too! Without the mess of a boyfriend.

And on top of all that, I CHOOSE. I CHOOSE WHO I see and how often I play. I'm a homebody and țintrovert and I get to stay home,sleep late if no morning session, and have my men come to me, play, then leave! What a dream "job". As a girly girl, I love shopping for pretty outfits and lingerie and getting all fixed up for my guys. I feel beautiful and sexy, sensual and desired. It keeps me feeling young! And how many women in their mid forties feel sexy, and at the peak of their sexual life? And have men from 18-90 want to date them?

There's SO much to love about the hobby! I appreciate my regulars and
even make friends with them. I also love the excitement of meeting new men.

And I can also support myself very well, without having to see an overabundance of men and wearing myself out.

I love the kindness of receiving gifts and tips, they are always unexpected and received with joy, wonder and happiness.

I've learned more about my own body and men's bodies than I ever did in school. I learn more every day and I get better at the art and science of pleasure. There's no boredom or repetition. Each man is different and I am so open to new things and suggestions. And if it's something I don't want to do, no big deal. I'm in charge of my menu.

To sum it up, it suits me like nothing else ever has. It's my body, I feel happy and proud to provide, no shame at all. It's a very necessary service, for the men and women. I've had a very few family and friends turn their back on me for what I do. But that's entirely their puritanical issues, not mine. I don't like judgemental people, so I don't want them in my life.

If it quits being fun and rewarding, I'll move on. But I think that will be a LONG time from now. I got a later start than many other great providers.

Im thinking the best time is when possibilities run through my mind right after she posts she likes to try new things like neing dragged around and teased and that makes her so hot. Or it could be living out the new things in person like when she screams or begs or demands for something more, or faste, or harder, or slower, or deeper, or whatever... or it could be when she says she wants to be bound helpless and fucked into subspace. Could be... Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

Ahhh, The memories.. Glad to see you are still around.

And bald pussy Originally Posted by BLM69

And Boobies.

Ahhh, The memories.. Glad to see you are still around. Originally Posted by melannie_star

I am indeed. Two new scars and lost my gentlemanly nature. The best part og the hobby is hobbying with a lady who doesnt act one bit like a lady.