providers and Common Courtesy

When I read the OP's post I am getting the impression the grammar misspellings may be due to a language barrier? Maybe English is not his first or only language. I just suggest cutting him some slack. He is just pointing out his observations and giving his input. No need to bash him over this. Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

You're probably spot on about this! Having immigrant parents (they had to swim the pacific ) I used to watch people dismiss them because of the language barrier - it's a harsh reality that I think will be very hard to change, but we're getting there.

It didn't phase my parents though- they worked hard, became unbelievably successful and helped me to become the person that I am today.

A man whore that loves the women of ECCIE and has the means to connect with each and every one of them!! Thanks Mom and Dad!!!

...Keep doing what your doing HOBBYFUN...

Actually, it would be YOU'RE right there, not YOUR, Carly.




But seriously, I get the gist of what you're saying, but at the same time, posts with a lot of grammatical and/or punctual errors ARE annoying to read. Mistakes once or twice in a post, no biggie (much like the OP here). But when it's a boatload of them and what appears to be no effort to fix them....come on, now. I reread and fix a lot of my posts. It just reads better after doing so. If you have a point to make, it gets across better with as minimal errors as possible.

Just saying.

And hey, Carly darling. How are you doing? You look great.

...Keep doing what your doing HOBBYFUN...

Actually, it would be YOU'RE right there, not YOUR, Carly.




But seriously, I get the gist of what you're saying, but at the same time, posts with a lot of grammatical and/or punctual errors ARE annoying to read. Mistakes once or twice in a post, no biggie (much like the OP here). But when it's a boatload of them and what appears to be no effort to fix them....come on, now. I reread and fix a lot of my posts. It just reads better after doing so. If you have a point to make, it gets across better with as minimal errors as possible.
Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

ha ha, not often do I find myself agreeing with Rambo Creed, but in this case I do.

I was talking to a very nice provider and we were talking in general terms about some of the experiences she had had over the years and I know this has been said before so I am assuming some guys did not get the thread are they are just hardheaded so here goes.

Read the providers post most information is on they showcase.

Don't call 10 are 12 times to set a appointment.

Arrive on time are call and let them know you will be late

The first 5 min or so is for her to get comfortable with you and to find out what you would like with a session

When she tells you to get comfortable take your clothes off all of them

Most of the time the provider will set the pace of the session

Before you get their are when you get they fresh up

Wash your face and breath, dick, feet, armpits and your stinking old ASS

Be a little gentle unless your doing a SM are what ever session

Be polite to them

Ask if they would want you to do something special to them

After the bell I know most ladies will clean you up but you can help a little plus that might lead to another round

When your done you can talk and get dressed at the same time if your time with her is up are almost up

A nice hug and kiss when you leave

Thank her for her time and effort she put into a session

If you had a bad time are was wanting something done she did not do you need to tell her in a nice way otherwise how is she supposed to know


This in no way reflects what all providers wants are needs this is just common courtesy to the provider, they are human have feelings and don't need to be treated like a piece of meat are that you are paying them therefore you can do what and when you please.

Even if the session was bad and the provider was a jerk you can still try and explain what you side of the session was like and if it starts to get ugly leave but at least you tried to be nice and civil.

A lot of this applies to the provider also we are not walking ATM machines we do expect value for our money, our time is valuable also and we don't want to read you do so and so then we get there and you say you don't do that, but I think a lot of that is because the guy is dirty are smelly. Originally Posted by Hobbyfun

Despite the grammar errors, Hobbyfun makes SOME good points, but I promise you that if you do all that and then some, it does not guarantee a great or even a good time. "Getting a nut" is not everything, as it is the ultimate goal in a session, and sometimes you can get MSOG, but MANY of the providers on this board, as well as other "adult boards" are mechanical in a session and/or do not do everything that they say they do or their posted info in their showcase. Also, you, the hobbyist, is the one paying for the session, so, without going beyond the provider's "comfortable zone", the hobbyist should be the one who sets the pace for the session and what kind of session it will be, not the provider. If you have clean hygiene, respect the provider (time and as a person), have the proper donation, then the provider SHOULD make your session the best FOR YOU. There should be no such thing as YMMV, especially when a provider advertises what she does and then does not follow through after they get your money. If she feels she cannot "perform" at the level the donation dictates, they should do a discount session or no session at all. I would respect a provider more if she did that, then one who treats you like a wallet.

Go ahead and bash me on my grammar, Some of us did not go to college or go to high school, but I will match anybody here on work ethics, working in general or on what a person's knowledge is as far as what many different things I am capably of doing.

It seems to me that it all of you are so high and mighty and so smart then you would be capable of figuring out what I was trying to say, but my take on some of your comments is maybe your not near as smart as you think you are.

Thank you Alecia and Carly, in my opinion these two are a lot smarter than most of you because they could figure out what I was writing and the rest of you could not.

I will admit my spelling and grammar sucks but I meet and communicate "talking" to more CEO's of company's than most of you could fathom. They call ME and ask for my advice on fixing there problems and fly me all over the Untied States.

I do have to ask this question do most of you that is correcting my spelling fell Superior know, because you can write a sentence better than somebody on this board but is not smart enough to figure out what I was saying?

Sometimes I fell bad because my grammar might not be perfect but you guys are lost because you life consist of bashing somebody for not spelling are having the perfect grammar, I fell sorry for you that have nothing better to do than be the grammar police.

As for being a immigrant sorry to disappoint you people my Indian ancestors was here long before your ancestors got here and started killing and stealing our land.

And I do use spell check maybe I select the wrong one sometimes.

@ HOBBYFUN, Right On!!! Thats what I'm talking about!!! Put them in their place. I've met some of the smartest men.......and I didn't even have to read their handwriting to know how smart they are....HAHAHA!!! "Grammer Police"......too funny. I love the way you put that.

Hobbyfun,

I agree that the pile on was overkill. However, this is a board that relies on the written word for communication. Your last post, while not perfect, was significantly clearer and easier to read, which would suggest that you have the ability to write properly and just chose not to in your original post. If you are going to post here, it's simple courtesy that you do your best to do so in a manner that others can understand.

It's like giving a speech at a dinner party. You don't have to be the world's best speaker, but at least don't do it with your mouth full.

After reading all the post again I think I have found the problem.
A lot of people feel superior to others and think that maybe somebody their with is to dumb to learn, but in fact maybe their good at spelling and grammar but incapable of talking communication therefore unable to get across what they want.

Personally if I am performing a task and somebody has a better way of doing it I will listen and learn, I know a lot of people that think they are superior and will not listen to other people and get mad over suggestion and if that is the case of a provider there is nothing you can do are say to change that, but you tried.

If your a business person that relies on costumers aren't you going to listen to them and then decide if you want to change, or do you continue with the way your doing it now and lose business?

Would you want you SO to tell you in a nice way that you need to learn and cut the grass better, our not say anything and she goes years thinking your a Dumb-ass.

Same goes with a provider if I am doing something she does not like I would want her to tell me so next time we meet it will be pleasant for her also, I'm not going to get mad are upset, if I don't care for what she has to say then I will find a different provider.

Now let's here it from the grammar and spelling police.

Lol.

Bad Grammar....Thats the Way The Hobby Go

Kinda disagree with this. A good provider should know if you had a good time or not. Popping does not necessarily mean the guy had a good overall time. Trying to give a provider an immediate recap of what she did wrong...I don't see any way that that doesn't turn ugly or extremely awkward very fast. Either you tell her your likes and dislikes before or during the session, or it's your own fault. If she declines to offer something that she listed on her menu, and you have good hygene, then that's her fault. Remember though the "YMMV" get-out-of-jail-free card.

I agree with all the rest of your points though.




Agreed, it was somewhat of a challenge to read. Originally Posted by true_whatever

I do not appreciate or respect a provider who does not take pride in her craft. Customer service, going the extra mile, communication and professionalism covers the before and after and insure the overall success of the encounter.

Now go! and make us proud

If you are searching for a respected provider of any service, and looking at ads, do you not suspect a higher level of service when they use correct spelling and grammar?

Spell check is not rocket science. Any hobbyist or provider can use tools available. It shows effort and concern.

nice post