When contacting a provider how do you respond if asked for your name?

Each companion has different screening requirements. It's your responsibility to comply with her policy or graciously fall back if you refuse to do so. A handle and a name are not at all the same thing and there isn't anything abnormal with a lady enforcing her policy. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

Well said.

Now, if the screening requirements are not posted clearly, I totally understand being upset about being asked for personal information.

It is our responsibility as providers to be clear about what we require up front.

But guys....seriously...ya gotta READ! LOL!!

I very recently contacted a provider by PM to setup an appointment. I did not hear back by the end of the day, so I texted the number given to set it up. The text response was "What is your name?" I gave my Eccie handle and that was it, but the response again was "What is your name?" This doesn't seem normal to me, as I haven't had that happen before. Any thoughts? Originally Posted by Hawkeyerev97

Seriously????

It is not strange. We need to know what to call you!

All we're asking for is first name. If you're not comfortable using your real first name, pick a hobby name.that everyone will know you by.

Refusing to give a first name at all just seems weird to me and would put me on edge as well.

I don't see a big deal about telling a provider your FIRST name or if a guy is really worried go by a stage name...but stick to whatever name you provide from then on..

Now, it's totally different if a provider says..."I must have your First and Last name, DOB, SS #, employer, work email etc...then you can tell them to forget it or give the info if you're trying to get screened. Totally up to the guy to give or not to give whatever info the provider is requesting...

When screening i do ask for a name. And other requirements. If they dont want to participate they just never respond back. Now majority of them ive never had an issue. But yes my screening process is about my safety. But its not a big deal if you dont want to comply.

I always ask for a name so that way when I meet a gent I can say "Hey Alex, how are you?" And not "Hey LadiesMan21734"...

I already know what your handle is so why would I ask for that when it's right in front of me??

Just pick a name you wanna call yourself.

Like Jake.... from State Farm lol Originally Posted by Karlie Raines

I've used that a few times when getting a text from someone out of state and they have the wrong number.

Each companion has different screening requirements. It's your responsibility to comply with her policy or graciously fall back if you refuse to do so. A handle and a name are not at all the same thing and there isn't anything abnormal with a lady enforcing her policy. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

Well said.

Now, if the screening requirements are not posted clearly, I totally understand being upset about being asked for personal information.

It is our responsibility as providers to be clear about what we require up front.

But guys....seriously...ya gotta READ! LOL!! Originally Posted by Krystal_RoseBBW

Seriously????

It is not strange. We need to know what to call you!

All we're asking for is first name. If you're not comfortable using your real first name, pick a hobby name.that everyone will know you by.

Refusing to give a first name at all just seems weird to me and would put me on edge as well. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

I don't see a big deal about telling a provider your FIRST name or if a guy is really worried go by a stage name...but stick to whatever name you provide from then on..

Now, it's totally different if a provider says..."I must have your First and Last name, DOB, SS #, employer, work email etc...then you can tell them to forget it or give the info if you're trying to get screened. Totally up to the guy to give or not to give whatever info the provider is requesting... Originally Posted by SNL9933

I always ask for a name so that way when I meet a gent I can say "Hey Alex, how are you?" And not "Hey LadiesMan21734"...

I already know what your handle is so why would I ask for that when it's right in front of me??

Just pick a name you wanna call yourself. Like Jake.... from State Farm lol Originally Posted by Karlie Raines

What is wrong with pyramider? If you prefer another name for me, may I suggest tainttard? Or how about Dr Taint?

When screening i do ask for a name. And other requirements. If they dont want to participate they just never respond back. Now majority of them ive never had an issue. But yes my screening process is about my safety. But its not a big deal if you dont want to comply. Originally Posted by Kammye

I just send a seasonal dic pic of my 1.3" of dangling death. Lovely avartard, too.

Ha! Of course u would! And ty dear!



I just send a seasonal dic pic of my 1.3" of dangling death. Lovely avartard, too.

What is wrong with pyramider? If you prefer another name for me, may I suggest tainttard? Or how about Dr Taint?



I just send a seasonal dic pic of my 1.3" of dangling death. Lovely avartard, too. Originally Posted by pyramider

Dr. Taint sounds classy. I like it.

Could have been going my caller Id

And wanted to confirm

Do you give your real name as well? What about his safety?

Do you give your real name as well? What about his safety? Originally Posted by anonsull

Use a hobby name, it's not that hard! Pick a hobby name (as we do) and stick with it! I don't care if someone wants to call themselves Chewbaca. Just pick a name that all other providers know you by and we are good to go. I know for a fact that several of my clients use a fake name.

It is just plain weird to not have some kind of first name to call someone by.

Ben Dover

Until ECCIE offers a bail bondsman or a service that can identify my dead body, I will always require a little bit more than a handle.

Ben Dover Originally Posted by Curved65

Ha!