Your reason for hobbying

SHOTS FIRED...SHOTS FIRED!!!!!!
Wow, this thread didn't take long to get people worked up! So much hostility! When I get worked up like that I find a provider ASAP, give her a good thrashing!

In my mind anyway....🤔 Originally Posted by Manny4Fun

i actually was not trying to hijack the thread or be messy, but there's a large percentage of men who have no choice but to pay in order to screw a hot chick. That's the simple facts love it or hate it.

Do we really need to come up with a semi-smart answer that attempts to somehow justify this "sin" we are committing?

We hobby because we are guys, because monogamy does not work, because it allows us to browse a selection of beautiful women and take our pick and have sex with her. Because we don't have to worry about pleasing her or feel embarrassed if we come in 30 seconds. And, we don't have to call her the next day and pretend to have a connection.

Sometimes, it feels like this is the real life, and we venture out in the other life for hobby - you know, the RW! LOL!

It's been 20 years since my wife did anything to my dick besides point and laugh. It's hard to experience emotional intimacy when physical intimacy is denied. At its best [dons flame retardant gear] and with the right women (who do exist but who come along very rarely), hobbying is the closest I can get to feeling intimate with someone. And if I can't experience that, it's just nice every now and then, when I start thinking that masturbating to porn is as good as it gets, to have someone put Little Lance in her hand or an orifice or two.

Re-living my youth, minus the long hair on the guys, the bushy pussies on the girls and the flower-power bullshit.

Do we really need to come up with a semi-smart answer that attempts to somehow justify this "sin" we are committing?

We hobby because we are guys, because monogamy does not work, because it allows us to browse a selection of beautiful women and take our pick and have sex with her. Because we don't have to worry about pleasing her or feel embarrassed if we come in 30 seconds. And, we don't have to call her the next day and pretend to have a connection.

Sometimes, it feels like this is the real life, and we venture out in the other life for hobby - you know, the RW! LOL! Originally Posted by johnspice

Good point you made but I don't think it's monogamy that's an issue. If it were legal for us to have more than one wife we would still hobby. In countries where men can have more than one wife adultery and fornication still happens.
Women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes and men like variety. The only way men probably wouldn't cheat is if all women looked so much a like that we couldn't distinguish one from another.

There's an old saying that we when spend money to hobby we are paying the women to go away.

Re-living my youth, minus the long hair on the guys, the bushy pussies on the girls and the flower-power bullshit. Originally Posted by mtabsw

Yeah, there's also trying to make up now for all those things I never was able to enjoy in my youth.

My personal life is a mess, my work life is demanding and my love life died after my 2nd child. So having the ability to get away for 60 minutes and have a sexy woman making me enjoy myself is what probably keeps me sane. It is about the sex and also about the ability to walk away afterwards. I had great sessions where those 60 minutes gave me enough motivation to deal with my shitty world. That's why I am very respectful to the ladi3s in here, I treat them the same way I like to be treated.

Yes, I do happen to be part of the 20 percent and I guess from your sarcastic remark you must be part of the 80 percent? I happen to be in great shape for my age and compete every year in a 5k marathon. Sorry if my comment hit a nerve but I am speaking the truth. Ask any provider to describe the average hobbyist. Trust me it isn't some young stud with a 6 pack and a huge cock it's guys who resemble you. Originally Posted by J.G Wentworth

I 100 billion percent agree J G, and you said exactly what I was going to say. The truth is just that, the truth. I have slept with women that would be a thousand miles out of my league in the RW. Rather I paid $200 or $3000 dollars, the bottom line is most guys are here because they get to fuck and get suck by a few ladies that will never even look there way in the RW.

For example let's say Beyoncé or a young fit Janet Jackson or Brittney spears when she was really hot, was to all place an ad tomorrow saying for one day only they will be in Dallas tomorrow, and their rate for any fans or guys to come fuck them and get their dick suck was $1,000. Now you don't think it will be a line for miles and miles waiting to fuck and get sucked by one of them would happen.

Abso fucking lutely lmao And why do you think this would be, well suiram77 will tell you because 90 percent of the men in Dfw would know, not only would they never get a chance like this again ever, but they also know they would never have a real shot with any of them in a real life situation. I don't think Beyoncé, Janet Jackson or Brittney spears would ever have to wonder why the line to fuck them was so long. They ass would know exactly why, and it's exactly what J G said period. If these 3 ladies are not your pick of hot celeb then pick the 3 you always dreamed of fucking, key word (Dreamed) and the example still works the same. Lol

There are a few guys in the hobby that may be really hot with abs of steel and hung like a donkey lol, but they will certainly be the minority here. If he has 50 reviews, then I don't care what he looks like or his dick size, 25 out of that 50 would not fuck him for free, meaning with no relationship with them that comes with gifts and shit, and that's just the truth. No matter how hot a man or woman is, no one person is everyone's type.

This might be a bit of a personal question for some... And I completely understand that...

So obviously those who want to participate please do... Those who don't... Then don't..

I personally do care what has brought my clients to me... Whether they care to share that ..it's up to them..

Still thought this would be an interesting topic... Originally Posted by Analeese

It will be a great interesting thread Ana

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the practice or state of being married to one person at a time.
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Good point you made but I don't think it's monogamy that's an issue. If it were legal for us to have more than one wife we would still hobby. In countries where men can have more than one wife adultery and fornication still happens.
Women are beautiful in all shapes and sizes and men like variety. The only way men probably wouldn't cheat is if all women looked so much a like that we couldn't distinguish one from another.

There's an old saying that we when spend money to hobby we are paying the women to go away. Originally Posted by J.G Wentworth

I really just love sex and the company of a pretty lady, but don't really have time to find civies or a SB.

Conversely, I've always been curious to why/how the ladies get into hobbying. I always hope to hear it's because they're a nympho who figured out this is a way to make extra money, but that often appears to not be the case.

I 100 billion percent agree J G, and you said exactly what I was going to say. The truth is just that, the truth. I have slept with women that would be a thousand miles out of my league in the RW. Rather I paid $200 or $3000 dollars, the bottom line is most guys are here because they get to fuck and get suck by a few ladies that will never even look there way in the RW.

For example let's say Beyoncé or a young fit Janet Jackson or Brittney spears when she was really hot, was to all place an ad tomorrow saying for one day only they will be in Dallas tomorrow, and their rate for any fans or guys to come fuck them and get their dick suck was $1,000. Now you don't think it will be a line for miles and miles waiting to fuck and get sucked by one of them would happen.

Abso fucking lutely lmao And why do you think this would be, well suiram77 will tell you because 90 percent of the men in Dfw would know, not only would they never get a chance like this again ever, but they also know they would never have a real shot with any of them in a real life situation. I don't think Beyoncé, Janet Jackson or Brittney spears would ever have to wonder why the line to fuck them was so long. They ass would know exactly why, and it's exactly what J G said period. If these 3 ladies are not your pick of hot celeb then pick the 3 you always dreamed of fucking, key word (Dreamed) and the example still works the same. Lol

There are a few guys in the hobby that may be really hot with abs of steel and hung like a donkey lol, but they will certainly be the minority here. If he has 50 reviews, then I don't care what he looks like or his dick size, 25 out of that 50 would not fuck him for free, meaning with no relationship with them that comes with gifts and shit, and that's just the truth. No matter how hot a man or woman is, no one person is everyone's type. Originally Posted by suiram77

Thanks for the response Suriam - I am late 40s and look relatively good for my age but yeah I have screwed 21 year old hotties who wouldn't normally go after someone like me but hey that's the benefit of hobbying.
If you have the cash and are respectful you can screw some of the hottest ladies money can buy. But let's be honest with ourselves a lot of us hobbyist guys have screwed ladies that we know wouldn't screw us for free.

At this point, no idea. When I first started, was only going to be a few time thing. Been with only one girl and we've been together since the very end of high school. I just got super tired of being curious of being with someone else. My wife has always been a BBW, so obviously wanted to know what it was like to be with a thinner girl. She has quite a bit of mommy damage after having four kids and losing a lot of weight, so I wanted a more a firm body to play with.

But you know what, when we have the time for some serious fun, not just tired quickies at bed time, she is still better than any provider I've seen. We still have sex on a regular basis, but it isn't much fun because of busy family life. No provider can get me off with a bj better and faster than her. Hell, only two providers so far have done it and some others have tried very hard to do so, but couldn't get there.

I don't have a ATF, but if I was forced to name one, the one I would name is the closest provider I've seen that resembles the wife. So that raises the question, am I drawn to her for her experience/personality/looks or is it cause she resembles a younger, firmer version of the wife?

Some valid points. But again, one size does not fit all. Its just not the physical attributes that can get you laid, though. But then again, in the RW it takes much more time, mental stress and money to do it. And I have some boundaries that I will never cross - I will never fuck somebody's wife in RW even if she begged me and I will never fuck a girl that I have some degree of authority over - be it due to work, social or whatever. The hobby allows me to be me without potentially messing up someone else's life.

I 100 billion percent agree J G, and you said exactly what I was going to say. The truth is just that, the truth. I have slept with women that would be a thousand miles out of my league in the RW. Rather I paid $200 or $3000 dollars, the bottom line is most guys are here because they get to fuck and get suck by a few ladies that will never even look there way in the RW.

For example let's say Beyoncé or a young fit Janet Jackson or Brittney spears when she was really hot, was to all place an ad tomorrow saying for one day only they will be in Dallas tomorrow, and their rate for any fans or guys to come fuck them and get their dick suck was $1,000. Now you don't think it will be a line for miles and miles waiting to fuck and get sucked by one of them would happen.

Abso fucking lutely lmao And why do you think this would be, well suiram77 will tell you because 90 percent of the men in Dfw would know, not only would they never get a chance like this again ever, but they also know they would never have a real shot with any of them in a real life situation. I don't think Beyoncé, Janet Jackson or Brittney spears would ever have to wonder why the line to fuck them was so long. They ass would know exactly why, and it's exactly what J G said period. If these 3 ladies are not your pick of hot celeb then pick the 3 you always dreamed of fucking, key word (Dreamed) and the example still works the same. Lol

There are a few guys in the hobby that may be really hot with abs of steel and hung like a donkey lol, but they will certainly be the minority here. If he has 50 reviews, then I don't care what he looks like or his dick size, 25 out of that 50 would not fuck him for free, meaning with no relationship with them that comes with gifts and shit, and that's just the truth. No matter how hot a man or woman is, no one person is everyone's type. Originally Posted by suiram77

Thanks for the response Suriam - I am late 40s and look relatively good for my age but yeah I have screwed 21 year old hotties who wouldn't normally go after someone like me but hey that's the benefit of hobbying.
If you have the cash and are respectful you can screw some of the hottest ladies money can buy. But let's be honest with ourselves a lot of us hobbyist guys have screwed ladies that we know wouldn't screw us for free. Originally Posted by J.G Wentworth

Yw and amen brother to that, and I'm with you here. Im 40 and not bad looking (handsome) and I have done the exact same thing. Five years ago I got super lucky and was able to meet and fuck and get sucked by my favorite porn star Holy Halston, and even though if I remember correctly it cost me $2000 for 2 hours of her time, it didn't matter to me because, I was fucking someone that would never fuck me for free or look my way.

At least you and I J G is not in denial with reality. A guy has the right to believe whatever he wants to believe about himself, even if it's a Lie. When you deny the truth you just only delay reality.