Best thing you learned in the hobby?

Never judge a book by it's cover. Be accepting of people's issues and realize, we are all looking for companionship.

Enjoy. Every person has something to offer (although, if the dude is a dick, it's usually a lesson learned) and looking past how a person's appearance is, is number one..

xo
Jazz Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

On point ☝🏽

You can't trust everybody. And not everyone is your friend. Always be ten steps ahead of people in this hobby. Keep private information private. And, just have fun!

Mmm gemma. Youre sexy AND wise.....luv it

Thank you Miss Dallas! Luv your sexy new avatar

I have learned if you do your research & meet the right ladies & treat them right you can for the most part avoid drama & thereby have a more enjoyable experience.

And look I am under Gemma!!

Thanks sugar....
Woohooo now W you are in middle of me n sexy miss G


Also learned...

pick your battles on the boards. Lol

And

Not ALL low priced "whores" are "low class whores"...read my reviews and pm me and I will explain (sorry. My sweet Scorpio..shameless plug)

Lol

Stay out of the childishness on this board.

never pre pay for a session rarely ends well yes i too have been a dumbass a couple times! also when doing research on a lady you fancy looking through her reviews. if there are reviews in multiple states its best to go to that states board and research her name in coed and the ml. as the search feature on eccie kinda sucks and you cant do a blanket search site wide! it really suck that you cant know previous handles by certain providers because knowing them can tell all too their paterns of deception. but the forum guidelines prohibit mention of prior handles of providers.

some change them for safety related issues which is understandable if the lady is in danger! but some ladies have a whole other agenda when they change handles.

research is your friend do it correctly on the provider you wish to see and that makes the difference between having a great session or one you regret!

Oh I also learned that a lot of these dummies tie their Real Life Facebook pages to their Hooker names, exposing themselves, their kids and their families to pretty much 90% of their clients. It's always fun taking the name and plugging it into Missouri Casenet to find out what crimes they've committed before deciding to see someone.

Don't believe everything you hear, and let gossip stay out of your mind.You never know who is going through what, so save your judgement, and just have fun.

Focus on being the best person/provider that you can be & don't let people you'll probably never meet in person get under your skin.

Don't catch feelings.

Don't mistake IOP for P. The only thing that legitimately turns her on about this hobby is getting paid.

Don't try to "save" anybody.

Trust no one.

Research is your friend.

Mixing RW and HW lives is a recipe for disaster.

Find those that have been enjoying the hobby, like you enjoy the hobby, for a long time and do as they do.

Thank you all for the awesome advice! Hopefully it will make for a happy and safe hobby life for me and the others getting started here. Much appreciated and hopefully I'll have the chance to meet some of the lovely ladies from this thread soon. Now, I'm off to see the updates from Titty Tuesday and prepare myself for Thong Thursday!

If you have a session when the thought that you are paying for this hour never enters your mind, show your appreciation.

Never piss off a woman who is about to fuck you by trying to negotiate, not being fresh out of the shower clean, or being an ass hole in general.

Never ever share anything she does or says in confidence. Being trustworthy leads to great sessions if you are a regular.

Never mistake IOP, friendliness, or openness for real world type feelings or wanting any other type of relationship than pay for play. I have made a few provider friends who text/talk to see how things are, spend time OTC doing things outside the bed, and show they appreciate being treated well in other ways. I have never suggested this type of stuff, it happens only if she wants to.
Don't lie (good or bad) about providers in here or in your reviews.
Have a little patience with being late or the rare NCNS, shit happens.