Big difference I've noticed in my suitors being pleased orally....i fucking love do it....give me a cock to put in my mouth and I know exactly what to doSo true. I dated a dancer for a couple of years back when. She was unbelievable, and told me she wanted to set a personal record, made me cum 6 times in one night....fucking relentless. The last 3 shots were barely a drop I finally asked her why she enjoyed it so much....her response. "Power!!!...I can feel the POWER!!...Nothing makes me feel like a queen more than having all your power and taking it from you. It's how I rule".
You have to actually enjoy cock sucking....its better received and given that way! Originally Posted by Analeese
Agreed the gal needs to be into it. If she truly enjoys it then it is going to be a good experience for both. I've had extended cock worship sessions due to the BJ being so good I skipped over FS activities.
Techniques as Eva mentioned are great. I like the slow deep with an experienced purpose. Lots of eye contact and attention to the sides and undersides of the shaft. Of course the occasional dirty talk comment as she transitions from sucking to move to the balls. Something else I like is trying to distract her while in 69...having her moan with my cock in her mouth and having her squirm on my face at the same time gets me closer to my goal. The point where it drives her nuts and she goes into head bobbing overdrive as she totters on the edge of orgasm has done it for me many times.
Oh BTW, Eva does have a hot water BJ that is quite good too... Originally Posted by MILFEater
Before I give my quintessential answer to this one, let me give a shout out to Lena for the Taraji P. Henson clip. I almost spit out my water that was so hilarious. Totally caught me off guard.I certainly agree that one has to get lost into what she's doing. It has to be complete pleasure for her as well to please. Many times gents will say their best BJ is a civilian relationship. With that said, it is important to have some type of rapport at least with your partner. The recipient can recognize when it is seen as a job. This is called enthusiasm.
So, obviously there's a technique piece that has to be there, but what takes it to the stratosphere, building on Creeds comment (enjoyment), is being 'in the zone.'
It's that place you hear about where excellence occurs in any activity (golf, pitching, dance, studying for exams, work, writing, almost anything) when you're so absorbed in what you're doing you lose track of time and your senses become unaware of things going on around you. (You raise your head up and say,"holy shit! It's been 30 mins?! It only felt like 10!) "In..the..zone" Where creativity occurs. Which by the way, I have reached kissin pussy. When I was a younger more pretentious hack, I was quite the cunnilinguist. But I digress.
So that's it sports fans: you can teach technique to almost anyone who gives half a shit, but if in her head she can't stop wondering how long it's going to take you to cum...or whether or not she should interrupt cause she needs to pee, it'll never be top tier.
Thanks OP for always classin up the joint. Some of us appreciate that you're never a drama-mama. And if this is a ThreAD type thing, then so be it.
Regards,
LnH Originally Posted by LoveNHorny
That's what I call "CONFIDENCE" in your skills !!! Don't let her go buddy !!! Stay in touch with her !! Lol.. Originally Posted by ScrewDriver01We still see each other every couple of years, she lives in Vicksburg, Miss now, each raising all the kids separated our lives. She truly is amazing, even now. She has the most enticing and manipulative flirtatious sexual manner, and knows how to exploit her feminine attractiveness with total authenticity. She would laugh at porn stars calling them amateurs She practiced pilates in her dancing, slow, purposeful, focused, mesmerizing in movement...no wasted energy. I used to be wowed how there could be 15 guys lined up on the border of the stage and she could make each one believe he alone was her choice. She could easily have been the Lesley Ann Warren of porn had she chosen to do so. She could pass for Lesley's twin sister. Amazing gal.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...key=2128604555 Originally Posted by johnclarkThat's one of my favorite videos
Before I give my quintessential answer to this one, let me give a shout out to Lena for the Taraji P. Henson clip. I almost spit out my water that was so hilarious. Totally caught me off guard.
So, obviously there's a technique piece that has to be there, but what takes it to the stratosphere, building on Creeds comment (enjoyment), is being 'in the zone.'
It's that place you hear about where excellence occurs in any activity (golf, pitching, dance, studying for exams, work, writing, almost anything) when you're so absorbed in what you're doing you lose track of time and your senses become unaware of things going on around you.. Originally Posted by LoveNHorny