I am offended by your racist remarks which were totally unnecessary to your answer. I also find it interesting that your ancestors plight will not allow you to be tied down and whipped, but your empathy ends there and you can easily become the slave master!Im very dominant in RW SO when i got offered to to be a sub i took it as a challenge 6 months later still learning as its hard as we all know FOR ME to "mind" sub but im lovinging it to this day ...my .02 cents
The truth is being sub or domme has nothing to do with anyone's past, but one's desire to be in control or out of control. Often a result of the yen and yang of things - i.e. - if you are in control all the time in the RW then you fantasize about being out of control or surrendering that control to someone else. Which is why so often people in power places all day long tend toward submissiveness. And people that have no power in their real life or perceive they have no power crave control and domination.
Perhaps your ancestors were slaves, but at some point you personally have to get over that. After all 6,000,000 Jews's were killed in the holocaust, not enslaved but killed ... and I promise you not one Jewish prostitute will add to this thread I can't be a sub because the Germans killed my people.
I like to be a domme because in my real life I am in a position were I, although in a power position, feel like my job is to serve the needs of my people. So, in the bed room I like to be in total control. Also, don't confuse dominance and submissiveness with bondage and domination. B&D is where the whips and ties come in ... submissive can be a soft as you do what I tell you when I tell you - and is a far more mental of an exercise, where as B & D is physical action.
Just remember as long as you identify yourself as a former slave you are a slave. Originally Posted by 5T3V3
Is fantasy role play its a lot of fun as a sub and teaches or trying to teach one to trust and learn to take orders when told to get rewarded in the end and if Your;re a dom in RW meaning speak your mind its very hard to learn to do but its so much FUN .....carry on edit
i guess one would say im into B&D as well
