I've always been a believer in calling someone the name by which they want to be known
That said, the issue that drives most all our internal ills is deceitful teaching of our American experiment which aids and abets non-assimilation, by American born mostly
Tucker Carlson had a young black woman activist on recently. In an effort at finding common ground, he remarked to her, well at least we are Americans first. She smiled a peculiar haughty smile and said, I'm black first.