I would venture to say that one of the reasons is because the door acts as a security blanket of sorts. There has just got to be a considerable amount of apprehension in the provider who's shielded by the door. I mean thinck about it, they're opening that door to a complete stranger.
It takes some serious balls to do that ...
While hobbits have a fairly good idea about who/what she's about, providers aren't usually as fortunate. Pretty much all they have to go off of is your board presence and a couple of, "yup, he's cool" references from other providers. Other than zeros and ones on their interweb computer screen, they typically don't know squat about who's on the other side of that door.
By the same token, (and they probably won't admit this publicly...but they know I'm right...lol), I have no doubt that sometimes they wish they could keep that door in between themselves and their new suitor for the duration of the encounter...but since they can't, they just hold it there for as long as possible.
Also, for me, if it is late, don't ring my doorbell! It's kinda loud and I don't know if other apts can hear it!
Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield
That's the last thing you will have to worry about them hearing when you and I get together.
Thanks for the feedback everyone. Thank goodness for boards like this. I'm really gonna need to start playing here at home, instead of just on the road.
I personally like to stand partially behind the door because I enjoy the up close view of the expression on a gentlemans face when he gets a good look at me in a skin tight short dress (bossom in plain view) and sexy heels. . . Or maybe just a 2 piece lace set slightly covered by a open dangling sexy robe . . . So that when I approach you to greet you with a hug, you can already simply slide your hands in my robe and feel my warm soft skin.
I love to flirt and tease. And YOU love it when I do.