Based on experience, most guys go for option 2. They want to try and squeeze in as many nuts as possible rather than just relaxing and enjoying the experience. I find this most difficult with shorter dates such as an hour, which is why I book more extended dates first. Bottom line, is the longer you hold out the more pleasing and powerful your explosion will be. Originally Posted by London RayneI would have to agree!! I'm looking at trying a tantric experiance.