I don't want to read someone's name - even if it's your son, father, brother... I don't know that so I will think it's an ex.
Tats that generally cover majority of arm/torso/thigh/calf/chest/boobs/neck are distracting.
Any tat on face is distracting.
Any tat that's not pristine - colors or lines running, blurry, or just not done well - are distracting.
Generally, words/phrases/sentences/poems/verses are distracting unless you're Megan Fox. Maybe even if you are Megan Fox.