I think every gent should get a great experience. Whether or not your going to see me again is most likely based on my performance and services. It doesn't make sense to not offer those services at the start.
I personally like ladies who enjoy, verses tolerate getting their ass played with. I love a nice clean starfish for sensual play. But, someday, hope to roleplay being forced to do TUHA from multiple positions, facesitting etc, before my date finishes me.
Thats sort of a hard thing to know If Id be compatible with a date. With some though, its well known from the reviews.
The old saying goes, you have one chance to make a first impression. Don't ruin it by being stupid playing marketing games. Want a guy to come back? Knock his socks off the first time. Girls that play this stupid stuff are mediocre at best in the first place. Instead they need a "shtick" to try to insure repeat business.