What's up with the cheep callers lately

KayC_K's Avatar
How would a guy like the girl to show up unshowered, unclean, wearing last week's work undies and smelling like fresh manure? Is that how low balling works they want less of the girl so they offer less? It has to go a little to what she puts in to it even if it is just a half hour. Maybe he only wants to lick one side??
I find it ironic when I receive an inquiry for a cheaper rate. I offer discounts and guarantees with my sessions yet it isnt enough for some. Visiting a provider,despite the service we provide, IS A LUXURY, NOT A NEED!!! IF SEEING US IS OUTSIDE YOUR BUDGET, DO NOT WASTE THE TIME OF THE PROVIDER HAGGLING THE FEES. COME CORRECT OR NOT AT ALL!! it really is that simple. The gall of some of you who make the provider feel less than because your broke is appalling. Be reminded that you get what you pay for so do NOT complain about getting shotty service, when you dont pay the premium price. And as far as my fellow sisters in the hustle goes, SELF-ESTEEM IS VITAL!!!! DO NOT ALLOW ANYONE, LET ALONE A CLIENT PLAY YOU FOR A FOOL! We are all beautiful and what one wont pay, they are many more who will. Let that cheap bastard go home and ask his mother to get him off. Chances are, he lives in the basement below her...
dirty dog's Avatar
Yeah pickle was not a good choice to use in hindsight.
open communication and clear boundaries are key. if you cannot agree on the terms, move on to someone who will. If you respect the hobby, respect the providers demands.
dirty dog's Avatar
OK DD and Wiz,
But once a guy who's lowballing for only this or that, gets past the door, I'd bet and win, that 99% starts pestering for variations of full service with discounts. Well you are always going to have assholes. but I would hazard to guess that those that would do this would do it regardless of the rate agreed to. Some people just want 1 thing, and would be satisfied with that
I arrived at a date, once upon a time ago, and first helped one of the gals pick up pieces of a handheld that she had smashed against a brick wall in an attempt to rupture some guys eardrum, cause he had called three times in a row with lowball requests. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter
Well again, there will always be jerks. But for the respectful guy is it fair to charge 200.00 for an hour for all services for a guy that will more than likely be done in 20 minutes and limit his actions to the agreed upon activity. Again let me state I am not advocating one way or the other I am just asking a question. Personally as most know I am retired and will remain so unless two ladies that I have always liked entice me to come back, but until Savana and Gemma call upon me I have no dog in this hunt. But then again Gemma would just give it to me cause I am just that sexy LOL.
dirty dog's Avatar
I dont consider my rates cheap...I call them "best bang for the buck".....I have my menu open to all services even in halfhour/with no upselling!..... I believe there are still a few of us quality serviced gals at a low rate!

a gal has every right to charge what she thinks she is worth or what she is comfortable with......doesnt necessarily make them any better or worse than any other provider here....it is just her choice............and a guy has every right to pay it or seek another provider more to his price point!

I say that there is a price point provider on here for everyone........check a gals showcase & reviews and get what YOU want!


{hell I have my hh at 100..I figure 100 on a slow day is better than 0..lol}
Originally Posted by DallasRain
As I said there is not wrong answer here. I am not saying their prices are two high or too low. I think most low ballers are asking for a full menu at a reduced rate. My hypothetical is whether or not a reduced menu, time frame etc, warrants a different rate structure.
dirty dog's Avatar
How would a guy like the girl to show up unshowered, unclean, wearing last week's work undies and smelling like fresh manure? Is that how low balling works they want less of the girl so they offer less? It has to go a little to what she puts in to it even if it is just a half hour. Maybe he only wants to lick one side?? Originally Posted by KayC_K
That's a good point.
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Wasn't suggesting I agreed with DD's proposition of reduced rates, Carp...
Just expressing my affection for.... DESSERT! Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs
My bad Wiz. And a lickalicious dessert does allow smiles to be collected.
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Well again, there will always be jerks. But for the respectful guy is it fair to charge 200.00 for an hour for all services for a guy that will more than likely be done in 20 minutes and limit his actions to the agreed upon activity.... Originally Posted by dirty dog
Agree on the jerk thing, which was my point.
If a guy knows he good in 30, I think that's a key thing to be communicated/agreed up front.
In the reality part of this fantasy, someone asking for an hour, is an hour.
If a gal decides to go off clock, or discount, that's a separate thing altogether.
satan666's Avatar
How would a guy like the girl to show up unshowered, unclean, wearing last week's work undies and smelling like fresh manure? Is that how low balling works they want less of the girl so they offer less? It has to go a little to what she puts in to it even if it is just a half hour. Maybe he only wants to lick one side?? Originally Posted by KayC_K

not a lowballer never have been but i have had this happen @ premium rate! not only that but was also a girl who i had seen numerous times before. sadly some girls in this hobby who were once phenomenal providers go in a downward spiral because of it! (the hobby that is)
JRLawrence's Avatar
I wish those guys would read the ladies profiles and if they can't afford the price either save up for it or find a bp girl in their price range.

Thats why i either wait until they have a special or save up for what i need.

Although I have noticed a lot of ladies raising their rates but service quality has gone down.

I have hobbied for 20 plus years and goffed at the 1st time i paid 2 benny's for an hour, but the service was off the charts on that visit. I can still recall every moment with her.

But really guy pony up or stay home. Originally Posted by sportster872000
Good for you. We read you loud and clear, the extra money was worth the great service. Let us not think about the times that ladies have seen others appropriately charge for a great GFE and they think that they too can charge the larger amount.

Some ladies can only chase after the prices that GFE beautiful and kind ladies ask; sadly, they are simply not worth a larger amount. When we find out we have been cheated on the service a guys only option is to not go back and write a negative review: which may bring the wrath of the lady reviewed and she tells the other girls how badly they feel. TS, speak up guys, when a girl gives us poor service: write that negative review. When a guy gets great service, see the lady again and reward her with a nice tip that she doesn't have to talk about.

Tatted, fat, out of shape, uneducated and negative ladies just do not get the juices flowing for a lot of guys: so why do they think they are able to even ask for the same prices that they see their sister in the profession asking? Nothing asked, nothing gained? Of course we should ask for a price reduction when we see the tramp stamp. There is an old analogy about the price comparison between real gold and common ore.

Do your references before spending your money.

JR
How would a guy like the girl to show up unshowered, unclean, wearing last week's work undies and smelling like fresh manure? Originally Posted by KayC_K
This happens a lot. Not just with unverified providers, but seasoned pro's.
Audrey Astor's Avatar
no one says we only have to see 2 guys a day----

LOL Aren't you cute? So what would you charge, and how many would you do a day?
Audrey Astor's Avatar
Question for the ladies, what if the client only wants a very limited menu, say for example the client only wants to perform oral on you. You have to do nothing in return to the client other than lay there and fake like it feels good. would you still charge a full rate. Is it fair to you, is it fair to the client? there is no right or wrong, I just want your honest opinion. For an analogy what if you went to a restaurant that served a burger, fries, pop and dessert for 10.00. But you only wanted the pickles off the hamburger. Would it be fair to charge 10.00. Now before you start I am not comparing a burger to your body or anything. Let me know, I ask this because I have an associate coming in from Chicago and he will be here for about 6 months. He is a known person so he must be very low key. He likes to go down on the ladies front and rear, but that's all he does, for whatever reason his wife does not like it so this is what he searches for. Any ladies that would like to see this guy can contact me, he will probably see her 2 times a week for the 6 months. He has a preference for woman of color but all are welcome. Back to the topic, what do you think ladies? Originally Posted by dirty dog
Personally my rate would still be the same. It still requires the same preparation on my end (hair, make-up, lingerie, nice incall, nice beverage offerings, nice linen offerings etc.). It is still my door opening at my discreet incall one more time. That is just me though. Plus I get off on providing pleasure in return.
DallasRain's Avatar
I never change my rates...whatever is on the menu is available at the donation structure I have set up

and I also do run specials for certain circumstances
JRLawrence's Avatar
This happens a lot. Not just with unverified providers, but seasoned pro's. Originally Posted by bilbobaggin
Thank you!

Recently, I did my research and took my $350 to a meeting with a lady that was highly recommended and a well known "seasoned pro": she turned out to be dirty both in appearance and attitude. When I went for DATY there was some other guy's left overs. Little Johnny just lost interest in the rest of the meeting. I didn't have the heart to even write a negative review. She is not worth the time.

I got a bad vibration about her when she did some time manipulation prior to the meeting: I went along with it because my research about her was in error.

Lesson learned: if you ever get even a little doubt about the meeting, trust your gut (or the little voice in your ear) and bail out before spending your money.

JR