Ladies "managed" by their S/O.

An SO managing his lady, wouldn't that be called a pimp?.. Originally Posted by looiecypher

thats what i always thought,
and if it was another lady, shes often called a madame
to me, they all mean the same thing
tomato - tamato

Herc,

Have to admit, it takes all kinds in the hobby. A while back, there was a massage +++ lady working in the Plano area, who had her husband screening, booking, managing and greeting clients at the door. (She had two or three other ladies working with her as well.) He would be in the next room while she was in session. I visited once, he was a nice enough gent, and so was their pet German Shepherd. Fortunately for me, I was visiting one of the other ladies as the "odd factor" with a waiting husband in the next room would have really harshed the vibe. Originally Posted by Tony Patella

they're still around, they just keep bouncing from city to city. She used to get good reviews on ASPD too.

I remember visiting the private residence and there was a lot of people, activity and noise going on in all the rooms. TVs on, phones ringing, fax machines buzzing, dogs walking around....weird.

I always assume I'm talking to a booker when I email a provider until I hear back from her with her name signed. In that case it should obviously be HER signing her name, and not someone else.
I really, really don't want to know if a provider has an SO, whether she's providing with his help/approval or not. That's just me though.

I personally don't see anything wrong w it. As long as her SO is not around during the session. I also wouldn't be comfortabe with him booking calls. Forever its always been men taking care of their SO, being a stay at home mom, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kiddos. Why would it be so wrong for a lady who is in this biz to take care of her SO? I mean, if she is making enough money to do that, and its her choice....whats wrong w that? I say "Right On" to any lady that supports her man.

I personally don't see anything wrong w it. As long as her SO is not around during the session. I also wouldn't be comfortabe with him booking calls. Forever its always been men taking care of their SO, being a stay at home mom, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kiddos. Why would it be so wrong for a lady who is in this biz to take care of her SO? I mean, if she is making enough money to do that, and its her choice....whats wrong w that? I say "Right On" to any lady that supports her man. Originally Posted by Carly's Angels

I personally don't see anything wrong w it. As long as her SO is not around during the session. I also wouldn't be comfortabe with him booking calls. Forever its always been men taking care of their SO, being a stay at home mom, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kiddos. Why would it be so wrong for a lady who is in this biz to take care of her SO? I mean, if she is making enough money to do that, and its her choice....whats wrong w that? I say "Right On" to any lady that supports her man. Originally Posted by Carly's Angels

Any lady supporting her pim...uhhh....man, through the sale of her pus...er...time, is an idiot.

Im sorry but im not taking chances with my life so some guy can sit on his ass and play Xbox all day. Get a fucking job. You think I'm about to fork over the money after taking on all the risk? Puh-LEEZE!

Just my two cents.

Back in the day I would see a lady that we had so much fun that our appointments would always run over. She would get phone calls and then a knock at the door. I finally asked her, " is it your next appointment?". To which she reaponded, "No, it's my deadheat husband, let him wait, I'm getting fucked".

Donnie....thats interesting and sounds scary at the same time!

+1 Dannie

Sounds more like another child than a man.

SMH

of mmf too much but if i could get a 1.5 hour-2hr session with holly i would have no problem sharing her with any man including her husband. as they don't seem to advertize as much they may get overlooked as well as them not being everybody's cup of tea but just from a physical standpoint she may be one of the hottest wmen on plnet earth.

For us its a 50/50 business although some days she does most of the work, and on others I do.
But people are going to think what they want regardless , Hey its worked out good for the last 4yrs we gotta be doing something right.
BTW Thin White Duke Thank You for the COOL AS FUCK Originally Posted by Holly and Rod

I personally don't see anything wrong w it. As long as her SO is not around during the session. I also wouldn't be comfortabe with him booking calls. Forever its always been men taking care of their SO, being a stay at home mom, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kiddos. Why would it be so wrong for a lady who is in this biz to take care of her SO? I mean, if she is making enough money to do that, and its her choice....whats wrong w that? I say "Right On" to any lady that supports her man. Originally Posted by Carly's Angels

The situation you describe of a man "taking care of his SO" is getting rarer these days as most households need more than one income to survive or maintain a comfortable standard of living. But there are many things that can be considered "taking care of your SO" other than just $$$ and, again, in the situation you describe, I would have to say that both are working to provide and take care of the other. Cooking, Cleaning, Taking care of the kiddos has value as anyone who has hired a maid or paid for childcare can attest.

If what you consider "taking care of your man" means that a lady provides the financial necessities of everyday life, and "her man" is also making some sort of positive contribution both to the relationship and the requirements that life in general involves, you may have a point. But, the common perception in these type of relationships (and although I'm sure it happens with all professions, it seems especially prevalent with ladies who are dancers or providers) is that the guys are simply freeloaders and willing to let their lady do all the "work"

Sure ... everyone and every lady has a right to make their own decisions, and the rest of us have the right to make choices with regard to who we see based on many factors and that includes a lady's "life choices" to the extent we are aware of them.

I stated exactly what I ment. If a lady is in this biz, and she chooses to take care of her man/hubby, why not? If he is at home, cleaning, cooking & taking care of the kids.....whats the difference when a man takes care of his woman? Yal really trip me out on any subject along these lines. Some still live inside a itty bitty box . So because a lady is in this biz....whoever her SO is....he must be a pimp? LMAO!!! Okay There are way too many ladies in this biz who take care of their man, because they can and because they want to. I, at one point did take care of the father of my kids.....and I loved it!!! I came home to a clean house, a home cooked meal & kiddos bathed, fed & ready for bed. I didn't have to do any grocery shopping (which i hate!) I didn't have to pay the bills. He did everything!!! All I had to do was work. But then it was also a time, after we lost our son that I was not capable of working due to physical & emotional stress........and he took total complete care of me & our kids!!! I'm not saying its ok to take care of a man & he just doesn't do shit, period. Oh no. That just wouldn't work.

I, at one point did take care of the father of my kids.....and I loved it!!! I came home to a clean house, a home cooked meal & kiddos bathed, fed & ready for bed. I didn't have to do any grocery shopping (which i hate!) I didn't have to pay the bills. He did everything!!! All I had to do was work. But then it was also a time, after we lost our son that I was not capable of working due to physical & emotional stress........and he took total complete care of me & our kids!!! I'm not saying its ok to take care of a man & he just doesn't do shit, period. Oh no. That just wouldn't work. Originally Posted by Carly's Angels

I think we're on the same page ... two totally different situations described here. In the first situation, although you may have been providing the "financial support" for the household, he was bringing something productive and of value to the relationship. In the second, most of us guys hate to see a lady ... what we might describe as ... being "used".

But it simply comes down to ... every individual has to go with what "works" for them and with what they are comfortable.

An SO is OK. What's not OK is when it's not an SO but an honest-to-goodness pimp. Might be a hairs breath of difference between the two from the pimp's perspective but it'd be enough for me to look elsewhere.