You know, there really is no solution to this issue unless prostitution is legalized. Guys want to be able to contact ladies when they have an itch, and ladies what to know if the person who is calling/texting is someone they'd like to see again or some asshole they can't stand to be with. I put ladies I enjoy in my contact list with a name I can associate with them. I am sure ladies do the same thing using some part of a guy's handle. I might be Guy Justin in some lady's phone or Justin Guy - either way, I hope it tells her I'm someone who she would be happy to see again. I use some similar attempts to ensure I can find a lady's number when I NEED it. Burner phones are probably the best answer, as long as what we do is illegal, but many of us are too lazy to get burner phones...sigh.
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