totally agree. providers help keep the marriage together. fulfill what the guy is missing. real world extramarital affairs is an entirely different thing. that usually ends a marriage. guy sees provider, they value their marriage, sex is just unsatisfying. guy has an affair, the marriage has huge problems.
Originally Posted by cmore197474
My wife is frail: trouble with health and seeing. I do the shopping, cooking and drive her to where she needs to go. She can do the laundry and ironing by sitting in front of a giant screen TV. We have a maid service that helps keep the house. She is my best friend. So what about sex, it doesn't matter if that is a problem for her. It is fun taking care of her. I will not leave her even if my only option was Thumb Balinna and her four sisters.
The hobby provides for my special needs, even if less often than when I was younger. I don't need or want to date a regular girl who would have greater expectations than I am willing or able to provide. That would not be fair to her.
As long as I am safe, no pimps and no problems: the hobby provides.
JR