Would you use the providers to sext?

You weren't a regular and repeat client, so I don't even remember. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

hardly the point of my post

If "Want to buy me lunch?" counts as sexting, I've gotten a lot of them, lol. It does sound intriguing. How much does it cost for a woman to text dirty to you? Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Not much ... until it becomes a lot of time. Or ask your SO the same question, "How much does it cost for a woman to text dirty to you?"

Angie,

It's probably not something I personally would use. Having said that, I'm sure that there is a market for that service. Finding the equilibrium point in cost and how much time a provider would be willing to spend on it and have clientele is beyond my ability to predict.

Angie,

First, I hope that I answer the question that you're asking. You're asking about offering phone sex and sexting to a client base, new or otherwise, right? If so, I have a few thoughts for you.

I offer sexting and phone sex and I consider sexting to be a whole lot of fun.

But there are a few ways to go about it.

First, there are guys that see sex workers and there are guys who do phone sex and sexting.

There is some overlap but usually, the men that I've spoken to over the phone aren't escort clients.

Also, if you're offering phone sex, it's important to differentiate between a "fantasy" call and one that is suggesting what type of time together you would have if you were to meet.

I always make that distinction and it's important for a few reasons: You don't want to say God knows what to a guy (all conversations within the confines of what is legal to discuss, of course!) and then he could expect you to DO that if and when you met.

Between us girls , I will whisper some pretty shocking things to titillate a man's brain. But I might not even be able to do what I'm suggesting.

So make that distinction. And make that distinction anyway, even if you do plan on seeing him in person.

There are websites, and books, about all of this that would probably answer your questions better than my response. There are several books on Amazon that you can buy about the business of phone sex.

I'll have to go and look at what I have to make any suggestions as to which ones, though. Let me know if you wish for me to do that for you and I will. Some were a waste of funds but all of them offered some useful info.

Guys here are going to roll their eyes when I share this but my charge for both are around $100 an hour. $25-30 for the first 15 minutes or so. I will generally work with a guy on that a little bit but not much.

As a sex worker, I sell time.

So if someone wishes to do a bunch of sexting, I do not keep a timer, but I'm generous with time.

The client can either send me an Amazon gift card, which is anonymous and a lot of men like that, or I use a Square to charge it.

I'm open to different payment options. A few years ago, a guy purchased something from my Amazon wish list. Guess that he just wanted to treat this as a gift type of situation instead of what it was. And that was fine.

Just figure out how you wish to get paid.

It's not like I do this a lot, but I do it some and often offering this service can provide you a little extra here and once again, it's often quite a bit of fun. Can make you feel tingly.

I can really get into the sexting. And when a man is bored at work and wants a little sensual diversion for a bit of time, well ... gosh ... let's do it!!!

Since I wish to be easy going with time, and want my clients to come back, I tend to spoil them a bit.

And once, this has come back to bite me in the butt. A client was given probably twice the time that he paid for and honestly, I didn't mind. He was sweet but rather demanding over the phone.

But when I told him that we had really finished sexting, and that if he wished to do more of it he needed to pay me more, he got upset. Doubt he's on Eccie.

So you might consider being a little bit more businesslike in your encounters than I am. But that's just happened once in the past.

Also, if you're open to being on Skype or showing yourself online during these encounters, you of course should charge more.

But I don't know much about camming and what the industry standard is for that service, independently or otherwise.

Think that some of the answers above might be misinterpreting what you were asking, or perhaps I did.

I'll freely admit that I'm not the most experienced phone sex person out there. I've done it here and there for several years.

Would like to do MORE of it but I tend towards being picky and a guy has to send me an email first, because currently I'm not posting a phone number online.

Most phone sex guys want to call you, pay for the call, and get it on immediately. And at this time, I'm unable to offer that.

Plus, I don't wish to speak over the phone in the evenings too much.

But if you have the freedom to talk and chat at any time ... it could provide you with an additional income stream, for sure.

Good luck. If you have any questions, please feel free to send me a PM or just ask me here. I don't mind sharing my experiences and helping out others who are interested in trying this.

Best,
Elisabeth

I might since i got married no funds to hobby. Sexting sounds hot especially if I had seen the person before . with Angie For sure,

This sounds like something I can find on CL for free, lots of people want to text for free in there.

Simple answer no, those who might seek this now days are someone I would not trust or be comfortable with if I was a escort. Too many weirdos out there and easy self gratification with no cost online porn to provide the same thing.

Hey tim you stranger! I have missed you!

Elisabeth, you are more along the lines of what I was asking. I will send you an email about it more.

What made me ask this in the first place is a gentleman who cannot get away to hobby asked me through kik if I would be interested in setting up a PO Box (which I haven't done yet just for one person) to do future sexting appointments. I did try it out with him the first time out of curiosity to see if I liked it and if he would and it seemed like a good fit for both of us.

On the down side of having kik, within two days I got guys who I almost can't tell apart that are interested in very similar things, with very active imaginations, who I even got screened...but after a little teasing about what will happen in session, they just keep insisting on trying to dirty talk.
I basically had to tell them that they need to only contact me when they are ready to book with me, how much notice I will need if they want to book with me, or they will have needed to have deposited money into my venmo account if they are wanting to send me dick pics, talk dirty and fantasy with me.

That lead me to think there might be guys who might not really be able to get away to hobby that might know a little about me, who might have been following me for a while (might kind of be a fan) and would be interesting in sexting of sorts. I think it is kind of hot to sneak away from the wifey for ten minutes and quietly rub one out with one hand while texting what you would be doing with one of the ladies here you know is established and legit (or even not, if you feel she would truly be sending pics that you would be interested in that are not on her showcase).
Me personally, I know I would not be showing waist down, as I do not do that on here. I don't do photos in session, so only what I already have on film is allowed in photos for me.

So that is my thought process, and I was just bouncing the ideas off the board.

I really appreciate the opinions.

This sounds like something I can find on CL for free, lots of people want to text for free in there. Originally Posted by BLM69

With all due respect, you're simply not the type of man who would be a good client for phone sex or sexting.

I've gotten SO many inquiries from men who say ... hey, let's give me a sample. If you want free fun, BLM, that's great and go for it.

If someone is searching for an experienced woman who can hone in on an individuals' certain desires and cravings, then someone such as myself or Angie would be very worthwhile to contact.

There are a few other Dallas ladies that offer phone time but this is something that you can search out from different people all over the US and other locations.

But have fun on those free calls. I've heard that sometimes, they can really pan out!!!

This topic is specifically asking for advice and questions. Not to be jazzed because you're constantly searching for the cheapest sexual entertainments that Dallas has to offer and if anyone else is searching for something different, in your eyes, it's not as worthwhile (or a waste of funds).

That's just BS and you know it. Happy holidays.

Best,
Elisabeth

Angie,

First, I hope that I answer the question that you're asking. You're asking about offering phone sex and sexting to a client base, new or otherwise, right? If so, I have a few thoughts for you.

I offer sexting and phone sex and I consider sexting to be a whole lot of fun.

But there are a few ways to go about it.

First, there are guys that see sex workers and there are guys who do phone sex and sexting.

There is some overlap but usually, the men that I've spoken to over the phone aren't escort clients.

Also, if you're offering phone sex, it's important to differentiate between a "fantasy" call and one that is suggesting what type of time together you would have if you were to meet.

I always make that distinction and it's important for a few reasons: You don't want to say God knows what to a guy (all conversations within the confines of what is legal to discuss, of course!) and then he could expect you to DO that if and when you met.

Between us girls , I will whisper some pretty shocking things to titillate a man's brain. But I might not even be able to do what I'm suggesting.

So make that distinction. And make that distinction anyway, even if you do plan on seeing him in person.

There are websites, and books, about all of this that would probably answer your questions better than my response. There are several books on Amazon that you can buy about the business of phone sex.

I'll have to go and look at what I have to make any suggestions as to which ones, though. Let me know if you wish for me to do that for you and I will. Some were a waste of funds but all of them offered some useful info.

Guys here are going to roll their eyes when I share this but my charge for both are around $100 an hour. $25-30 for the first 15 minutes or so. I will generally work with a guy on that a little bit but not much.

As a sex worker, I sell time.

So if someone wishes to do a bunch of sexting, I do not keep a timer, but I'm generous with time.

The client can either send me an Amazon gift card, which is anonymous and a lot of men like that, or I use a Square to charge it.

I'm open to different payment options. A few years ago, a guy purchased something from my Amazon wish list. Guess that he just wanted to treat this as a gift type of situation instead of what it was. And that was fine.

Just figure out how you wish to get paid.

It's not like I do this a lot, but I do it some and often offering this service can provide you a little extra here and once again, it's often quite a bit of fun. Can make you feel tingly.

I can really get into the sexting. And when a man is bored at work and wants a little sensual diversion for a bit of time, well ... gosh ... let's do it!!!

Since I wish to be easy going with time, and want my clients to come back, I tend to spoil them a bit.

And once, this has come back to bite me in the butt. A client was given probably twice the time that he paid for and honestly, I didn't mind. He was sweet but rather demanding over the phone.

But when I told him that we had really finished sexting, and that if he wished to do more of it he needed to pay me more, he got upset. Doubt he's on Eccie.

So you might consider being a little bit more businesslike in your encounters than I am. But that's just happened once in the past.

Also, if you're open to being on Skype or showing yourself online during these encounters, you of course should charge more.

But I don't know much about camming and what the industry standard is for that service, independently or otherwise.

Think that some of the answers above might be misinterpreting what you were asking, or perhaps I did.

I'll freely admit that I'm not the most experienced phone sex person out there. I've done it here and there for several years.

Would like to do MORE of it but I tend towards being picky and a guy has to send me an email first, because currently I'm not posting a phone number online.

Most phone sex guys want to call you, pay for the call, and get it on immediately. And at this time, I'm unable to offer that.

Plus, I don't wish to speak over the phone in the evenings too much.

But if you have the freedom to talk and chat at any time ... it could provide you with an additional income stream, for sure.

Good luck. If you have any questions, please feel free to send me a PM or just ask me here. I don't mind sharing my experiences and helping out others who are interested in trying this.

Best,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Could not offering both get you in legal hot water as well? For example, LE participates in sexting or good old fashion phone sex. Then they ask to setup a hour session.

Could they say the texts or phone sex was talking about acts that they later came to your incall and paid you to perform?

With all due respect, you're simply not the type of man who would be a good client for phone sex or sexting.

I've gotten SO many inquiries from men who say ... hey, let's give me a sample. If you want free fun, BLM, that's great and go for it.

If someone is searching for an experienced woman who can hone in on an individuals' certain desires and cravings, then someone such as myself or Angie would be very worthwhile to contact.

There are a few other Dallas ladies that offer phone time but this is something that you can search out from different people all over the US and other locations.

But have fun on those free calls. I've heard that sometimes, they can really pan out!!!

This topic is specifically asking for advice and questions. Not to be jazzed because you're constantly searching for the cheapest sexual entertainments that Dallas has to offer and if anyone else is searching for something different, in your eyes, it's not as worthwhile (or a waste of funds).

That's just BS and you know it. Happy holidays.

Best,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

These are your opinions and I have mine, what is your problem? I also see your statements in this subject as total BS! This is 2017 in case you haven't noticed, who in their right mind will pay for sexting?

About me looking for the "cheapest sexual entertainments" that is none of your business or who I visit with on or off this board, don't make this personal please, if you don't like what I have to say, use the block feature

Sounds like an avenue to FinDom. Quite the business.

Could not offering both get you in legal hot water as well? For example, LE participates in sexting or good old fashion phone sex. Then they ask to setup a hour session.

Could they say the texts or phone sex was talking about acts that they later came to your incall and paid you to perform? Originally Posted by grean

Could it not also serve as a legit defense? "No, your honor, I never meant to have sex for money, it was all just fantasy talk as part of my legit phone sex business."

I wouldn't mind venturing down that ave. I know alot of guys that are on the road and can't get to me right then and there.

These are your opinions and I have mine, what is your problem? I also see your statements in this subject as total BS! This is 2017 in case you haven't noticed, who in their right mind will pay for sexting?

About me looking for the "cheapest sexual entertainments" that is none of your business or who I visit with on or off this board, don't make this personal please, if you don't like what I have to say, use the block feature Originally Posted by BLM69

When I wrote what I did, figured it would hit a nerve. And although that was unfortunate, you did answer the topic and I was just responding to your statement.

I don't know you as a person but I haven't nothing against you at all. Was just merely making the point, and it's a true one, that a lot of men who search out street walkers and escorts aren't going to be the types who wish to pay for an online (or telephone/sexting) encounter.

No harm and no foul.

There are plenty of men who love hearing whispered naughty thoughts over the telephone and are more than willing to pay for it.

And there are plenty more who adore having someone who knows how to push mental buttons pay for the experience of sexting.

Making disparaging statements to the contrary, or suggesting that one can just get a similar experience for free, that could be true in some instances ... but if a guy wants what he wants when he wants it ... then paying a nominal fee for the service isn't a big deal.

And you might consider lightening up a little bit. Don't wish for you to get stressed out or have some sort of heart attack. It's the holidays!

And feel free to put me on ignore. I certainly know that I get on plenty of folks nerves on this board. Personally, I consider it a bit of an honor to be so annoying as to be put on ignore by someone.

Best,
Elisabeth